Originally posted by: kiransgirlI don't believe people fall out of love. I think once you are truly in love, it doesn't change. I think a lot of people THINK they are in love or settle for a person they think the could love and it doesn't work out. I don't have an answer to the question. I can only think of my perspective: when I was younger I thought I was so in love but now I realize that I was infatuated. I liked the person very much. I liked the idea of him. He was my best friend but now I understand the difference. We had a great friendship but we were not in love. I am in love now. There is a difference in romantic love and friendship. I don't think you can fall out of love when you are truly in love. I remember with my first boyfriend, I wasn't in love but I GREW to love him. It was never a passionate, intense love; it was stable, comfortable and we made a beautiful couple, so it seemed right. We had so much in common. Both academics so we could take about higher ed and we had all of our friends in common.But my present love is intense. I fell in love the moment I saw him. Once I got to know him, I just was more drawn to him. The feeling I can only describe as intense. We are complete opposites. He's a sport fanatic and I hate sports. But somehow, I have never been happier in my life.I think also with my first boyfriend, I used to TRY to be happy; with my love now, I don't have to try. I am just simply. It's a part of my being. It feels natural.The issue I have with the show is how I feel cheating is justified. If you truly love, you don't cheat. You sort things out and you move along. By the way, you know with certainty. There aren't doubts about your feelings. And you are incapable of cheating; when you truly love the person fidelity is easy.So that's why I feel Mauli needs to move on and I hope they find her a beautiful, true love story where she sees love is truthful and you can be the one and only one.
Originally posted by: TerenainaEven someone you love and who loves can cheat on you. Let's not be blind in love and say those who in love don't cheat. Only someone who hasn't lived that long of years would say that. Cheat can be out of love, it can be attraction, it can be lust, can be boredom and many other reasons
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