Originally posted by: HeavenlyBliss.
Really? Did they tell you this?
That's what I hv seen in the mentality of sons parents now a days
They don't demand bahus who 'll roti pakao for their sons in cities
And this change has come in all India n bd cities
I M not sure about pak though and I can't comment on pak by serials only coz serials add lots of spice for trps
I know it as many of my n cousins r getting married and since my mom is from India I hv many cousins in India too
And in bd as well many of my cousins n friends
R getting married or may b their brothers r getting married and they share with me their expectations n experience
So since the last two years I hv kinda got a pic of the middle class n upper middle class expectations of a bahu
And now no one asks if u know how to cook or sew
Gals doing jobs r kept in higher esteem...no one can now dare to ask the GAL to quit the job post marriage which wasn't the case even a few years ago
I M pleasantly surprised and shocked n happy too that people in cities hv come out of the zaalim saas era to a big extent
Of course there 'll b exception
But in general the GAL is quite confident now a days about getting married as there is less fear of being a doormat
Whereas before while my khala mamas were getting married I used to see the tension of my new mami to cook well n mk us happy
My mom taught my khala as many things as she cud remember to cook
But now that my cousins r getting married...my brothers rnt concerned about the to b wives cooking skills nor r my sister's r in a trauma n fear about how to adjust in sasural
People r bindaas now a days which is a relief
But I M not sure about pak
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