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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 1:27am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Chahanya

We hear news of the girl annulling the child marriage
Or a girl even after being in her sasural for years then finally breaks out of that asural

When will we hear the news that parents refuse to get the girl married before the age 18


When news like that comes then BV has really achieved its goal If it is the goal still



What is needed the father insisting that he will not get his daughter married before she turns 18.I think then only we can say that change has arrived.

Till now only the girls fighting later on the parents joining the fight.


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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 1:33am | IP Logged

On other things sometimes I feel the viewers are more obsessed  with Anandi Jagya relationship.While Anandi is very sorted out on that front. She can't remove him from her mind because he happens to a big part in her childhood.If she has to take him out of her mind she has to forget the fact that she was a child once. She is very sure that he is only friend from her chldhood days and never wants him as her husband.

Don't know why people fail to understand that the bond they have together now is because of the time they spent together as children doing things together having same bunch of friends from childhood be it Phooli or Lal Singh.
Jagya Anandi child marriage just shows how childhood and the innocent friendships get painted with a different colour because of child marriage.
This is mainly because both are of same age. 
While the reasons fro the failure of the marriage could be many including that being a child marriage but the lasting effect of that child marriage was either let go of your childhood memories or carry them along with you while trying to keep the child marriage in the past.


If we see Abhi and Shivam now it is almost like what Jagya and Anandi's relationship had been when they were at that age.Except that Shivam a bit naughty while Anandi was a perfect little angel all set for sainthood even back then. Only difference is that Anandi and Jagya were bound by an unnatural bond.


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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 1:41am | IP Logged
Originally posted by aparnauma

Originally posted by Chahanya

We hear news of the girl annulling the child marriage
Or a girl even after being in her sasural for years then finally breaks out of that asural

When will we hear the news that parents refuse to get the girl married before the age 18


When news like that comes then BV has really achieved its goal If it is the goal still



What is needed the father insisting that he will not get his daughter married before she turns 18.I think then only we can say that change has arrived.

Till now only the girls fighting later on the parents joining the fight.



Not sure what you mean.

The law states that girls should not be married before 18. So if parents do not get their daughters married before 18, how does that become news. It is the norm.

There are enough cases where girls and boys run away to get married before their permissible age of marriage. Parents file FIRs and try to get back their children stating that they are under-age. This is already happening. Parents tell kids to study, become independent and then think about marriage. This too is happening.

Child marriage is a malaise practiced in some regions. In most cases the parents are involved. Nobody protests. Only the government tries to stop it. If it goes through, in most cases the girl gets married and that is it.

There would be very few cases like this one where the girl has protested. Parents realise their mistake and are supporting her.

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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 1:56am | IP Logged
Originally posted by RTee

Originally posted by aparnauma

Originally posted by Chahanya

We hear news of the girl annulling the child marriage
Or a girl even after being in her sasural for years then finally breaks out of that asural

When will we hear the news that parents refuse to get the girl married before the age 18


When news like that comes then BV has really achieved its goal If it is the goal still



What is needed the father insisting that he will not get his daughter married before she turns 18.I think then only we can say that change has arrived.

Till now only the girls fighting later on the parents joining the fight.



Not sure what you mean.

The law states that girls should not be married before 18. So if parents do not get their daughters married before 18, how does that become news. It is the norm.

There are enough cases where girls and boys run away to get married before their permissible age of marriage. Parents file FIRs and try to get back their children stating that they are under-age. This is already happening. Parents tell kids to study, become independent and then think about marriage. This too is happening.

Child marriage is a malaise practiced in some regions. In most cases the parents are involved. Nobody protests. Only the government tries to stop it. If it goes through, in most cases the girl gets married and that is it.

There would be very few cases like this one where the girl has protested. Parents realise their mistake and are supporting her.
The law obviously seems to be ineffective here since the parents themselves are marrying off their daughters before they are adults.They don't seem to have respect for law.
Vigilance and legislation don't seem to be enough in these societies.
In this kind of scenario more than fear of law change in out look is what needed.That comes only with education and exposure to the world.
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Posted: 13 May 2015 at 6:42am | IP Logged
Originally posted by McDreaamer

When will Indian change their mentality about a girl? Why are they always in hurry to get their daughter married? This is so sad that these type of things happen even today.

it's not just in India. I was shocked when a case of child marriage of a Pakistani girl was reported in London. 

The parents (Pakistani origin) had arranged their 11 yr old daughter's marriage in Pakistan.

 Somehow the school authorities came to know about it (may be the girl herself told teachers). They called the social workers and police and stopped the parents from taking the girl to Pakistan. The police took away the girl's passport so that she could not travel out of UK. 

No matter which country they live, they still practice their tradition.

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