principle vs practicality

i think we have faced similar situations

Originally posted by: .chandni.

i think we have faced similar situations

we have to compromise at some places

we have to reach a mid point at times

even without wanting we have to do some things

neither was shiv wrong nor was dd

well I don't think so shiv was a saint till now. he thought about samajh and his companions more than his son, his family. left them to suffer.. !! (can comment on him only wen his side is shown) but till bow what we know.. I agree with dd.. n I applaud her for her strong personality.

Originally posted by: skinnypal

well I don't think so shiv was a saint till now. he thought about samajh and his companions more than his son, his family. left them to suffer.. !! (can comment on him only wen his side is shown) but till bow what we know.. I agree with dd.. n I applaud her for her strong personality.

I guess he too tried to save his son's life but it was too late. We will find out his reasons soon.
Edited by paru10 - 8 years ago

indeed neither of them were wrong both DD and Shiv lost a child but if Shic had listened to her maybe he could have been alive...

There are situations that no one can handle. It's in no one's hand. We try to do what is best at the moment. Until we know for sure about Shiv's POV we won't be able to fully judge or say anything about them. All we can say that both DD-Shiv are right and wrong in their own POV. 

I hate Shiv now😡😡... whatever it may be, how can he leave his wife, daughter & whole family to suffer alone even after a broken situation that his wife lost her son😭 In front of babies' face, whr those principles are living I really donno😕

Agreed, though of course this is a debatable topic.

Ya, I agree Shiv can't be completely blamed but DD is more right here. I personally know many people who values principles more than family, they all are not always bad.. Even many social workers & politicians belong to this category.. But its important to maintain a balance😕 Here things have gone bad b'coz of the child's death or else principle's and practicality could have co existed.. its not that Shiv didn't try to save his son's life but fate played a dirty game My only complaint is that he never returned in 23 yrs...What was he doing all these years??😲 That part can be clear only when his POV is known😕

He did a mistake but the major mistake was he left and never returned😕. He should have persisted like Sid did when Roshni left

Originally posted by: paru10

I guess he too tried to save his son's life but it was too late. We will find out his reasons soon.