This content was originally posted by: SummerRain7Wow! Interesting stuff!! Never heard of it before.
RES for now. I shall come back later to comment.your post on kunal's story reminded me of love languages. so I thought will put it up. looking forward to your comment. :)
this is something I have seen I many people around me including my sister in law!! And always felt that it's the same case for Nandu! Showing the gratitude also! But thanks for the book reference dear...This content was originally posted by: mango_pudding1- think nandini's love language is acts of service and so she expresses her love and affection through cooking.have you heard about love languages? do you know what yours is?
This content was originally posted by: moumita.madhukthis is something I have seen I many people around me including my sister in law!! And always felt that it's the same case for Nandu! Showing the gratitude also! But thanks for the book reference dear...
About my love language... I am still wondering!!😆😆take the quiz! I was surprised. I was sure that it would be acts of service but it turned out to be words of affirmation first and then acts of service. very interesting.. certainly explains why I hold on deeply if someone says something where I feel offended...
This content was originally posted by: mango_pudding1
take the quiz! I was surprised. I was sure that it would be acts of service but it turned out to be words of affirmation first and then acts of service. very interesting.. certainly explains why I hold on deeply if someone says something where I feel offended...
This content was originally posted by: mango_pudding1adding disclaimer just in case: am only watching this show for the train wreck factor and am not on any team -- neither nandini, mouli or kunal. and yes, ema is wrong and hurtful.here is the list and explanation:#1. words of affirmation -- the need to feel appreciated; Words hold real value within this language. Furthermore, negative or insulting comments cut deep and won't be easily forgiven.#2. quality time -- full, undivided attention; Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful to these individuals. Being there for them is crucial.#3 receiving gift -- it is not about being materialistic but a meaningful or thoughtful present makes them feel appreciated#4 acts of service -- actions speak louder than words. Lending a helping hand shows you really care. Basically, if you're not willing to show your appreciation by doing them a favor, you're saying you don't value them.#5 physical touch -- nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch. so hugs, pats, light touch is important with them.so back to this whole issue of cooking -- think nandini's love language is acts of service and so she expresses her love and affection through cooking. it is also possible that besides being a foodie, kunal's love language is also acts of service. so having someone cook for you feels like you are loved and appreciated. so rather than being about food or any criticism about mouli, perhaps, it is about mix-up of love languages and communications. just some food for thought!
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