Posted: 10 June 2015 at 9:10am | IP Logged
Originally posted by .SoHu.
Originally posted by DexterRocks
SoHu, welcome back.
The problem was not that the bimbo fell in love with plastic boy, the only problem is Sujal could never move on, and she could always move over him, she did it with piyush when sujal was alive, she did it with tushar when sujal died, and this just makes it more pathetic because at one hand sujal could love only her and at another hand his love was reciprocated by crocodile tears and 2 days of grief and making him a source of only memory .
why could not kashish ask herself that how can i love again just within 6 months of sujal's loss ? And would sujal ever move on if i would die and leave him ?
You know what dexter, that's the crap the audiences like. I mean we are too feminist in our approach. A woman can always forget the past and move ahead in a flick of a second but a man can never dare to do that. At least in our daily soaps that's the way it is. A woman can never be wrong with her decision making, it is always the man's actions that compels her to take steps. I mean like what the hell.
When kashish married piyush the reason that got glorified was sujal failed to trust kashish and so she supported the guy who stood by her. Like W*F logic man. If ever she loved sujal so unconditionally then why did she never try to solve the misunderstanding? Why was it so that she prioritized sujal's harsh words but not the turbulent array of emotions he was going through while he said them? Why was it always so that sujal had to understand her? Why could kashish never be the first one to understand the problem and try to solve it? Why did such a disparity exist? It baffles me every time I see an ekta kapoor show. Never do they try showing equality between the sexes and sexist approach is something I hate from the core of my heart.
Kashish always had her reasons for moving on, half of which defied any sense to me. And falling for the plastic boy was the final nail in the coffin. It made me puke at her characterisation. If she could forget the man who nearly killed him to save her inspite of knowing that it was nothing but a well laid trap by her, then she could forget anyone in this world. Kashish always acted according to her convenience. An extremely selfish woman she was.
Had kashish died instead of sujal I can bet we would have got a sequence where sujal ends his life on his own, for it would have been meaningless for him to live knowing kashish was no more.
One thing about KTH was good that writers glorified Sujal a lot more than kashish and tempted to justify his actions throughout, which makes the whole perception and approach for this show different.
And sujal misunderstanding kashish with piyush is 5% of his fault and 95% of kashish, piyush, Rishi and his mother veena. First of all, any man at his place would feel terribly betrayed seeing his girlfriend get engaged to his BFF under his nose, i do not know that how can somebody justify kashish here that she did not know about it, but why did not even she make an effort ? Was that even logical to try and expect sujal understand her when he actually sees her in bridal get up with piyush, especially that very day he himself wanted to propose her .
Rishi the main culprit, i on't know how could he do that to sujal, knowing he loved sujal a lot, but as i said he felt kashish was a wrong girl for his brother and he did that out of his revenge and self centered ideas.
Veena, knowing everything stays quiet for what ? for seeing sujal burn everything out of betrayal and heartbreak ?
Piyush, the biggest joker of this show, he was engaging and he did not care to let his BFF know ? and he wanted sujal to be his right hand in every step of his life ? this is how he treats the person ? not even giving hint of his engagement ?
Sujal's only fault was his harsh words, but that still does not make it a saint game for kashish, she was always at fault . even after engagement, she never tries to make things clear, she infact proves sujal right by marrying piyush, that yes anything is more important than sujal's feelings .
and those days i wanted to kill mehek for whatever she did, her pregnancy was the last straw to separate sujal and kashish, and both sujal kashish definitely were right to trust their respective siblings, and this is just so more heart breaking .
Kashish was never a lover, she was a woman, practical woman, the lover in her was buried under her ego and feminism, because being sacrifical and selfless is something that comes naturally, which kashish never had. she would sacrifice for her sisters but not for sujal. And the biggest flaw in her character was her lack of trust and faith in sujal's love, she abused his love, made his love into a petty emotion which can be forgotten and mocked with her orders and belief system, but she forgets that he is not a door mat, he is not a hypocrite and neither the betrayer, and he never feared anybody, he feared only losing her and he had lost her big time, and this made him so much more brutal from inside that even after losing her and his all happiness, when he goes to support her at her bad times, all she returns him is another accusation, another insult to his character and another mockery for his love .