Originally posted by: chulbuliladkiI agree with this post whole heartedly. No matter what Nandini does I don't think it is right to say she deserved the abuse or was better off with Rajdeep. Mazak mazak me bhi aise bolna sahi nahi hoga. I don't think one realises the consequences of being in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship for long. Nobody chooses to be raped or assaulted and nobody deserves it. I always thought Kunal would be the one to get bashed the most as he is riding on two boats and playing with both ladies and their emotions but it kind of surprises me to see most of the hate aimed at Nandini. They are equally responsible for me in this but Kunal pisses me off more. You were in a happy marriage and still chose to do what you did. I find that unacceptable in all ways.
Agree with you!!!!
I also think I am in any way NOT justifying what Nandini does, and I have never done that. All I am trying to say that it kind of makes sense. Of course it is fiction and reality is very hard and harsh, but that doesn't mean to use derogatory terms to talk about a woman - ANY WOMAN!!!! That includes Mauli's mom too who can be hard to digest at times. I will never ever advocate violence for anyone - including Rajdeep.
How we speak and behave speaks a lot. We can critique it is perfectly okay but it has to be done with courtesy. At the end of the day regardless of our personal views, we are humans and if we are calling names to a fictional character, what does that mean? we cannot control our emotions towards a fictional character? In reality things aren't as it is shown and I think we all are smart enough to know that. I don't respond to rude and derogatory comments. If you cannot add value then I have nothing say to you is my motto 😊
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