For me thats just a silly question that"if you had a kid like Aastha?" A real mother could never behave like Simran and so there is no chance of getting this type of behaviour from REAL kids.
Originally posted by: MysteriousSkin
I can empathise with Astha! She had all the attention pouring on her and then suddenly Sia turns up and everyone is all ga-ga over Sia (and Simran was even trying to look for astha in divya, sia's friend earlier). I think that Simaran never fully accepted Astha...
To shower one with love because of a feeling of responsibility or because of a need to do the right things is different from a love that comes internally. And kids can sense a difference.
Anyway to continue, in a split second all that attention is taken away from Astha. Soon after astha learns about all the lies.... Simran hid that astha was neha's daughter understandably BUT after seeing Astha's reaction about the lies, she should have known better.
However she continued her lying ways - whether it was about Radha or Kiran or that Sia was her sister and abhimanyu was in town. Such continous lies coupled with the divided attention, Astha turned up the way she has.
And top it all, Sid also gives his whole hearted love to Sia...
Put yourselves in Astha's shoes.... its not easy dealing with the things that she is dealing with.
In my opinion, Simran should have given astha some space and time alone with abhi to sort things out and calm herself down. With Simran always around, Astha can feel suffocated....
GIVE ASTHA SOME SPACE!!! and NOT SLAPS.
If I had a kid like astha, I would show her straight up.....who's the master and who's the mut. Meaning, I would show her whose the parent and whose the child. Astha has the right to say whatever she wants and do whatever she wants, but Simran also has the right to smack astha up-side the head and make her shut her trap. If (when I actually have kids) my kid said the things astha says to Simran and treat her the way she does, I would forget that child abuse is illegal and a "wrong thing to do". I will NOT and I repeat NOT tolerate any of this bakwaas from a child.......especially my own kid. 😡
BUT my advice to Simran is too say Kiran is your mom and you should go stay with her. And then Kiran will make astha's life a living hell cause she's using astha to get back at Abhi and simran. That will make astha realize what a "GOOD MOM" simran was to her (even though she wasn't her biological mom)and forgive and forget. But seriously, Astha is pampered too much and is in deep need of a tight slap on the face.
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