catch you by the collar!

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IKRS Monday 14th March 2016 ep 188 My Take ~ catch you by the collar!

To be collared can mean, to be arrested stopped from fleeing.. it means to challenge too.In today's episode, the  ceremony of  ripping  Raja's collar down to his chest.. was called auspicious  by the elders. Within certain cultures, the tearing of one's clothes, is a sign of deep pain and an occasion for mourning and sorrow. Raja's chest was laid bare, it's hard to see his black heart, in comparison to Viplav, Dhani's and Shalu's pure hearts..

Blessed is the day when the daughter   of a household is destined to  be married off.  Shalu's family  rejoices  with fanfare and celebration .In the unfortunate absence of her father. Her one and only  beloved older brother  Viplav goes to town with  jubilations by being  the first to initiate  his vibrant dancing  for his sister. Shalu is his only sister , the day marks both happiness and a tad sadness too , for him. As  her brother along with the rest of her family his wish is  give his sister a warm and blessed send off. Viplav is a live wire on this occasion and gets carried away slightly..only to be checked  by his stern  looking dada ji ,who gives his wife a disapproving look too, as  dadi  too seem to be  washed away by the robust  cadence of the song and lyrics! But much to every one's surprise ,today Dashrant tirpathi  too will let himself go well and proper! As it is Shalu' pre-wedding sangeet ..  Shalu who in his  and her mothers eyes is nothing much to look at due to her obesity. Today the girl will be wedded  more so because  of his power and prestigious name!  So that's good enough a reason to shake a leg with his wife! Amidst all the  families in song and dance..the footsteps of the sketch artist   cross the threshold with  Dhani's A-3 size pencil sketch in his hand the man  hold Dhani's sketch and weaves in and out of the dancing    family  looking for Viplav.Dhani's picture passes by all, dshrant ,Raja , till the artist comes across Viplav   who is full on in dance mode and moves his face  aside. Dhani's mother in law   Kanak as it were reaches out for the heena bowl walks across and gets  bumps against the man hold the sketch which flies down on the  floor and     Kanak's jostles  tips the heena pot  and it splatters  right on   Dhani's  sketched face.  Viplav looks down, apologies follow as the sketch aritist gives him the news that is the sketch . Viplav  takes it in a stride, takes the upside mehdi   bowl.. Raja and his mother give each other   odd looks.

At the ashram   Raj laxmi brings  her friend Dhani down in red sari . sita ,Dulari and inderani are stunned but nevertheless their hearts  swell  with tremendous pride at seeing Dhani dressed as abride. Raj laxmni is always one to follow her heart and in Dhani's   bond with Viplav  she sees complete  affinity with both the lovers ,infact mamy a times she has  clearly  suggested  Dhani   abscond and a just get married to Viplav.. its like she knows what is the truth but will wait till her friend is ready to tell all

Dhani's sketch may be splotched  with heena , but the one on Viplav's phone in a white sari is crystal clear and Viplav  utters  prophetic words to Dhani on the  face time , Dhani it's time now for you to enter  this household  as its daughter in law.. Viplav relates the  desired practice by families , as the daughter   marries and leaves  to become a daughter in law , she makes way for her brothers wife  to become the daughter in law in the house she leaves .  Raja watches  Viplav' screen saver of dhani and glares scoffing   at both Viplav and Dhani   

Rajlaxmi  brings Dhani closer to the aghast widows dressed in her red sari gives them a reality check  they'd better  get used to accepting Dhani in  semblances that  are not white ..Dhani looks stunning in the red sari..whereas,  at AN Viplav danced before  his sister Shalu and lifted the spirits of the sangeet.. here  Dhani s friend like a real sister  dances before Dhani and the ashram ladies and  all celebrate the  auspicious moment that will mark Dhani's wedding.. not so far now! so  Song and dance in the ashram, in ecstasy  Rajlaxmi dances  gets carried away and accidentally pulls   Dhani's hands  to dance and alongside , the sari pallu is torn!   All are shocked! Dulari as a anxious ,mother calls  it an ill omen, right away!  but  Inderani the voice of reason, reminds this is  new age  of reason and dismisses  talk of inauspicious as backward now! no one believes in such things! But for Dulari her little Dhani is her only wealth!

 Kanak flaunts her wealth, shows mami Shalu's red  wedding lehenga, with  embroidered motifs  of gold thread, no expense spared as Shalu is being  the only daughter hence will marry her off in the big fat wedding way! little does  Kanak know that the Awsathi's too  are going for the affluence  that  Kanak boasts about!   Kanak is called  away, and  mami  urge to get her hands on the gold thread  itches her palms to  commit theft! ...naught to stop her too. mami's kleptomania is just a comic element to steal..her family is no different  they are  in it also to  steal from this family! All that this tirpathi family has in terms of assets. They will pretend to do them a favour by marrying their daughter but in truth they are selling their son Raja to steal back power that they once had.. the rest of the avasthi's  are premeditated  under cover fraudulent raiders!  

 Viplav is the master of ceremonies, he is needed to initiate  so many ,traditional rituals, and he is bright as a bubble to tackle every task! After all he is the bride's brother! and the older one too.. so no task at his sister's wedding is herculean  for him!        the man is ready as the word go!!  Tearing the apparel? he's  not pleased about this, moans to dadi  but it's his brand new kurta ,had he known it is going  to be ripped! he would have worn an old one! Dadi   tells him off , no not his kurta ,but he's got to   tear Raja's kurta   from collar to chest down! Viplav loves the sound of this tradition   and rubs his palms in  gusto    ! 

 It's part of the haldi ceremony where by the groom purifies his body to be offered in marriage.. Raja sits ready to be purified by  haldi paste.. his mother bends before him and applies  it on his cheeks first , raises her eyes up  at him, and says full of sly deceptive evil,  today  due to him, their lost  status,wealth is being reinstated..his mother thanks  him for doing that.

Viplav approaches Raja, announces, so jeeja ji ready to be disrobed today! and slowly  Viplav approaches his brother in law, his fingers  from both palms swaying and twirling, ready to  rip Raja's collar but Viplav  nears Raja's collar, Raja stop him in a surly manner, he doesn't want this ripping the collar  tradition performed on him!  his embarrassed  mother glares  at him, coaxing  him with her eyes get it done for the wealth! She bids him , do it,  it's a good omen and dadi too joins in and says , yes its  auspicious! Viplav reassures him.. not to worry he'll get him a new kurta for him..then Viplav grips raja's collar and rips it apart! from his neck right down to his chest..to prove his strength of being  alway's Shalu's brother!!! Basically  Viplav lays bare his chest.. put off Raj gathers his ripped collar together and muses, don't worry Viplav very soon you your self will also rip your  love into  two pieces !  how pathetic Suman was the only girl in the whole of benaras  Viplav could find to fall in love with! 

Dhani wants to go out to buy sari but Dulari  tells her no not to step out of ashram.Raja  is so low he'll catch her if she goes out immediately. Besides her sari tore , it's considered an  ill omen feels like some inauspicious is about to happen .. mother's premonition  but Dhani insists nothing inauspicious will happen..it cannot change her destiny. Dulari prays it happens all is fine

Mami takes out lehnga and pulls the golden threads, says if a little comes off no one will notice  Kanak calls her mami coves her self with bed cover, so Kanak cannot see the lenghna on her..  Kanak tries to pull the bedcover!  Mami feigns illness!  doesn't sulochna   comes in, takes over and covers up! that's what these avasthi's do cover up for each other! Mami is told off!

 Teasing his baby sister  continues  between  Viplav and his Shalu!  he  takes Shalus' picture on  phone says she looks nice for a change! Some woman who knows Raja' back ground comes in asking Viplav  about boys famiy. In time she is whisked away and sorted by mami who asks,  she is the woman  whose husband was  blamed for stamp scam? the woman flees..  mami tells suloshana,  lucky they  had something on the woman otherwise they would have been exposed today..

 Viplav is one husband /groom about whom everything is exceptional.. his marriage  had deities  themselves rejoicing from the heavens! He uses modern technology  to sneak in his wife Dhani into the nooks and crannies of AN.. via face time, his beloved  attends all the pre- nuptials occasions. Now after having seen the haldi ceremony. Viplav too craves to see how his beloved wife Dhani , purifies  herself , symbolically  rids herself  of all blemishes, and prepares herself, refines herself as a holy offering, for her god! her husband! her Viplav!  so Viplav tucked away in a corner asks Dhani, just saw the haldi  ceremony ,he  wants her to  apply haldi to herself,  and  she says she's prepared.. with endless love for her, he guides her and watches, besotted as she reflects his actions on the video call..haldi from his stubble cheeks , to   rosy smooth cheeks , from his broad forehead  to hers.. from his  throat  under his indented stubble chin, to the  smooth gullet of her neck!.. and then from the  tip of his pronounced nose to top of her nose!!! Both smile at each other lovingly..  cleansed by haldi , both purified ,ready to be offered  to each other in the highest form of worship LOVE.. PURE LOVE..   they pout their lips and kiss  each other on  face time.. Viplav  tells her she  now  glows more  than before. Surely it's the glow of his love..

Dhani stays at the home Dulari wants her too, while the widows go to pray at  the temple..

Viplav shows dada ji the mandap  says, it's a matter  of hours then Shalu will leave and  DT says daughters only stay at a father's house for a short while then they become part of others house, girls  are  others property  have to be given away... Dashrant  says check if Raja is ready?

Viplav goes to Raja's room.. tells Dhani on phone before marriage he needs to show her what Raja looks like.. Raja is not in the room.. Viplav leaves his phone in Raja,s room and goes looking for Raja..raja  comes in ..preens himself in the mirror goes to wardrobe. Dhani only catches his limbs back.. finally he notices  Viplav's phone.. Dhani picture holds the picture they both see each face to face! on face time  all her misgivings are cleared much to Dhani's horror!  His fear is he will be exposed ..she has seen him now as  Shalu's

Precap: Dhani barges in and says this marriage cannot take place!! Viplav! shocked Dhani confronts the avasti  family...  Viplav's family will not believe Dhani.. Raja's family will pin the blame that Dhani is a murderer.. Viplav is where the buck  stops will he own his wife?  Will he fight to prove her innocence.. what becomes of Shalu is she ditched or saved?  Hamlet53 15.3.16

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๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘...thank u hammiee for such a wonderful post...
Perfect...title...๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Šsuperb description...

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Hiii Hammie dear...h w r u dear??? its been long time..Excellent take as always๐Ÿ‘..loved ur narration of events happening in d episode..yet to watch d episode..bt ur take helps me alot...watched all missed episodes..story is getting gripping nd xciting now..waiting to watch our Vipu doing wakalth for his love ..his jaan..his pyaari wife...dis time Vipu wont fail in winning dis case..lets get ready for smart nd intelligent vipu tactics to save his wife from RA family..Hope for d best..Thank u soomuch for d wonderful take Hammie!!! Take care dear๐Ÿ˜Š
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Hammie, What an awesome post! Enjoyed your musings fully. Loved the symbolisms of Raja's disrobing. The introduction is also very nicely written.

A few thoughts from me:

--Why is it that in all serials weddings are interrupted by big revelations?๐Ÿ˜†
As you say, Shalu's fate hangs in balance. However, if I were in DT's place, I would stop the wedding. DT hates Dhani to be his grand-daughter-in-law, but he knows her to be a truthful lass. Besides she has also saved his life, and it is clear that in this situation Dhani has nothing to gain by stopping the wedding.

--Interestingly, the bridegroom's tearing of the shirt by the best man is considered lucky, but the tearing of the bride's sari by her friend is considered inauspicious. Double standards?

--Raja's disrobing was fun to watch --as you say it has many layers of meaning. The thought that occurred in aimf's mind was that Raja got his just desserts for having nefarious intentions on Dhani and visually disrobing her. That Raja did not wish to participate in the kurta phaadna ceremony shows that he is uncomfortable being vulnerable; yet he has no qualms of taking advantage of others in vulnerable situations, be it Dhani, or now, Shalu.

--Dhani is brave to out herself and go stop the wedding. She is one spunky girl. This is why she is so dear to Viplav, as he loves this quality about her.

--A blooper in the precap? I thought I saw Aunty Klepto not recognise Dhani. She was calling her "E Ladki," rather than by her name. Wasn't Aunty Klepto also in Dulari's photo collection that was recently destroyed? Then how could she not recognise Dhani? Perhaps I am mistaken, or perhaps, it will play out differently. We will wait and watch.

Thank you, Hammie. Sleep summons. Take care and be well.

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Thanks for the WU. your writing style is superb
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Hi hammie,
A wonderful post as usual.
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The title shocked me at d beginning kaun kiske collar ...then got to know its some pre weddeing ritual.i have never seen such ritual in any other serial.sounds innovative n yes d cvs r always good at showing symbolisms.
So finally dhani came to know.
fate is going to take d test of viplabs love.no matter how cute d vidha scenes were , as it is just before d storm I am unable to enjoy them .
U were awesome as usual in ur way of storytelling.loved it.
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Originally posted by: aimf

Hammie, What an awesome post! Enjoyed your musings fully. Loved the symbolisms of Raja's disrobing. The introduction is also very nicely written.

A few thoughts from me:

--Why is it that in all serials weddings are interrupted by big revelations?๐Ÿ˜†
As you say, Shalu's fate hangs in balance. However, if I were in DT's place, I would stop the wedding. DT hates Dhani to be his grand-daughter-in-law, but he knows her to be a truthful lass. Besides she has also saved his life, and it is clear that in this situation Dhani has nothing to gain by stopping the wedding.

--Interestingly, the bridegroom's tearing of the shirt by the best man is considered lucky, but the tearing of the bride's sari by her friend is considered inauspicious. Double standards?

--Raja's disrobing was fun to watch --as you say it has many layers of meaning. The thought that occurred in aimf's mind was that Raja got his just desserts for having nefarious intentions on Dhani and visually disrobing her. That Raja did not wish to participate in the kurta phaadna ceremony shows that he is uncomfortable being vulnerable; yet he has no qualms of taking advantage of others in vulnerable situations, be it Dhani, or now, Shalu.

--Dhani is brave to out herself and go stop the wedding. She is one spunky girl. This is why she is so dear to Viplav, as he loves this quality about her.

--A blooper in the precap? I thought I saw Aunty Klepto not recognise Dhani. She was calling her "E Ladki," rather than by her name. Wasn't Aunty Klepto also in Dulari's photo collection that was recently destroyed? Then how could she not recognise Dhani? Perhaps I am mistaken, or perhaps, it will play out differently. We will wait and watch.

Thank you, Hammie. Sleep summons. Take care and be well.

Wow what a thought...your second thought made me think...hmmm...double standards...Good thinking friend๐Ÿ‘
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Beautiful post as usual...hammie...loved it๐Ÿ‘ today VIP tore his shirt...very soon 
he will tear his innocent face mask that he wears ...just waiting for that day...he will be always with his wife dhani...shalu will not be ditched...
she Wii b saved.thanks hammie๐Ÿ˜Š


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OMG How beautifully you have described things hammie. I loved your take on viplav's role as a elder brother and their haldi . its really well written

thankyou for your post aand keep giving us these lovely posts.
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tanks hamlet you are so good like always ๐Ÿ˜Š