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SOTW - Last week's continuation.

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I advice you to go through this thread before you start on reading this week's situation.. because it is a continuation for last week's situation.

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=984950&T PN=1

For all those people who said "YES" in the previous thread:

What if... on the first night of marriage, your husband tells you that he is already married to some girl and... with you, it's his 2nd marriage. What would you do in such a situation?? His parents do not know about his previous marriage because he did it secretly.

So, his parents are not to be blamed. BUT... Would you blame your parents for it? Many of you would, but won't say in this thread. Actually even they are not to be blamed... The boy has all the qualities a girl dies for. Fine... It was your decision that you would marry anyone your parent wants you to marry... but why are they to be blamed? OR I should rather ask... Is anyone to be blamed?

And what could you do with his looks, money, etc etc when you could never call him YOURS?

Please try to answer all the questions I have in mind ... but if you don't have much time, then please do answer the part in bold specially :).



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Posted: 14 July 2008 at 2:23am | IP Logged
Originally posted by shizajaved

I advice you to go through this thread before you start on reading this week's situation.. because it is a continuation for last week's situation.

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=984950&T PN=1

For all those people who said "YES" in the previous thread:

since i said "yes" in the prev. situation..here's my point of why i said yes

- firslty i had a break-up..so it woundnt have mattered much even if the guy wasnt rich / handsome etc...as long as my parents are satisfied he's good for me..so thats why i would have married him.

What if... on the first night of marriage, your husband tells you that he is already married to some girl and... with you, it's his 2nd marriage. What would you do in such a situation?? His parents do not know about his previous marriage because he did it secretly.

if that happend^..i would obviously leave him. i mean...the boy would be mad then to get married twice..if he had a gf..that can still b imagined..but marriage is something u shud do only once .

So, his parents are not to be blamed. BUT... Would you blame your parents for it? Many of you would, but won't say in this thread. Actually even they are not to be blamed... The boy has all the qualities a girl dies for. Fine... It was your decision that you would marry anyone your parent wants you to marry... but why are they to be blamed? OR I should rather ask... Is anyone to be blamed?

if he has all the qualities that a girl would die for..then a girl like me would also want him to be honest n respect his parents. going by the new situation...he doesnt seem to be both...so ya boy to be blamed and even punished for breaking the law!

 

And what could you do with his looks, money, etc etc when you could never call him YOURS? as i said earlier...i would have married him not becoz of the qualities u said above..but for the sake of parents.

Please try to answer all the questions I have in mind ... but if you don't have much time, then please do answer the part in bold specially :).



Edited by Star_on_earth - 14 July 2008 at 3:10am
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I said no in that thread contrary to everyone. LOL But if I had said yes, in this situation, I would have told the truth to my parents and get a divorce..which might have been difficult but not impossible.
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Posted: 14 July 2008 at 9:48am | IP Logged
i said yes!!!
but before marrying i wud surely hair a detective..... LOL
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i wouldn't blame my parents. i would have a divorce, no questions asked.

that would be the end of that LOL
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Posted: 16 July 2008 at 3:13am | IP Logged
btw jus a doubt...the last situation emphasised on that "you were not allowed to meet the guy"...so i thought the new situation wud have something to do with it.....like the guy wud be mad or abnormal..(as in serials these days) but it wasnt like that
 
so just wondering would it have mattered if we could meet the guy before marriage?
i mean if he hasnt told his parents about his 1st marr. why would he tell the girl he was going to marry second time???Confused
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