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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 10:12am | IP Logged
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Shinya - 
Initially I thought she continued her pregnancy out the mahanta that she acquired in those early days in her zeal to copy anandi. She didn't bother about mannu too. But now after her mask is removed, I think she went ahead with the pregnancy only for her sake and not for ds or sumi  or  J. She had her insecurities considering her first marriage experience and her second husband's history of marriages and the BH people's wish for waaris. 
Regarding her first marriage - she was happy when she learnt about her first pregnancy cause she thought her place would be safe and they would treat her well. But ratan married too soon which is another thing. Point being  she had to go for a child(I don't blame Ganga here) to keep herself safe.

secondly about J's past. She knew how he changed wives. At first it appeared like she had trust on him. But looks like she doesn't. Cause trust is something that becomes stronger as a couple grows older especially when there is true love between them. But it got worse Inspite of jagya 's  assurances to her a no. Of times. So it looks like the first marriage scenario affected her and she tried to bind him with a child of his blood.

thirdly - she knew how much everyone were against their marriage for a no of valid reasons. It was too much of a compromise from J's family side. And this would make things worse. She might have feared that they'll get J married again for waaris. She couldn't trust them enough on this. Again could be the effect of her first marriage experience . 

So I think ganga did this based on her own experiences combined with her natural instincts with a zeal to keep herself safe as long as she lives. It is for No One but herself.



This is beyond brilliant. She thus secured her place in BH. 

And for the record I would like to state that I love Ganga. All this would not have been possible without her human frailties. Self preservation is the right of every human being. And she did just that.



I too  liked her, at first though. Actually even more than Anandi(at the time of her entry), cause she was like a breath of fresh air when she entered. She was protective of mannu, had feelings like anger , aversion, love and also had the zeal to do good for herself and her son - all feelings that happen to be present in any human. She wasn't nice  towards her abusers which was the best thing i liked about her. I was fine even when she fell in love with her benefactor. But her desperation ...and then selfishness followed by her "I don't care" attitude towards the very family that rescued her was a turn off. And 'acting like Anandi' was like ewww! For god's sake we have one anandi already!!

@ bold LOL I know.

Which is why I now like her. At least she is providing some freshness to the character and to the events in BH. And a reason for being around. I dont mind her presence ever since the writers started exploring these natural human weaknesses. These were just waiting to be explored.

As the Kamli drama will wane, the BH drama will wax, until some other drama in Jhalra will raise its head.

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 10:22am | IP Logged
 Every childbirth carries a certain risk for a woman but to say  that ''it  was hilarious  to say she  risked her life'' , that's' disgusting, especially if it was told by the womanThumbs Down


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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 10:25am | IP Logged
Originally posted by RTee

Originally posted by The_Alchemist.

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Originally posted by The_Alchemist.

Shinya - 
Initially I thought she continued her pregnancy out the mahanta that she acquired in those early days in her zeal to copy anandi. She didn't bother about mannu too. But now after her mask is removed, I think she went ahead with the pregnancy only for her sake and not for ds or sumi  or  J. She had her insecurities considering her first marriage experience and her second husband's history of marriages and the BH people's wish for waaris. 
Regarding her first marriage - she was happy when she learnt about her first pregnancy cause she thought her place would be safe and they would treat her well. But ratan married too soon which is another thing. Point being  she had to go for a child(I don't blame Ganga here) to keep herself safe.

secondly about J's past. She knew how he changed wives. At first it appeared like she had trust on him. But looks like she doesn't. Cause trust is something that becomes stronger as a couple grows older especially when there is true love between them. But it got worse Inspite of jagya 's  assurances to her a no. Of times. So it looks like the first marriage scenario affected her and she tried to bind him with a child of his blood.

thirdly - she knew how much everyone were against their marriage for a no of valid reasons. It was too much of a compromise from J's family side. And this would make things worse. She might have feared that they'll get J married again for waaris. She couldn't trust them enough on this. Again could be the effect of her first marriage experience . 

So I think ganga did this based on her own experiences combined with her natural instincts with a zeal to keep herself safe as long as she lives. It is for No One but herself.



This is beyond brilliant. She thus secured her place in BH. 

And for the record I would like to state that I love Ganga. All this would not have been possible without her human frailties. Self preservation is the right of every human being. And she did just that.



I too  liked her, at first though. Actually even more than Anandi(at the time of her entry), cause she was like a breath of fresh air when she entered. She was protective of mannu, had feelings like anger , aversion, love and also had the zeal to do good for herself and her son - all feelings that happen to be present in any human. She wasn't nice  towards her abusers which was the best thing i liked about her. I was fine even when she fell in love with her benefactor. But her desperation ...and then selfishness followed by her "I don't care" attitude towards the very family that rescued her was a turn off. And 'acting like Anandi' was like ewww! For god's sake we have one anandi already!!

@ bold LOL I know.

Which is why I now like her. At least she is providing some freshness to the character and to the events in BH. And a reason for being around. I dont mind her presence ever since the writers started exploring these natural human weaknesses. These were just waiting to be explored.

As the Kamli drama will wane, the BH drama will wax, until some other drama in Jhalra will raise its head.
Ganga wanted a better life for herself and her son so she did what ever she could do to get that life for herself sometimes didn't care that she was trampling on other's toes to get where she wanted and what she wanted.We also didn't complain much because the other woman in question was Sanchi who anyways was way too wrong for Jagya.
As for risking her life for to give a child it came form her own sense of insecurity.Her life in Ratan's house made her that way. She was married off to Ratan because he wanted children when he couldn't get children from her he got himself another wife Only when she gave them a child her place became secure.It is sad but this did shape the woman Ganga .
Despite education and being part of a family like Singhs when she found herself pregnant her old insecurites cropped up and she decided to go ahead with her pregnancy.

As for her relationship with Anandi - She realised that for Singhs Anandi meant perfection so she tried to become that and she even took help and suggections from Anandi but the  constant comparisons and that too with Anandi so near to her she realised that she can never be like her then she started to resent comparisons.Anandi was the same she tried becoming like her but couldn't her husband seems to have the same POV as Anandi and all this are reasons for her current behaviour with Jagya and Anandi.

She is trying to come out of Anandi 's shadows and wants to be accepted as her own person.

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 10:27am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Shinya

Originally posted by The_Alchemist.

Originally posted by The_Alchemist.

Shinya - 
Initially I thought she continued her pregnancy out the mahanta that she acquired in those early days in her zeal to copy anandi. She didn't bother about mannu too. But now after her mask is removed, I think she went ahead with the pregnancy only for her sake and not for ds or sumi  or  J. She had her insecurities considering her first marriage experience and her second husband's history of marriages and the BH people's wish for waaris. 
Regarding her first marriage - she was happy when she learnt about her first pregnancy cause she thought her place would be safe and they would treat her well. But ratan married too soon which is another thing. Point being  she had to go for a child(I don't blame Ganga here) to keep herself safe.

secondly about J's past. She knew how he changed wives. At first it appeared like she had trust on him. But looks like she doesn't. Cause trust is something that becomes stronger as a couple grows older especially when there is true love between them. But it got worse Inspite of jagya 's  assurances to her a no. Of times. So it looks like the first marriage scenario affected her and she tried to bind him with a child of his blood.

thirdly - she knew how much everyone were against their marriage for a no of valid reasons. It was too much of a compromise from J's family side. And this would make things worse. She might have feared that they'll get J married again for waaris. She couldn't trust them enough on this. Again could be the effect of her first marriage experience . 

So I think ganga did this based on her own experiences combined with her natural instincts with a zeal to keep herself safe as long as she lives. It is for No One but herself.


Firstly, this is one of the very few positive posts I had written about Ganga. She hardly gives me a chance to write good about herOuch

I didn't blame her for what she did. Just said this is her reaction to the brutality she faced in her younger days. And it is absolutely fine for a woman to do what she did with her first baby...and probably for the second baby too. The key point here is - She wasn't doing anyone favours by going for the baby. she did herself a favour.

And i'm not going to give reasons in detail for Anandi's situations. She was right. absolutely right. She was direct in her opinions and didn't put on an act to get married. It was her would-be's choice to get married to her inspite of her straightforwardness. 
 
Well said, Alchemist!Clap
 
It is understandable why she did it and no one has any issues about it. But to  say "she risked her life"... that was hilarious.LOL

shinya , let me complete that statement for youBig smile

It is understandable why she did it and no one has any issues about it. But to  say "she risked her life for DS"... that was hilarious

Yes it is indeed hiiilariousGeek

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 10:40am | IP Logged
well dont want to get into arguments ...just a question passed my mind wich is not compulsory to answr
 
but why ganga goin through danger in second pregnancy (as perceived)  considered risking her life fr DS
did DS told her to risk her life fr her wish of pota ...DS ws upset on her itself dats y she slept on floor
 
but whn Anandi bought mannu risking "her life " dat time it is said ...who told her to bring mannu...ganga never told her anything ...thn why
 
both r 2 different thngs...bt y one risk on life is called mahanta n other one tyagConfused

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 10:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Stephi

Originally posted by tiny15

Originally posted by Stephi

 
stephi bang on.
i've also so many instances where its proved that Aji used oders but theres no use .
wat can w e say 4 such thinking?? bcoz its only driven by single minded hatred 4 the ckt.
btw u can see WU 4 BH/jaitser part in the AT.


I know tiny , it seems its not at all about the serial, its story, the messages but its all about
 the  justification of one female   character, no matter what  she does using all possible means from  false  facts to deliberately omitting  important details .

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stephi wat i told u.see the reasons which hav no logic.
just 2 justify one female ckt put down all oders.
and twist the fact put ur own perception.
we can also say Aji did all 4 her own. wen ganga'd insecurity regarding kid etc.that she won't get same luv & care if she wudn't give them heir. 
hadn't she seen luv & care of singhs.so indeed its not hilarious that she did that 4 DS only.
if sum1 want 2 close eyes from facts & truths then nothing can b done.if clouds hide sum doesn't mean sun is not there.

din't Aji just 2 secure her place in singhs & KB  always tried 2 please & pretend 2 b gud 2wards them?
from her experience in BH wen her husband left her  4 anoder woman she also tried 2 pay attention on shiv more. so she also did it 4 herself only so that she can secure her place in KB

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 11:11am | IP Logged
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well dont want to get into arguments ...just a question passed my mind wich is not compulsory to answr
 
but why ganga goin through danger in second pregnancy (as perceived)  considered risking her life fr DS
did DS told her to risk her life fr her wish of pota ...DS ws upset on her itself dats y she slept on floor
 
but whn Anandi bought mannu risking "her life " dat time it is said ...who told her to bring mannu...ganga never told her anything ...thn why
 
both r 2 different thngs...bt y one risk on life is called mahanta n other one tyagConfused
DS did not ask her  directly but she did it for DS it was her wish which she heard  thats why it is said she risked her life for her to fulfill her wish I wonder whats so difficult in thatConfused

How Anandi bringing Mannu was a tyagConfuseddid anyone ask her to risk her life there Confused

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 11:50am | IP Logged
So ganga saw DS's wish ...bt did DS wanted her to risk her life fr dat ...she hide it knwiing truth abt her health...did any1 pressurised her
n like ganga heard anandi to saw hw ganga pained fr her mannu...hw badly she misses her son...so she should have avoided those pains of ganga...wont that be inhuman
 
nt wanting to complete DS wish would nt hv been inhuman atleast
 
I never called A's bringing mannu as tyag...I just questioned towards d "fact" that one risking life is mahanta n y oder one considered as tyag
 

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