[QUOTE=Radhika_r]Is there a change in anu's charaterisation in the recent times. Anu supporting neils wrong doings is surprising me. Neil let down Dev badly after the mms episode, denied ever having loved her, told her he acted loving only to take revenge and worse still ganged up with minty and almost got her married to a stranger. These are very treacherous things to do to A woman.
Neil may not have harmed dev physically with a knife and Bobby may have done it and neil may have apologised for Bobby,'s fault but then what neil has done to dev would have scarred her mentally and are huge mistakes that cannot be taken lightly
Anu ready to forgive Neil's ghastly mistakes and taking his side and promising to be on his side is so unlike her.how has she forgotten all that neil has done
Would she have been so magnanimous if rajat had hurt anyone especially one of her sisters or even her for that matter,the way neil did. I doubt it. What happened to my idealistic anu. Why this special treatment for neil? Can someone explain this to me.why is Anu ready to let neil off the hook ?
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This is my POV, apologies if anyone is offended.
Anu is the only one of the sisters who is insistent on maintaining peace in the family. She has always been characterised as a sacrificing do-gooder at the expense of her own interests. She has endlessly forgiven people, most often Dev and sometimes alka. She is now extending the same behavior to her in-laws as well. In all of the earlier events, the AnuRAjveer triangle, the MIny-Rajat blowup and the Neil-Dev fiasco, the guilty party has always been taken to task and shamed sufficiently. Neil has also been punished solidly. Yes, that does not excuse Neil's behavior but what is the point of flogging this issue endlessly. Kajal is Neil's punishment so I think Anu wants to give Neil all the help he needs.
Dev has clearly moved on professionally and she is also much stronger. Neil is the weaker person and this is probably why she helps him.