Daadi will hate Pragya or get hurt? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Lkb79

That's a lot of leaps to make to explain why they don't compare.  What you're kind of saying (or how I'm interpreting it, wrongly perhaps) is it's ok for Abhi to not think of Sarla and RoDaadi and Bulbul as family so he's not obligated to show them consideration. I just don't agree with that logic. Family is family. Doesn't matter if you're living with them or not. They merit respect and in those situations, Abhi showed them none by embarrassing their daughter like that and by playing games. 

As for them being able to reason Abhi's actions, I'm not sure how that even matters. Anger was in the realm of responses for Abhi but was it the right response? Beating up Suresh, embarrassing Pragya? Because they understood it, it was ok? 

Again, not saying Pragya's any better than Abhi (despite the fact that the prevalent attitude appears to be she's worse). I am saying they both suck at finding solutions to problems. 😆

Originally posted by: Lkb79

And Pragya is doing this to help Abhi and Abhi's family. Where is the distinction then that makes Pragya's behavior so much worse? 

The idea was put out there that it's worse because she lives with Daadi and that counts as "more family." I don't agree with that assessment. They've both been dumb and neglectful to elders to achieve their ends. I don't think one is better than the other. 

Tia, I'm not the one who brought up the idea of comparing. Others did and you contributed to the topic by saying it's not comparable. I'm following that thought by claiming that it is