SPA'18 photoshoot begins?Avneil not a part? - Page 6

Originally posted by: SRKisLove

@jennifer: Honestly, I think you are confusing me with someone else. 

No..I'm not confusing you with someone else SRKisLove, if I'm right, Ananya.

I criticise male characters for sure, because let's face it Gul shows have really bad male leads. Which is one of the reasons I really like Neil so much because he's such a good guy. He respects Avni, and thankfully no abusive behaviour.

Criticising is different from mocking/bashing/abusing. There is a difference between the fictional character and real person. Often I have seen even you forgetting the fine line between these two. Hatred for a character I can understand but hatred towards actors just because they play characters, I will never seem to understand.

There is a reason these are called fictional characters. Fictional characters are meant to be judged based on the whole story which is infront of us rather than judging them based on certain scenes which you don't like. And I see that in you. And you being a writer, I see this is effecting even your works tbh.And as a reader, I see that even in your fanfictions because of which I stopped reading your work.

Each and every fictional character will be different from each other and they have different stories to cross to become a better person with each passing day in almost all the shows and characters be it Shivaay, Omkara, Rudra, Neil, kabir, Aditya, karthik... So how can you compare two characters when they have two different individual characteristics and they evolved into better persons with time...

If you are taking my criticism of the male leads in Gul shows as criticism of the couple, then I can't help it. 🥱

No..I'm not taking criticism of male leads as criticism to couple. You can even criticize a person or character without mocking/bashing/abusing. I see you forget often the line between reel and real and get carried over with your emotions because of your liking to others.

Let me put it this way. From your works and comments you sound like you r more towards women say feminism. I see your signature: Men are trash. So what does this mean?? All men r trash?? Think over again because men exist in reel and real too.

Coming to criticism alone: SO when you say you want to see woman to be projected more strong I feel happy seeing that. But then again, are your thoughts only meant to be on paper or in comments or do you actually follow them. I saw and read few comments where few of you were maligning relationships in a show by calling a female character as draupadi including men who are brothers like devars to that female character. As a regular reader, I understood the reason you people were saying such things. Just because you didn't get proper story or ss for the character you like, you mock/abuse/bash other characters by such terms...So Is this what criticism is? Can't criticism be better than this? And people who fight for female characters and criticize so called male characters were the ones supporting and enjoying such comments. I think criticism and feminism is way more than this. And one should not use this terms to justify their actions.

Anyways, I just saw some comments talking about IB fandom in general on this thread. So l just thought to clarify that all IB fans are not the same. That issue is clear and done with. So I have nothing more to add.  I didn't intend to hijack this thread, sorry if it looks like that. 😲

Yes, your intention was to clear all IB fans are not the same. But if you go back and see, you tried to clear Rikara fans are not bashers whereas Shivika fans are bashers which is not true again. Bashers exist in RIkara fandom too and above example is one for such thing. At the same time, not all Shivika fans are bashers, only a part of them are. Same applies to all fandoms be it Avneil, Adiya, kara,kaira... So how can you clear saying Shivika fans bash everyone while Rikara fans don't.

 

Originally posted by: SRKisLove

I still think you are confused tbh.

My fanfics? I wrote 1 single OS in my entire life. I'm not a writer at all. If that counts as 'works' baba, go back and check. 

Or maybe there is some difference in how we count.😆

And hatred for actors?? That's impossible, I've never hated on an actor. Yes, I've said that a particular actor needs to work on something or the other, even that for that matter I don't remember. But hating on an actor, never, I can differentiate between actor and character you know.

Your moral essay is kinda useless, I think you confused me with someone else, and I can also guess who. I'm not her. 

PS. Draupadi is my fav character from Mahabharata. So if I compare someone to her that's actually an appreciation and not bashing. 🥱

PPS: Men are trash. Surveys by UN have confirmed that the single largest threat to women are men. If 1 man out of 50 is not abusing women, then that does not absolve him of any guilt, since he's doing nothing to stop his fellow men, or protect women.🥱


Also, this not my first post in this forum. 

Originally posted by: SRKisLove

I still think you are confused tbh.

Well, when people don't have answers to certain questions they do think the other person is getting confused. Not your fault at all. But as far as I'm concerned, I'm not at all getting confused Ananya.

My fanfics? I wrote 1 single OS in my entire life. I'm not a writer at all. If that counts as 'works' baba, go back and check. 

Of course, you wrote one single OS on SvetRi and I'm talking about that only. Either you write one or more, you will be considered a writer. And not to forget, the other writings on different platforms also counts when I say your work.

Or maybe there is some difference in how we count.😆

Yes, absolutely there is a difference. Because you forgot your writing on other social media.

And hatred for actors?? That's impossible, I've never hated on an actor. Yes, I've said that a particular actor needs to work on something or the other, even that for that matter I don't remember. But hating on an actor, never, I can differentiate between actor and character you know.

If I'm not wrong you are the same person who talked about an actress being a prodigy to a producer 😆😉 all because just an actor was getting story ... And not to forget the same comment finally led to a war of words which resulted in the closure of a thread. Sit back and think what is this called? And also please go back and review your own comments in which you have mentioned number of times that your posts are being removed from certain threads. Why?? If you don't know let me tell you. Most of the comments removed are the bashing/mocking/abusing of actors and also characters going overboard with language.

Recently, you couldn't even take a members pov on your post and started bashing her and other fandoms which again resulted in removing your comments as well as few others comments. What Is this called?

Your moral essay is kinda useless, I think you confused me with someone else, and I can also guess who. I'm not her. 

Once again I would like to clear I'm not at all confused 😳 but still if you think I'm, then I doubt you have a twin with the same name and using same account who posts those comments bashing/mocking/abusing actors and characters.

PS. Draupadi is my fav character from Mahabharata. So if I compare someone to her that's actually an appreciation and not bashing. 🥱

Oh god...are u serious??😆 so by this, you are accepting you had called a certain character draupadi including her brothers as well as devars (as in referring brothers,devars to pandavas😲😲) as her partners...😲 how disgusting it is to hear and read???🤢 all this only because a certain charcater was hugged by her devars who are also brothers (by kanyadaan) after she was rescued from a life threatening situation...👏👏👏

Wah...Kya criticism hai👏👏 Kya appreciation hai👏👏👏 appreciation where brothers cum devars are made partners to a bhabhi calling her draupadi just because they hugged her...😆 and again I see certain fighting for strong female leads when they themselves abuse the others on the name of appreciation.

PPS: Men are trash. Surveys by UN have confirmed that the single largest threat to women are men. If 1 man out of 50 is not abusing women, then that does not absolve him of any guilt, since he's doing nothing to stop his fellow men, or protect women.🥱

Well...now I get it. 😆 you are like a bookworm who read books and give them as evidence to prove your point. People learn from experiences in life. And I whole heartedly wish and pray to God to give you some good experiences so that you can see if this theory what you have taken from books/journals/websites or whatever is true to what extent.😳  Good luck ahead!!!

Also, this not my first post in this forum. 

Of course I know...this is not your first post.😳 But that doesn't mean you can just put the blame on others entirely just because you got an opportunity.