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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 2:38am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Muskaan00

Ummm i dont know wat to say man, the points you have mentioned about being Maniks spot and other things are different from what she is going through now, and you have mentioned that if Nandini is going througfh this what about a rape victim, gosh are u even understanding the girl is been abused mentally , physically this is nothing less than rape. 
There is no hope, even if thousand posts are being made to justify Nandini and her situation , there is not gonna be any empathy, what is so shocking is the forum is people from same gender as Nandini!
Hopeless, completely hopeless! 

About the points I made, it was how I had analysed Nandini right from start and I am not connecting it to just this one incident. 

I am a girl myself and I know how it feels if you have to go through an incident like that. Please read my post carefully. Did I say she was not abused mentally? That she won't need time to heal? I even cited my reasons for why she is feeling shattered. A person needs time to come out of it. I am not pissed off because she is trying to remain distant. She needs her space now, more than ever because more importantly she needs to come to terms with what happened. But equating this with rape is honestly a joke coz rape destroys a girl psychologically forever and no girl should ever go through that, EVER! And I have known a rape victim myself, so never ever will I talk lightly about it. And in the outside world when you are a working professional you encounter that people try to take advantage of you especially if you are a single woman and nothing disgusts me more. To be honest, I have felt that too and though this was something I would never mention it here but since you were being so judgmental about me, I had to say this. It is extremely disturbing and it probably took me days to forget that. But u dont let it break u down to pieces. U need to fight these jerks off and show them they are wrong not them. Did she not do that for Mukti herself? So there is no way I will say it should not disturb a girl. But one question to you - did pandit even try to rape her? He even told Nyonika his only intention was to talk and thats what he told Nandini too. I get it she was scared coz she was locked up, not knowing what he will do with her but when she saw she got her justice which hardly anyone ever gets in real life, she starts breaking apart. OK, she needs to vent out. Fine. But why the hasty move to think of break up?

But breaking up isn't the solution is what I am trying to say. She can ask him for a break but break up? Confused My disappointment is with the script coz that is dictating how characters should behave.

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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 2:45am | IP Logged
Originally posted by mishaarshi

Musicans n8 she kissed yes it was her love confession.  Bt on new yrs eve manik wanted to take it further so she spoke her mind she wanted to take it slow. Toh watz da prob in it. If a girl is not ready den shez not nd da guy who is in love with her understood  her pov den aas paas k logon kyu itni takleef kyu. Den wat she did was abs right she iz not navya to flow with emotions she wants things to b stable nd hence want to knw him by being frndz first . Aftr ihu track she wanted to stay back fight for manik's  trust again mend things right nd so for dat u term her as despoConfused trying to fix things is being desperate. . Okay ur pov...
And abt ystdy's epi manan r perfect for each other stop taking either one out of it . Like nandu clearly said she feels lost she no longer feels da same abt her own self. In these situations a person cannot really gv da needed love to other person wen they themselves r in self loathing mode. Cut her sum slack itz just 24hrs she'l b bac to the girl she was. 


Ya one more thing on nandu being the" mature girl nd still failing to c pundit's  intentions" let me just remind dat is purely nandu datz exactly her characterisation. She sees gud in every person
Agar aisa nahi hota she wud never hv fell for guy like manik. She is mature nd at the same time naive too. 




@Red - OMG LOL Did I say she should have let Manik proceed? I said she stopped Manik and Manik didn't ever try to get close again coz he understood she isn't ready. I am definitely not a person desperate to watch make out scenes, so please atleast keep me away from that. When she had confessed her love, she had already accepted the relationship. Of course your lover has to be a friend. Just because you kissed a guy does not mean you should sleep with him next Stern Smile She could have just gone back to being his girlfriend is what I meant LOL

I found it weird that she was begging him to make her stay. I understand if she begged him to hear her out and give a chance to explain. Sorry this was just my interpretation. Maybe I felt that could have been said in a different way too. 

And did I say she should love her boyfriend when she is broken? Stern Smile I even support her if she wants some time alone since every girl needs that after an incident like that. She is lost, exactly. So give time to find herself back. Take a break but a break up? Thats my only point.

And about ur last point, if u have read, I have clearly mentioned why her faith is shaken. Her own grandmother was her teacher n this creepo was her Amms fav. She believed a student teacher relation is sacred and never scaled it sceptically. Did I say she wrong in that? Did I mention she should have been able to see right through it? Atleast read what I have to say carefully before lashing out at me!


Edited by FieryHeart - 13 May 2015 at 2:47am

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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 2:47am | IP Logged
Originally posted by FieryHeart

Originally posted by Muskaan00

Ummm i dont know wat to say man, the points you have mentioned about being Maniks spot and other things are different from what she is going through now, and you have mentioned that if Nandini is going througfh this what about a rape victim, gosh are u even understanding the girl is been abused mentally , physically this is nothing less than rape. 
There is no hope, even if thousand posts are being made to justify Nandini and her situation , there is not gonna be any empathy, what is so shocking is the forum is people from same gender as Nandini!
Hopeless, completely hopeless! 

About the points I made, it was how I had analysed Nandini right from start and I am not connecting it to just this one incident. 

I am a girl myself and I know how it feels if you have to go through an incident like that. Please read my post carefully. Did I say she was not abused mentally? That she won't need time to heal? I even cited my reasons for why she is feeling shattered. A person needs time to come out of it. I am not pissed off because she is trying to remain distant. She needs her space now, more than ever because more importantly she needs to come to terms with what happened. But equating this with rape is honestly a joke coz rape destroys a girl psychologically forever and no girl should ever go through that, EVER! And I have known a rape victim myself, so never ever will I talk lightly about it. And in the outside world when you are a working professional you encounter that people try to take advantage of you especially if you are a single woman and nothing disgusts me more. To be honest, I have felt that too and though this was something I would never mention it here but since you were being so judgmental about me, I had to say this. It is extremely disturbing and it probably took me days to forget that. But u dont let it break u down to pieces. U need to fight these jerks off and show them they are wrong not them. Did she not do that for Mukti herself? So there is no way I will say it should not disturb a girl. But one question to you - did pandit even try to rape her? He even told Nyonika his only intention was to talk and thats what he told Nandini too. I get it she was scared coz she was locked up, not knowing what he will do with her but when she saw she got her justice which hardly anyone ever gets in real life, she starts breaking apart. OK, she needs to vent out. Fine. But why the hasty move to think of break up?

But breaking up isn't the solution is what I am trying to say. She can ask him for a break but break up? Confused My disappointment is with the script coz that is dictating how characters should behave.
fieryheart you just said awesome...i just can say this comment is more good than the post...wow...you should make a post with this comment.don't know why people comparing this with rape...i know how painful rape is,on our area a 5 year girl got raped in school by a stuff,but even she didn't even get justice. i know nandini got through a lot and she has the right to cry,it won't indicate weakness.but this one shouldn't compared to a rape,who does don't have any common senseShocked

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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 2:59am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ameerafatima

I can understand your..feelings..but Nandini have to do according to the scrip they gave...
I concern about Manik too... But even I got disappointed when I saw yesterday's epi...
After all it's a story...up and down comes in story as well as in life too...
So ,take chill.coz if there is drama the is no interest...
If Manik Nandini do all the ramaance scene...get get quite bored...rite...
No we have a eager to see that what is and from nadini's side ...
That's how they take the attraction and interest of the viewers...
So be happy ...
And don't take wrong meaning of this ...
You post is correct...I am not Denying your post ...
But don't take it seriously...

I agree and its the script's fault. Niti is a brilliant actress and she has done full justice to Nandini. I know it is a story but I think characterization needs to be intact na? Atleast to some extent? Atleast dont contradict what you have created Confused Believe me I am not a huge fan of romance LOL I got frustrated bcoz the story was focusing only on MaNan break up-patch ups that keeps running in circles LOL Arrey no yaar, u have atleast been polite instead of being judgmental. Even if u had contradicted me also I would not have felt bad LOL
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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:09am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Muskaan00


Script , forget about aout the script and show, these are somethings which happen in real life, the Nandini you see on TV could be you, me , your friend or your neighbour, would you still react the same way then? 

People arent realistic at all, there is no empathy whatsoever! 

The girl had been brave so many times, and she had fought for them , how? with all her hopes and things which she thought were true, but when that comes shaking up , her belief when they come shaking up what can she do! 

If people remember the fireflies thing , she was so broken when she felt her belief on fire flies were wrong, she lost her hope , this is the same her belief system has been shaken ! 



I have seen it happen in reality rather than just read about it! Its definitely not something that should happen to any girl. Molestation and rape, both are wrong! Extremely wrong. But atleast don't equate them. When I had been through something like that, it took me days to come out of it. But crying over it or blaming yourself is not the answer to it. So please stop judging me! And did I ever say Nandini should not have a breakdown? Did I say what happened was a small mishap? I have clearly mentioned she needs time AND I SAY THIS AGAIN! 

If u read carefully I even mentioned why she is so shaken. For a girl who had her grandmother for a teacher, she had grown up respecting teachers and she followed every thing they said. As in every good lesson they gave her. This is the same girl who was the only one to have never ever cheated even in an exam and that speaks for her upbringing, the faith she had in student teacher relationship. It was a teacher who did that but even before that happened she had known . Did I EVER say she should not feel shattered? I am only asking why think of breaking up? I am OK if she takes a break even. I am OK even if she does not want to talk to anyone for sometime including Manik. But y make a decision when ur mind is not in the right state is all I am questioning? So now I become an insensitive jerk who is inhuman even to not understand the trauma a girl goes through Stern Smile
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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:14am | IP Logged
Originally posted by parthian223

awesome post..nandini's character lost its charm,now people will say i am getting biased..but am not...i don't want to see romance always,it's about her promise that she shouldn't break if she die also as promises are meant forever like my nandini didnt forget about manik gets scared in dark on the dangerous moment also...manik and nandini both broke their own own promise two times(manik not to hurt her anymore,nandini to trust him).it shouldnt have happened again..but hope today's epi   everything gets back normal

Thank u Embarrassed and I won't say promises are not broken. After all we are human. I dont blame Nandini entirely for that Soha fiasco because she was confused. My only complaint is that she could have probably asked Manik before concluding Ermm But maybe she didn get the time for that. Its not promise but faith in a relationship. Things go dreadfully wrong in life but one shouldn't think of breaking up. Did she break up with Chacha Chachi? Did she break up with Navya? Or Cabir who are her friends? I know with Manik she shares a whole different equation and right now since she is so vulnerable she knows she will break down before him and maybe she doesn't want to get weak before him. But if she breaks up then what about Manik? Isn't he being punished for no fault of his? Confused I want Nandini to take her break but not the suggestion of a break up Stern Smile
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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:22am | IP Logged
I was skeptical when i started reading this..but eventually i really liked what you hv written..


I agree to all u hv written...but there is a but...

I think its too early to be disappointed on Nandu and cvs...

The way nandu is reacting now is quite normal...which even u understand...and she has started to open up...only started...all she needs is time...manik needs to give her time...i know she was not raped but the experiance is not less traumatic...the girl is broken now...her faith in good is shaken and she is blaming herself...but eventually she will stop it... Our nandu is a fighter...give her some time...

Some thing bad happened to me 6-7 years back...i tell you neither was i raped nor was i kidnapped...but sth happened and i still hv issues...i hv issues with touching and i even hv issues with trust...And im definitely not a delicate doll...so if a girl like me still hv scars this deep though nothing really happened (according to society standards) its only 2nd day for nandini...she is doing awesome...i didnt even came out of my room for 1 week...

Every thing becomes normal...i start liking men again...but the issues stays deep down ... im working on my issues...Nandini will work on her issues tooo...just give her time...and dont be disappointed on her...





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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 3:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by FieryHeart

Originally posted by parthian223

awesome post..nandini's character lost its charm,now people will say i am getting biased..but am not...i don't want to see romance always,it's about her promise that she shouldn't break if she die also as promises are meant forever like my nandini didnt forget about manik gets scared in dark on the dangerous moment also...manik and nandini both broke their own own promise two times(manik not to hurt her anymore,nandini to trust him).it shouldnt have happened again..but hope today's epi   everything gets back normal

Thank u Embarrassed and I won't say promises are not broken. After all we are human. I dont blame Nandini entirely for that Soha fiasco because she was confused. My only complaint is that she could have probably asked Manik before concluding Ermm But maybe she didn get the time for that. Its not promise but faith in a relationship. Things go dreadfully wrong in life but one shouldn't think of breaking up. Did she break up with Chacha Chachi? Did she break up with Navya? Or Cabir who are her friends? I know with Manik she shares a whole different equation and right now since she is so vulnerable she knows she will break down before him and maybe she doesn't want to get weak before him. But if she breaks up then what about Manik? Isn't he being punished for no fault of his? Confused I want Nandini to take her break but not the suggestion of a break up Stern Smile
yaa you are again right.but on soha matter nandini really acted dumb..how could she say i am confused,aree baba if you were confused then you can take the blame on urself,you could say i didnt see but manik couldn't do this...but listening to nyonika is just disgusting.btw let bygones be bygones,i hated the both character on a particular time,manik on musicana time and nandini on soha's time...btw now i love both,i don't want to hate nandini anymore.so she should standup for their relation today episode.then i will be happyLOL

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