IKRS Saturday 5th March 2016 ep 181 My Take ~ Abstract reality..love..
Such is the passion of true love ,that it makes one lose one's self only to become part of the beloved self.. it becomes a worship, so devout , yet abstract ,but oh so real.. Viplav shows shades of such power and life like his potent and vibrate lord Shiva himself.. alive and beating! Just like his lord, immersed in his wife's love, is Viplav too..
It's all about creating an impression, not in
view to
show others up, but it's about putting one's
best foot ward.The tirpathi family arrives at lord Shiva's temple for a worship alongside the Avasti family. As usual Viplav who is no
novice at organising family functions excels in arranging this
worship too. Dashrant praises Viplav for his fine works his unique mind
set! outstanding, exclusive is how Dashrant sees his grandson.Viplav, with such backing no wonder over flows with confidence! Traditions
follow , grooms family arrives at the
temple, tokens of appreciations are exchanged. Raja receives a gold chain from Dashrant
while the boys side too in keeping up with the sons in laws, gift Shalu a
platter covered with.. Whatever, but mami sneaks her hand underneath the cover
and steals the wad of cash and stuffs it down her waist ceremoniously! Although the moment is all about give and
take between the two families. Dashrant certainly gives Raja the impression that he would initiate the religious ceremony.
Little does he know that with Dashrant it's largely
about making impressions ,not necessarily acting upon what is announced.
All in good fun as its part of the ritual to share the wonders of bhola babba's offertory with his devotes, either a drink or food item laced with hemp, plant! Raja tries it on with Viplav insists his brother in law eats the bhang ladoo as bhola babb's prasad. Viplav is reluctant but Raja stuffs it his mouth' anyway eat from his je ju's hand.. No way can Viplav turn down his sisters husnand's request, he chews but warns that he would have to eat ladoo from his hand too after the worship.
The worship
of lord Shiva commences
at the hands of Dashrant who performs
the arti. All are in obeisance ,
bar Viplav , he looks over his shoulder and awaits his wife Dhani's arrival ,
as in all earnestness he prays to his lord to send Dhani. This devotee's heartfelt supplication is answered as Dhani hiding her face behind her white pallu arrives
at the temple. Stealthily she arrives and stands before a small
shivling with her puja thalli
in her hands. One turn of his head and
he sees her in outer courtyard and his mouth
curls
into a silent smile. Dhani s heart cries out to him, might be, she's
not by his side but alongside she will worship outside, reflecting his
actions..For if their hearts and minds
are in agreement, worship from a
distance too will ascend to the heavens as one prayer. Once, arti finishes Dashrant
holds the pot of milk , turns around and faces Raja on one side and Viplav on the other.Now Dashrant makes the gender distinction between Shalu and Viplav , the grandson ,his blood and Shalu his blood too, but now
given to be part of another family.Hence Raja who held his hands forward to
receive the pot and the prestige of being the son in law of the household.. is denied
the privilege, as Dashrant passes the pot of milk to Viplav and bids him to bath the sacred shivling by pouring milk on
it! .. Viplav pours the milk and Dhani mirrors his action outside. Raja visibly
shaken by the snub ,leaves the worship in a huff. Together
Viplav and Dhani in perfect harmony continue the worship of the shivling , far from
each other but one in ,soul and action...
Once worship is over! Viplav totters , slightly unsteady out of the temple.The giddiness of love, the insanity , carries his swaggering legs , his dazed mind, straight to the love of his life ,his wife Dhani! He grabs her hand and praises the amazing miracle of bhola nath, who made it possible for them to worship him together! Both now need Bhola Nath's blessings and that too together. While their family and Shalu's family , sing and perform bhajjans, gripped by the devotion of lord shiva , calling for all to be blessed. Viplav too shows signs of being lost in the his worship of love and nudges his wife and prays,thank you bhole Nath! for giving him such a good wife! and today bhole babba by sending her to him, he has performed a wonder!.. the bhang laddo begins to work and Viplav, under the dizzy spell of both worship to his lord and a madness for his love ,acts senseless and breaks into sudden hysterical laughter! One side effct of hemp and bhang. Dhani wonders what's phased his mind ?that he acts quite so wildly excited. He insists he wants to show her something . But Dhani is the one in her senses and fears of being spotted by his family. But Viplav the fearless lover husband ! is gripped by her love, her being ,her presence.. his emotions are exaggerated by the intoxicating ladoo all the more ! seeing her before him makes the world spin around him and he spins her too round and around! Despite Dhani's pleas are , what's got over him? Dhani begs him to let her leave, she is fasting , as people in the ashram wait for her to return so they can have their worship .. he sings out her praises to the whole world revolving around with her as the sun orbits the earth..she is so wonderful! puts all before herself, fasts for every one!.. but love is like dizzy spell and in excitement he whirls her around him too and in thrilled revolve ,he calls her his Parvati ! lord Shiva's beloved wife! Totally in a sweet hazy ,dreamy trance, he drags her to the place where the devotee sat making offertory, Viplav holds his wife and begs, pleads this ladoo he gifts her, he wants her to savour of joy that he feels in having her near!.. Dhani tears away from him and dashes off, he sounded too dazed..to me the scene , brings out the sheer delight of having one's beloved before them.. one's mind turns abstract, the only thing that makes sense is love. Viplav under the effect of hemp, gives vent to his inner most desperation of having Dhani beside him always and forever!.He seeks prospects of securing meetings with her..like today its lord Shiva's worship.. But she rans away in a hurry.. and then comes out Viplav's frustration..
Paravati !my parvati! come back ! it happens.. I couldn't help it! Parvati! he hollers for all to hear.But his mad cries fall into dashrant's ears! It's his respectability at stake.. Viplav's whines !dhani runs down the steps of the temple and leaves viplav her present and future behind her, and collides with Raja and rudely brings her past back into her present! He turns to look behind at the running widow in white and catches a call from the past into the present.. many mirrors confirm he mistakes not, all the mirrors verify it's her , no room for doubt! Sunam! Here??
Raja glares at the figure in
a white sari that runs away. Viplav creates a rumpus about his Parvati! running
away from him.. dashrant and the rest are bewildered at his disturbed banter. Shalu's in laws in particular stand aghast
at great Dashrant's pota's senseless
wailing.. really this complete tandav that Viplav performs before all is from the inner recesses
of his heart ,the cry , the protest , the noise he wants his family in particular
to ascertain that he loves the widow they all denounce! Bola babba's offertory brings
out the warning Viplav serves his family!
By the grace of lord shiva.. if
you are not heard by the dead deaf! family of yours ,then shake them up!
Challenge their empty respectability ,their with washed hypocrisy and show them
up! so they can see that something is not quite right with you! thus beats the drums for lord Shiva! As Shiva's
drumu sounds ! Viplav dances in worship
before his lord !somehow the lord Shiva
lightened his burden.. Viplav beats the drum total possessed by his lords agile
,vibrant tempo of life!
Outside Raja follows the widow , catches up with her, but it's not Dhani! Viplav hammers the drums in the temple.. Raja is left, unrewarded. He returns to the temple and vows he will ransack all Benras to seek her! Viplav , kisses his sister's husband in the grip of vigorous ,dancing , and rejoicing before Lord Shiva..
Home at last and safe.. but wonders about his spaced out ,outrageous behaviour and prays before lord Shiva, she knows not why Viplav behaved the way he did.. she prays to her lord to show her the right direction..
Next morning Dhani after ablution, reminds herself of her marital status and puts a pinch of vermillion in her mid parting discreetly..
Slap wrist for bad behaviour! Dadi tells him he embarrassed them all. Dada ji just wants to know two things , who gave him hemp laced drink or food? and who did he speak too at the temple? Viplav protects both persons one his wife and the other his sister's husband to be.. such is his respect and sensitivity to familial bonds. Instead, he takes on full responsibility of his actions upon himself just wanted to try hemp.. but he manages to Dhani's bit neatly..before his family, but feels rotten and accountable before Dhani.. yes he phones her ,of course she is livid.. he rings and rings, he apologizes ,but she says coldly she'd rather not talk about it. He presses, should he come over and talk to her ? he says, but she turns him down! Viplav realizes , that Dhani is not amused.. he's in for it now! still she has right to be angry , its not just his family he put on the spot ,but his wife too!
Precap: Raja tells Viplav ,something from his past now confronts him in the present.. yesterday he came across the girl who killed my brother! Suman! Viplav assures him ,he'll do everything to help him to look for her..has he got her photograph? Raja pulls out his photo and looks at Dhani's picture in his wallet..
The thing that
gets me.. did Raja deliberately give Viplav
the bhang ladoo to make a fool out of Viplav?if so the guy is nasty.. hamlet53 6.3.16
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