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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:25am | IP Logged
Also i think cvs r doing full justice to her character!! Trust me they are

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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:26am | IP Logged
Originally posted by kresham

I have understood ur POV ...but if u see u have given answers to ur questions urself...

so cmg to my POV
its all abt her belief n the belief she has given to Manik also...
Remember during secret ballot Manik explained her abt the cruel world she said yes but went n did the same thing which she thought

As we say when it comes to us then only we understand the pain...which she is going through now...
It was not her mistake but the belief she does on the ppl around her were came out to b wrong that means the belief she gave to Manik were also wrong to some extent its her present POV now...
She is feeling that she failed in believing Manik also so he dont deserve her bcz she herself is lost then how can she b his side n b his belief...he said whatever she is says is correct for him but now she clearly said that he was right always as she goes with face value n look where she landed...

As this is just  a guilt trip n they showed only half a day...a person needs time to understand n i m sure Manik will make her understand...

N moreover from start it has been shown that they r growing n things change time to time...n this phase is to show that no one is perfect not even Nandini...she can also commit mistakes n feel guilty ...she followed her values which she got in her world where there was peace n no violence but now she got to see the reality n now she has to accept the change its her time to accept the change came in her way...

Hope i made sense...this is purely my POV...sorry if u felt it harsh


Your post is beautiful Kriti Clap And believe me, this is in no way harsh! Infact this is how it should be. Not like everyone will agree to what you have to say. Sometimes people could think differently and its good to know what another person has to say even if they do not agree to what you are saying Smile I agree she needs time and her core beliefs are shaken! Thats a big enough reason for someone to retreat into a shell but there have been moments that practically made no sense to me as a viewer and maybe this one made me burst out like this Stern Smile I understand how she must be feeling but I so wish she had not contemplated on breaking up after having struggled so much to get to where they are. Its all in the spur of the moment and maybe I will know for sure after today's episode and maybe then I will shut up LOL But there should be some consistency in characters and the way they behave na? Its just that there have been endless silly things going on when the story could have progressed so much more. 

Nandini is human and to err is human. Well said about that part! I agree she has full right to feel guilty but in which way is she guilty that she wants to break up with Manik? Maybe she is for not believing him but even before she got kidnapped pandit's reality was out. Had that not happened and Nandini had fell into his trap, then it makes sense for her to feel that way. She knew that guy was a jerk and he kidnapped her, he did not lure her. So how does this make it her fault?

BTW thanks for commenting! I like reading ur posts Smile doesn't matter if u agree to what the TM has to say or not. One can disagree peacefully and put their points forward too.
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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:34am | IP Logged
Originally posted by FieryHeart




Ya one more thing on nandu being the" mature girl nd still failing to c pundit's  intentions" let me just remind dat is purely nandu datz exactly her characterisation. She sees gud in every person
Agar aisa nahi hota she wud never hv fell for guy like manik. She is mature nd at the same time naive too. 






And about ur last point, if u have read, I have clearly mentioned why her faith is shaken. Her own grandmother was her teacher n this creepo was her Amms fav. She believed a student teacher relation is sacred and never scaled it sceptically. Did I say she wrong in that? Did I mention she should have been able to see right through it? Atleast read what I have to say carefully before lashing out at me!
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no yar im Nt lashing out at u. Dis point abt nandu showing maturity nw is am trying to talk abt. Right nw shez broken for being naive. U nd i clearly agree on dis bt u differ in saying she shud b acting mature too nd nt bring up the breakup thing nd im saying is she needs time even if she says sumthng on breakup lines itz basically coz of her inability to b same person as she  was b4. And itz just 24hrs since dat happened . So acc to me shez nt  out of her character.  her characterisation ia vwry much intact. Having saud i had probs with nandu's  characterisation during fusion track  where she was crying nw nd den. I felt cvs failed in shown her proper state of mind as to y she was cryn nw nd den

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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:34am | IP Logged
Originally posted by parthian223

fieryheart you just said awesome...i just can say this comment is more good than the post...wow...you should make a post with this comment.don't know why people comparing this with rape...i know how painful rape is,on our area a 5 year girl got raped in school by a stuff,but even she didn't even get justice. i know nandini got through a lot and she has the right to cry,it won't indicate weakness.but this one shouldn't compared to a rape,who does don't have any common senseShocked

Thank u Smile Molestation is traumatic but to equate it with rape? Do these people even know what a rape victim goes through Confused Thats so sad yaar, a 5 yr old kid? Ouch Seriously what do these bloody rapists even see in an innocent kid to stoop a low that is beneath monstrosity levels even? Dead I have seen how a rape victim goes through all the trauma and many times they cant even speak about it. They can't even see them getting their justice. 

Molestation is certainly traumatic n having been through something like that I know how it feels. It makes u feel dirty, feel violated, u dont feel like reciprocating to anyone's touch, be it ur own loved ones atleast for some time. You have not been raped but that does not mean you have not been scarred. But seriously? You want to cut off from everyone just for that? Confused It makes u feel low about ur own self and believe thats painful. I am not saying she shouldn cry. Not saying she shouldn cut herself off. But all I am asking is y contemplate breaking up with ur loved ones? 
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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:38am | IP Logged
Originally posted by FieryHeart

Originally posted by parthian223

fieryheart you just said awesome...i just can say this comment is more good than the post...wow...you should make a post with this comment.don't know why people comparing this with rape...i know how painful rape is,on our area a 5 year girl got raped in school by a stuff,but even she didn't even get justice. i know nandini got through a lot and she has the right to cry,it won't indicate weakness.but this one shouldn't compared to a rape,who does don't have any common senseShocked

Thank u Smile Molestation is traumatic but to equate it with rape? Do these people even know what a rape victim goes through Confused Thats so sad yaar, a 5 yr old kid? Ouch Seriously what do these bloody rapists even see in an innocent kid to stoop a low that is beneath monstrosity levels even? Dead I have seen how a rape victim goes through all the trauma and many times they cant even speak about it. They can't even see them getting their justice. 

Molestation is certainly traumatic n having been through something like that I know how it feels. It makes u feel dirty, feel violated, u dont feel like reciprocating to anyone's touch, be it ur own loved ones atleast for some time. You have not been raped but that does not mean you have not been scarred. But seriously? You want to cut off from everyone just for that? Confused It makes u feel low about ur own self and believe thats painful. I am not saying she shouldn cry. Not saying she shouldn cut herself off. But all I am asking is y contemplate breaking up with ur loved ones? 
true..when manik supported her the most,even to be frank manik gave her justice by bringing aryaman...so its too much..everything will be clear from today's epi,nandini won't be so dumb to breakup with manik...and yaa rapists are rapists na,lower than animal..so disgusting...and yaa comparing a kdnap,some touch shouldn't be compared to rape at all..that makes no sense but a disgrace for the real victims

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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:39am | IP Logged
I just want to clarify about the whole "lets be friends" thing because the rest has been addressed in a separate post by Flame.Of.Rose.

Nandini gave a justification of why she wanted them to be friends in the tickling episode itself. She said, they are extreme. Either fighting or too close. This was in relation to the closeness and what almost happened on NYE. Remember that Nandini had just gotten back with Manik on that night, after so much struggle. How much did she really know him? How much did she really know him and trust him to take the ultimate step of physical intimacy? Because she wanted them to know each other better, and because they had already gone through so much before even really being together as a couple, she wanted to take her time. To enjoy each moment. THAT is why she wanted to be friends. If you ever watched Gossip Girl, when Nate and Serena finally got together, Dan and Blair told them to take it slow. Because only then would the relationship last. Only then, would it have meaning. 

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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:53am | IP Logged
Originally posted by dushturain

I was skeptical when i started reading this..but eventually i really liked what you hv written..


I agree to all u hv written...but there is a but...

I think its too early to be disappointed on Nandu and cvs...

The way nandu is reacting now is quite normal...which even u understand...and she has started to open up...only started...all she needs is time...manik needs to give her time...i know she was not raped but the experiance is not less traumatic...the girl is broken now...her faith in good is shaken and she is blaming herself...but eventually she will stop it... Our nandu is a fighter...give her some time...

Some thing bad happened to me 6-7 years back...i tell you neither was i raped nor was i kidnapped...but sth happened and i still hv issues...i hv issues with touching and i even hv issues with trust...And im definitely not a delicate doll...so if a girl like me still hv scars this deep though nothing really happened (according to society standards) its only 2nd day for nandini...she is doing awesome...i didnt even came out of my room for 1 week...

Every thing becomes normal...i start liking men again...but the issues stays deep down ... im working on my issues...Nandini will work on her issues tooo...just give her time...and dont be disappointed on her...






There is always a but like u said and thanks for making this post dushtu Smile

I definitely agree she needs time. Heck I dont care if she decides to spend some lone time to get over it. I dont mind her asking for a break but a break up? Ouch

Its sad that happened with you and tell you what? I went through that recently and I know how it feels. Neither am I a porcelain doll. Molestation leaves its scar and it takes days to get over. U try to pretend things are normal, hide it even but to what extent? We need to come to terms with it and the people who do such things should be the ones who should be punished but we suffer the brunt of it. I took a certain stand and moved on and though that took some of the burden off, it still pulls me down at times when I don't expect it too. It makes me cringe internally and that is not something I can do anything about. But pushing people away is never the solution is all I am trying to say. Will give Nandu sometime and see how she reacts. If she surely agrees with Manik to break up well Stern Smile I donno I will just say I will be disappointed in her again.

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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:55am | IP Logged
Originally posted by dushturain

Also i think cvs r doing full justice to her character!! Trust me they are

I hope they do Confused And ur words come true!

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