Originally posted by: brownpride
Hi everyone,
I know I will be bashed and everything but that's fine I wrote before and finally got the courage to write a post again I mean I read everything on here but I think it's high time I try and spread a bit of love I know what Nandani did was wrong but think about it you were married to a guy who treated you like a slave beat you tortured you and then force himself on you and then to top it of sell you as if you were his prostitute and he your pimp for his business gains. Whenever he got a chance he would throw himself on Nandani when he was intoxicated and never in his senses why? Maybe he knew that if he was drunk he would be able to use more power and force and just hurt her more? I feel for Mauli as she does not deserve what happened to her but in some case it was also her fault I mean trying to be super human isn't right you have a husband spend time don't avoid him and work as a team include Kunal in his dream project support him but what Mauli did was leave a void he wanted to spend time with his wife get that alone time I mean Nandani is your friend but she should have separated it where she should have some alone time with Kunal and time for Nandani she shouldn't have to drag them when Kunal kept on saying to her he just wanted to spend time with her only.come to Kunal he shouldn't have cheated and acted more mature and communicated this clearly with Mauli but then again it's human nature to get tempted and then it's your own self control that you go for it or don't but in all this all three characters have some fault but Nandani's main fault is that she was a coward and didn't say no and she also gave into a new feeling that she has never experienced and was trying so hard to not fall into it she even tried to leave I mean people she is not a dark character she is just a sponge who follows or goes where she feels secure she felt secure with Mauli and Kunal and yes she is wrong to have sex with Kunal but it was the temptation that was to strong and she is not mentally stable so her character is more of a person who isn't fully aware and is easily manipulated.
Sorry for the long post but please do comment and tell me if I am wrong or if you agree
I so feel for you. Even I visit this forum but the level of intolerance I see here and utter disregard for dispassionate and neutral POVs is something I have never seen before and it's not even funny how Metis locks posts under all kinds of pretexts, it's moralistic, it's allowing too much bashing, and all kinds of other so-called reasons.
There is no tolerance here, no democracy and no maturity. Sad but I am stating things as I have experienced and seen here and coming from the antithesis of this forum, I am saddened to state all this.
Sad because the makers have chosen a bold story, have chosen not to make the characters totally evil or totally good just so that EMA becomes palatable, they have made tough choices and on top of it all, all of us should have the courage to admit that such things do happen every day all around us and not be so judgmental because each character has many layers to it.
Nobody is justifying EMA here. We are just saying it's extremely sad all around for each and every person involved but well it does happen, nothing is fixed and frozen in life including love, people change, situations change, chemistry happens, one finds oneself drawn to others, sometimes one ends up giving in, there are weak moments but nothing justifies it but all this does happen. Shit does happen!
It would be so much better if one were less judgmental and one just watched the story the makers have planned for us!
But then I guess I am expecting too much from this forum.
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