Posted: 13 May 2015 at 5:27am | IP Logged
Originally posted by kresham
i read ur post just now n replied there
she ow feels that all her beliefs were wrong whatever she told to Manik myt also can come wrong some day...so when u urself feels wrong then how can u be with a person who believed u blindly...its all abt the person cant be perfect n its a time for Nandini to realize that world is not as beautiful as she thinks like Manik said this world is full of cruel ppl...but Manik started feeling that whatever Nandini says n believes is actually correct n always comes true...but now Nandini has to believe that whatever Manik says it has always a point she cant take him for granted everytime...she challenged Nyonika when she came to know abt her manipulation n now she believed Pandit which she herself had a belief that teacher cant b wrong...n made Manik also believe at some point of time...so that thing is killing her that if Manik is with her then she can make mistakes n also involve him in her mistakes bcz he believes in her n feels that when she is with him its perfect which she feels its not anymore
n now cmg to the epi its been only half day they spent...like mukti said he shud give her space so that she can think...n soo she ll understand that she doing wrong with Manik...she ll not breakup with him that is for sure but will b upset for some time ...which will b a test for Manik to bring her smile back
Well I think it should be more of a balance for both of them. Manik should stop being cynical about anything and everything and Nandini should stop being too trusting. Its all about balance. If there are people like pandit who are absolute creepos and Nyonika who is materialistic, then you also have people like Chacha Chachi who love you unconditionally even if ur not their own blood esp for chachi who loves all the kids like her own. They don't care if ur rich or not. They don't give a crap to all the materialistic stuff but value u for the person u r. Nandini learnt a lesson out of this fiasco that everything that glitters is not gold.
I accept she is shaken and of course she will be. She needs time, she needs love, constant support and assurance to come out of it but her guilt is something that baffles me. Maybe guilty for some of the reasons she cited but about pandit?
Just before the kidnapping incident she got to know about pandit's true colors and even before that she had felt it for herself. So she knew abt pandit. So now that she had accepted the fact then why feel guilty for not believing Manik? I can understand if she felt a small twinge of guilt after realising but for the kidnapping incident she did not fall under pandit's trap. She was kidnapped not lured. Had she still been trusting pandit and let him lure her I understand she could have blamed herself. Its just that the execution felt pointless to me. Had circumstances been slightly different her reaction would have felt justified to me. I will never say she shd get back to being normal immediately but I wouldn expect the CVs to bring up break up fiasco again
I always wanted this show to progress beyond MaNan issues coz no matter how good they are and they are the USP of the show, the show is not only about them. That really irked me.
If she wants to face Nyonika, then what she faced just now is nothing compared to the games Nyonika will play in the future. And I am actually dreading the day Nyonika's dirty secret is out. If Nyonika had to say Manik will feel more ashamed then I am damn sure he will break down completely and that will be a bigger test for them since Manik's identity will be shaken. Facing that might be more difficult than this. Pandit was still an outsider bu Nyonika is Manik's mom. I am not upset coz she had a break down but I was pissed at her for contemplating break up
Will wait for today's episode to decide
Edited by FieryHeart - 13 May 2015 at 5:29am