Why so much hatred? - Page 2

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

1 So we all agree that Nandini's life was hell, Rajdeep abused her, raped her, killed her baby, can you tell who fought Rajdeep in hospital? Who took care of Nandini when she was trying to heal herself? Kunal or Mauli?do you think a random man Kunal would have brought Nandini in his home? She was living with Kunal because Mauli was good enough to help her friend who cheated her once, but as they say once a cheater aways a cheater, Nandini's life can change but not her fitrat, she is a backstabber by nature.

2 Was Nandini responsible for the abuses she had to endure? No, right so how's Mauli responsible if Kunal and Nandini are cheaters? Forget Nandini, who's Mauli's friend, which woman who has gone through years of rape will jump in bed with another man at first opportunity? That too with her friend's, her savior's husband

exactly how much I have heard a rape victim or person who has been sexually touched inappropriately takes time to get attached with some1 knew. 

Originally posted by: brownpride

Hi everyone,
I know I will be bashed and everything but that's fine I wrote before and finally got the courage to write a post again I mean I read everything on here but I think it's high time I try and spread a bit of love I know what Nandani did was wrong but think about it you were married to a guy who treated you like a slave beat you tortured you and then force himself on you and then to top it of sell you as if you were his prostitute and he your pimp for his business gains. Whenever he got a chance he would throw himself on Nandani when he was intoxicated and never in his senses why? Maybe he knew that if he was drunk he would be able to use more power and force and just hurt her more? I feel for Mauli as she does not deserve what happened to her but in some case it was also her fault I mean trying to be super human isn't right you have a husband spend time don't avoid him and work as a team include Kunal in his dream project support him but what Mauli did was leave a void he wanted to spend time with his wife get that alone time I mean Nandani is your friend but she should have separated it where she should have some alone time with Kunal and time for Nandani she shouldn't have to drag them when Kunal kept on saying to her he just wanted to spend time with her only.come to Kunal he shouldn't have cheated and acted more mature and communicated this clearly with Mauli but then again it's human nature to get tempted and then it's your own self control that you go for it or don't but in all this all three characters have some fault but Nandani's main fault is that she was a coward and didn't say no and she also gave into a new feeling that she has never experienced and was trying so hard to not fall into it she even tried to leave I mean people she is not a dark character she is just a sponge who follows or goes where she feels secure she felt secure with Mauli and Kunal and yes she is wrong to have sex with Kunal but it was the temptation that was to strong and she is not mentally stable so her character is more of a person who isn't fully aware and is easily manipulated.
Sorry for the long post but please do comment and tell me if I am wrong or if you agree

So much justification for Kunal and Nandini! Ohh she was mentally unstable, ohh but the temptation was so strong, ohh kunal's mistake is just human nature. But when it came to Mauli, you gave her no benefit of doubt. Victim blaming at its best.

Going by your own logic, even Nandini was at fault in her marriage and she should share the blame with Rajdeep. She failed to become the type of girl Rajdeep likes. She failed to make Rajdeep love her. Maybe she shivered too much & that put him off. Maybe she deserved his beatings because she was such a coward. Maybe Rajdeep knew that Nandini was a characterless person who can sleep with anyone if given a chance, and hence he treated her that way. You see what I did here? I justified the acts of an abusive ass****. Is it right? No. Similarly, a cheater should not be justified by blaming his wife.

Originally posted by: harshiidiv

I agree with u dear

Ppl just blindly running behind nandini to bash her ,mock her & what not..

While mauli is a devi ..

I don't agree with u since ur post reeks of victim blaming. On one part u are giving benefit of doubt to both Kunal and Nandini stating abt physical temptation  ( pukeworthy to say the least ) and unstable mental condition when in reality Nandini is completely aware of what she is doing. On the other side u straight away blamed Mauli for not giving time to Kunal. So if the spouse is not able to devote some time in the relation , the only other resort left is to seek solace in other person ? I thought it happens in each and every marriage and u just have to TALK  to each other and understand what is going wrong. Then don't u think even Nandini shd be blamed for all the abuse she got. Since she wasn't able to keep her husband happy. Edited by TheSmurfs - 5 years ago

If nothing comes in defense just start victim blaming.
Edited by abhiya_12 - 5 years ago

Originally posted by: brownpride

Totally agree that Mauli is the victim but if you remember it was Kunal who stopped her from
Committing suicide and then Mauli came late. So that is why she is saying that Kunal helped her Kunal did help her by saying don't do this your friend won't be able to take it. But yes Mauli has always been there for Nandani but both Kunal and Mauli helped Nandani in there own respective

But she hasn't given any of the credit for that to Mauli but just Kunal. On two different occasions she has refused to give any credit to Mauli and gave all the credit to her aashiq, which is quite convenient of Nandini to pretend like her sautan isn't her best friend who did so much for her and pretend like it was all her bed buddy Kunal. Nandini is shameless, a husband chorni as well as suffering from amnesia. What a combination. 😆

You r delusional to make such a post. Cause Characters like Nandini deserve everything. I think she is worse than rajdeep. Cause he is honest upfront and out write negative, u don't get deceived but with likes of nandini like mauli u will get played n made fool of till u Serve her purpose or r useful to her. 

maybe if kunal took on some of the responsibilities and not leave it on the the shoulders on mauli then maybe she would have time to spend with him, or idk talk to her, there is a thing called communication in a relationship. tbh its the way the characters are being present, they make them do and say such crappy stuff but try to present them as poius. at the end of the day people will have a hard time giving sympathy to either nandini or kunal no matter what happens to them. ema is such a turn off

So do you mean that whenever a person is busy and doesn't give "ample" time to his/her spouse, the partner has a "right" to go around sleeping with other people? 

I feel like the hatred comes from people seeing Nandani as someone who has betrayed her best friend that did everything in her power to save her from her abusive husband. That is understandable. People can hate her for that as much as they want. But I think it seems like that is being used as an excuse to bash her for every single move she makes. Nothing she does or says or feels are considered right because she's not given a chance to tell her own side.