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DOTW: I have more than one best frens..

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Posted: 16 July 2008 at 6:03am | IP Logged

Is it wrong to have more than one best friends? Why is it that when we ask people about their best friends... They take only one name? And why is that a few people have more than one best friends? Are they confused between their friends..?? Am I making any sense?? LOL, Its rhyminggg!

And why do people usually ask, "Who is ur best friend?" and why not "Who are your best friends?" ??

I know the answers of my questions myself too.. :p but the purpose of this topic is to have a nice discussion on it and to let people know that it is not written anywhere that you can't keep more than one best friends.

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Posted: 16 July 2008 at 11:55am | IP Logged
Yes, I've thought about this alot of times Shiza..
I don't beleive in the term "Best Freinds" For me all my freinds are the same. When somebody asks me that question i just say "Lots" lol!!=)
 
I think why people ask you as if its one person is because normally there is always that one person who you can trust with matters, and their your best freind.. But i don't beleive in all that.=)
 
Nice Discusuion:P
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thats such a good question...and its so weid how i have never thought about that...i guess its just that its harder for us to have many best friends...we do have alot of friends but only one friend coz that person is really special..and u and they think alike...and its really hard for us to find someone like that..and when we do them and u become really close...
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No, I don't think that there has to be only one best friend.  You can have many many friends but best friends are those that you never think twice before sharing something with them.   And I do have more than one best friend.  So I guess it's one of those misconceptions that people usually hold true.
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Even I have more than one best friends...actually they are all close to me in different ways, so I can't decide who's the better friend...n I don't have too many close friends. So I consider them all as my best friends
 
Like there's one whom I've known since kindergarten...he knows all my secrets, n we have a very comfortable relationship...always teasing n fighting..
Another is a girl I met 3 years ago...we talk more about the present and the future, n all the latest gossip n stuff..
Then there's my ex-classmate...she keeps scolding me, n we are totally different in almost every way, but there's an indescribable bond between us.
The closest of them all is a guy I met one n a half years ago...we share a comfort level that I don't have with anyone else. We scold each other, advise each other, comfort, support, tease each other. He's the only person in this world whom I trust...
 
Even though he is the closest to me, I still call the others my best friends too...coz if any of them left me, I would feel that something's missing. I've met so many people, and have left them behind as I moved on in life...but I know that I can never leave these people behind.
 
As for it being right or wrong, friendship is something you can't limit. Friendship can never be wrong. N no matter how we term our friends, the truth is that they are our friends, so we can call them anything we want to, without fearing that it might be wrong.
 
 
 
 


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i am friends with everyone... but i have 5 best friends and we're really close to each other...
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Posted: 28 July 2008 at 10:48pm | IP Logged
awesome topic! actually i know exactly what you are talking about. i have 3 best friends....they r kinda like the sisters i neva had
life wud be so boring without dem
i love em so much<3

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