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~!!Infertility - Why Blame Only Women?!!~ (Page 2)

naumandaudj Newbie

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Posted: 05 January 2018 at 6:58am | IP Logged

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This is such a beautiful thread. My heartiest congratulations to everyone who took time to make this wonderful, wonderful thread. I believe it's high time we talk about motherhood as a choice and as something that doesn't define a woman. 

Unfortunately ours is a world that views women under very specific labels. She is a daughter, a sister, a wife and a mother. And the last role is what defines her ultimately, not her academic achievements, not her voice and certainly not her choice. 

Motherhood to me is a very private topic. One that must not have interference of anyone other than the partners involved. It should be a choice. And when made it should be free of taboos and stigma that is usually associated with the same. The emotional struggle and pain is something no woman should be made to experience and it is high time we understand that a woman's role is much more than being a womb on legs. And if she isn't able to give birth, it doesn't mean she is no longer human. 

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saya86 Newbie

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Posted: 08 January 2018 at 12:13am | IP Logged
Infertility is not always related to women. Male infertility is also as common as female infertility. So why is this always associated with females??? 
If a women is not able to conceive, it should be told as the couple is not able to conceive, instead of blaming one person.  
I am not trying to put all the blame on husband or trying to be feminist. But in my opinion, this will help the the couple to face the infertility together, instead of blaming it on each other. And together they will be stronger. 
I (we) have faced infertility for 4 years and the infertility journey was much easier when we started facing it together, and became support system for each other.

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opsora2090 IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 08 January 2018 at 6:52am | IP Logged
Such a beautiful thread

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missnavya Newbie

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Posted: 08 January 2018 at 8:12am | IP Logged
This is just an eye opener to the hypocritical and judgemental socieBroken Heartty which thinks that a woman who cannot have children is a bane ...ShockedAngryAngry... A womans identity is tarnished because of this ... No matter whether she is a good person .. she is a bane...cos she's not having a kid...Broken Heart

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.MishtyLove. IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 08 January 2018 at 8:14am | IP Logged
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.Priyanka- IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 09 January 2018 at 10:45pm | IP Logged
such a beautiful thread

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.sweetchick. IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 10 January 2018 at 1:08pm | IP Logged
Hat's off for coming up with such a sensitive topic. Society has always shown women as weak. There're small changes though but it'll take a lot of time for women to get the same rights as men in so many countries. 
I got to know about a lot of details of how infertility is being perceived and the solutions found. Thank you for sharing it. 

Brillant WUs and looove the graphics! 

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