Originally posted by: Anahi
always up for healthy discussions.
sorry i am using mobile so kindly avoid typos.
i wont comment on what nandini deserves.. but i know this is not something mauli deserves.. if nandini were not her best friend, if she were not indebted to mauli, if mauli had not been such extra ordinarily supporting friend to nandini , if nandini were not a VICTIM of abuse and bad marriage , if she didnt know the importance of good husband and had not ever craved for true love then i would have understood HER .. since she herself been a victim of bad marriage she should REALISE what she is doing with her best friend.. being in love, being emotionally driven or longing for happiness can not justify her deeds..
if mauli were not her friend and they were strangers , i would have probably sympathized with nandini.. but what she has done is completely wrong and can not make me empathise with her.. i may pity her, may sympathize if she ended up being alone or being ditched by kunal..but empathy.. no!! and trust me, i really dont want her to get ditched again.. i wish she could have realised that loving kunal was fine but having a sexual or love relation with him is nothing but backstabbing mauli..
u say kunal is the only happiness in her life and mauli is a second thought, i say she CHOSE kunal to be her only happiness ,and her priority.. she could have chosen mauli as a reason for her happiness, she could have made mauli her priority. who wouldnt want a friend like mauli? i pity nandini as she is going to lose a gem like mauli for her preferences.. we all know kunal is the biggest loser ever.. chosing him over mauli is such a pity. a guy who has no reasons to fall out of love with his legal wife.. i wonder if nandini who always keep thinking about kunal and her love ,had ever thought logically that what made kunal falling out of love with mauli?? or does he love both??
it was friendship vs love (+backstabbing ur best frnd). she chose latter.. She was attracted towards kunal and was indebted to both kunal and mauli.. She CHOSE to ACCEPT kunal's love and not mauli's happiness.. It was a CHOICE made by her.. doesnt she know accepting kunal's love means betraying mauli??
She didnt get carried away , she was happy even after getting into her senses or say she was always in her senses while making a physical relationship with kunal.. she wasnt thinking about mauli.. not at that time and never after that incidence she ever thought about mauli.. u say mauli is second on her mind but i think the thing called mauli is not at all playing in her mind.. not even when she faced mauli.. tell me how to empathise with her???
she is backstabbing her friend ... not once but every day.. from accepting rose from kunal to accepting his love and then sleeping wih him.. this kills viewers like me.. i can not imagine myself doing this to my friend no matter how much attracted i am to her husband or bf..
i know i am not an abused person like nandini but i have already explained since she being in an abused relationship, she should have valued true relations more which she didnt.
kunal.. who said we are only blaming nandini.. it was kunal who initiated all this.. he was the one who had a sacred relationship called marriage with mauli.. oh! he still has
in my eyes both are equally wrong.. kunal was never out of love with mauli.. he was very much loving husband till few episodes back . he was caring, understanding, loving, cute , innocent and a genteman.. he has no excuse to fall out of love with mauli.. but yet he CHOSE to name his feelings for nandini.. and he named it Love. what a joke!! i agree he tried to fight with his thoughts but at the end he chose to be with nandini. in his case it was ATTRACTION (+symapthy) vs LOVE (+MARRIAGE) and like nandini made a choice he too made a choice.. kunal was all frantic, mad, delusional, childish , immature and a love-sick-pupoy during the whole i-love-nandini track . i wonder if he is a real doctor and a man in his 30s?? does he even know the meaning of love?? love is love .. for me there are no such things called true or false love.. love may happen twice or more than that. but for that one needs to get out of one relationship first (not only physically but mentally too) and then going for another relationship.. and it was no gf/bf relationship .. this relationship was marriage and he chose not to respect it..
nandini can definitely fall for kunal but kunals reasons for falling for her are plain bogus.. nobody is convinced except few..
whether they truly love each other is a debatable topic and people may have their own reasons to stand with or against them but them chosing each other over mauli who is a saviour for one and wife to other is a big shame..
again, i wont comment on what nandini deserves.. at this point of time i really dont know the answer.. i CHOSE to wish good for mauli than choosing bad for nandini as right now mauli is the one i am concerned for.. SHE DEFINITELY DOESNT DESERVE THIS !
and thats making almost everyone hate nandini.. its more about "backstabbing a person like mauli" more than "kunal-nandini love saga"..
its all about the choices they both have made..
and i dont think kunal is playing with nandini's mind.. She is an adult though immature but its not a kheer making thing for which kunal had convinced her.. i know even we adult people also get emotionally blackmailed by loved ones but like i said it not a simple thing for which she is being convinced by kunal.. it was a huge step.. a step which could pave path for her happiness but to destroy her friends happiness.. and she chose her happiness over mauli's happiness and trust..
ps : its really late.. i will reply to u tomorrow if u want to go for futhur discussion 😊
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