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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 8:41am | IP Logged
 WOW! What a thinking !Thumbs Down

 A woman who is the real victim of child marriage, raped, tortured, beaten from childhood used her pregnancy to secure herself a place in the home of her  torturers . Another woman who lived like a true queen in her in-laws, doing what  ever she  wanted to do  with all possible support, flatly rejected her devastated parents to go  with them after her husband left her. Why  Anandi was so eager to stay  in her in-laws, and why this  is justified when it comes to her but when it comes to Ganga she's   labeled as   an opportunist who will even take advantage of her  child in order to keep herself safe. The same woman who was ready to give up on  her child just  to save his life, while the other woman  didn't even think to fulfill her husband's wish  to have  their oen child. The poor man died and had never the chance to  see his own. children.

  So when it comes to the second marriage for both ladies  one woman uses her pregnancy to stay married, but what about  the other woman who   used  a man to fulfill her  mother's last wish? One is named  as  an opportunist no matter she fought to save her  bare life  and  then married for love  ,  but the other who fortunately never had to find out what it means to be raped, tortured, to fight for  bare life and then married a very desirable bachelor just to fulfill her  mother's last wish is a role   model. Wow. How the  hatred can make people   be  blind and nonobjectives!

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 9:04am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Stephi

 WOW! What a thinking !Thumbs Down

 A woman who is the real victim of child marriage, raped, tortured, beaten from childhood used her pregnancy to secure herself a place in the home of her  torturers . Another woman who lived like a true queen in her in-laws, doing what  ever she  wanted to do  with all possible support, flatly rejected her devastated parents to go  with them after her husband left her. Why  Anandi was so eager to stay  in her in-laws, and why this  is justified when it comes to her but when it comes to Ganga she's   labeled as   an opportunist who will even take advantage of her  child in order to keep herself safe. The same woman who was ready to give up on  her child just  to save his life, while the other woman  didn't even think to fulfill her husband's wish  to have  their oen child. The poor man died and had never the chance to  see his own. children.

  So when it comes to the second marriage for both ladies  one woman uses her pregnancy to stay married, but what about  the other woman who   used  a man to fulfill her  mother's last wish? One is named  as  an opportunist no matter she fought to save her  bare life  and  then married for love  ,  but the other who fortunately never had to find out what it means to be raped, tortured, to fight for  bare life and then married a very desirable bachelor just to fulfill her  mother's last wish is a role   model. Wow. How the  hatred can make people   be  blind and nonobjectives!
stephi bang on.
i've also so many instances where its proved that Aji used oders but theres no use .
wat can w e say 4 such thinking?? bcoz its only driven by single minded hatred 4 the ckt.
btw u can see WU 4 BH/jaitser part in the AT.

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 9:18am | IP Logged
Originally posted by The_Alchemist.

Shinya - 
Initially I thought she continued her pregnancy out the mahanta that she acquired in those early days in her zeal to copy anandi. She didn't bother about mannu too. But now after her mask is removed, I think she went ahead with the pregnancy only for her sake and not for ds or sumi  or  J. She had her insecurities considering her first marriage experience and her second husband's history of marriages and the BH people's wish for waaris. 
Regarding her first marriage - she was happy when she learnt about her first pregnancy cause she thought her place would be safe and they would treat her well. But ratan married too soon which is another thing. Point being  she had to go for a child(I don't blame Ganga here) to keep herself safe.

secondly about J's past. She knew how he changed wives. At first it appeared like she had trust on him. But looks like she doesn't. Cause trust is something that becomes stronger as a couple grows older especially when there is true love between them. But it got worse Inspite of jagya 's  assurances to her a no. Of times. So it looks like the first marriage scenario affected her and she tried to bind him with a child of his blood.

thirdly - she knew how much everyone were against their marriage for a no of valid reasons. It was too much of a compromise from J's family side. And this would make things worse. She might have feared that they'll get J married again for waaris. She couldn't trust them enough on this. Again could be the effect of her first marriage experience . 

So I think ganga did this based on her own experiences combined with her natural instincts with a zeal to keep herself safe as long as she lives. It is for No One but herself.



Firstly, this is one of the very few positive posts I had written about Ganga. She hardly gives me a chance to write good about herOuch

I didn't blame her for what she did. Just said this is her reaction to the brutality she faced in her younger days. And it is absolutely fine for a woman to do what she did with her first baby...and probably for the second baby too. The key point here is - She wasn't doing anyone favours by going for the baby. she did herself a favour.

And i'm not going to give reasons in detail for Anandi's situations. She was right. absolutely right. She was direct in her opinions and didn't put on an act to get married. It was her would-be's choice to get married to her inspite of her straightforwardness. 

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 9:25am | IP Logged
Originally posted by RTee

Originally posted by The_Alchemist.

Shinya - 
Initially I thought she continued her pregnancy out the mahanta that she acquired in those early days in her zeal to copy anandi. She didn't bother about mannu too. But now after her mask is removed, I think she went ahead with the pregnancy only for her sake and not for ds or sumi  or  J. She had her insecurities considering her first marriage experience and her second husband's history of marriages and the BH people's wish for waaris. 
Regarding her first marriage - she was happy when she learnt about her first pregnancy cause she thought her place would be safe and they would treat her well. But ratan married too soon which is another thing. Point being  she had to go for a child(I don't blame Ganga here) to keep herself safe.

secondly about J's past. She knew how he changed wives. At first it appeared like she had trust on him. But looks like she doesn't. Cause trust is something that becomes stronger as a couple grows older especially when there is true love between them. But it got worse Inspite of jagya 's  assurances to her a no. Of times. So it looks like the first marriage scenario affected her and she tried to bind him with a child of his blood.

thirdly - she knew how much everyone were against their marriage for a no of valid reasons. It was too much of a compromise from J's family side. And this would make things worse. She might have feared that they'll get J married again for waaris. She couldn't trust them enough on this. Again could be the effect of her first marriage experience . 

So I think ganga did this based on her own experiences combined with her natural instincts with a zeal to keep herself safe as long as she lives. It is for No One but herself.



This is beyond brilliant. She thus secured her place in BH. 

And for the record I would like to state that I love Ganga. All this would not have been possible without her human frailties. Self preservation is the right of every human being. And she did just that.



I too  liked her, at first though. Actually even more than Anandi(at the time of her entry), cause she was like a breath of fresh air when she entered. She was protective of mannu, had feelings like anger , aversion, love and also had the zeal to do good for herself and her son - all feelings that happen to be present in any human. She wasn't nice  towards her abusers which was the best thing i liked about her. I was fine even when she fell in love with her benefactor. But her desperation ...and then selfishness followed by her "I don't care" attitude towards the very family that rescued her was a turn off. And 'acting like Anandi' was like ewww! For god's sake we have one anandi already!!

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 9:38am | IP Logged
@ She wasn't doing anyone favours by going for the baby. she did herself a favour.


Just one ''small thing '' -- how she was doing herself a favour if  her own life was at risk?  She didn't know  if she  will even survive the childbirth, precisely that's why she   was criticized but now we have to  think  she' s done it  deliberately to keep herself safe !? 

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 9:54am | IP Logged
Originally posted by tiny15

Originally posted by Stephi

 
stephi bang on.
i've also so many instances where its proved that Aji used oders but theres no use .
wat can w e say 4 such thinking?? bcoz its only driven by single minded hatred 4 the ckt.
btw u can see WU 4 BH/jaitser part in the AT.


I know tiny , it seems its not at all about the serial, its story, the messages but its all about
 the  justification of one female   character, no matter what  she does using all possible means from  false  facts to deliberately omitting  important details .

@ bold Hug


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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 10:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by The_Alchemist.

Originally posted by The_Alchemist.

Shinya - 
Initially I thought she continued her pregnancy out the mahanta that she acquired in those early days in her zeal to copy anandi. She didn't bother about mannu too. But now after her mask is removed, I think she went ahead with the pregnancy only for her sake and not for ds or sumi  or  J. She had her insecurities considering her first marriage experience and her second husband's history of marriages and the BH people's wish for waaris. 
Regarding her first marriage - she was happy when she learnt about her first pregnancy cause she thought her place would be safe and they would treat her well. But ratan married too soon which is another thing. Point being  she had to go for a child(I don't blame Ganga here) to keep herself safe.

secondly about J's past. She knew how he changed wives. At first it appeared like she had trust on him. But looks like she doesn't. Cause trust is something that becomes stronger as a couple grows older especially when there is true love between them. But it got worse Inspite of jagya 's  assurances to her a no. Of times. So it looks like the first marriage scenario affected her and she tried to bind him with a child of his blood.

thirdly - she knew how much everyone were against their marriage for a no of valid reasons. It was too much of a compromise from J's family side. And this would make things worse. She might have feared that they'll get J married again for waaris. She couldn't trust them enough on this. Again could be the effect of her first marriage experience . 

So I think ganga did this based on her own experiences combined with her natural instincts with a zeal to keep herself safe as long as she lives. It is for No One but herself.


Firstly, this is one of the very few positive posts I had written about Ganga. She hardly gives me a chance to write good about herOuch

I didn't blame her for what she did. Just said this is her reaction to the brutality she faced in her younger days. And it is absolutely fine for a woman to do what she did with her first baby...and probably for the second baby too. The key point here is - She wasn't doing anyone favours by going for the baby. she did herself a favour.

And i'm not going to give reasons in detail for Anandi's situations. She was right. absolutely right. She was direct in her opinions and didn't put on an act to get married. It was her would-be's choice to get married to her inspite of her straightforwardness. 
 
Well said, Alchemist!Clap
 
It is understandable why she did it and no one has any issues about it. But to  say "she risked her life"... that was hilarious.LOL

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Posted: 14 May 2015 at 10:11am | IP Logged
Originally posted by blushing

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I think that Mannu will soon shift in with Anandi. 

He will be upset with his Mom and upset with his Step-dad...so...


no no he will hate Anandi Star  he also say Anandi is disgusting women 

won't upset with his parents at all ...why would he Confused... 

just like Jagya ...why he would blame Ganga for Anandi's departure 

 
So finally it's Anandi who saved Ganga today. Thumbs UpThumbs Up
 
 

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