Posted: 15 May 2015 at 11:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by harshita27
Originally posted by Nisha0604
Hershey meri jaan, KIDHAR THI?
I agree with you "partially"
I know plenty of sisters that go over board with their nieces and nephews. I know plenty of uncles that go over board with their worthless nephews and nieces well into the kids' adulthood
Middle class values har koi treasure ki tarah protect nahi karta neither do people follow it as much as we think. Atleast in MY experience. I know of sisters that borrowed upto the eyes for their sister or multiple sisters' weddings because parents couldnt.
So II is NOT mahaan in that aspect. Girls do a lot more...
Men do as well for their family
Also she booked this camp BEFORE Shravu stole the ipad
Agree she should be more prudent
Also the world is filled with all sorts of people, some cry more some cry less. Its just the way she expresses her hurt.
Also she never interfered in Shravu's disciplining, she has NO CLUE what happened to the matter, she went last nite cooked cleaned, fed everybody and returned, this morning she took paranthas for Akka visited with her and left for work she has no clue what Sam did or what Bala did
HOW will R&B know? He doesnt talk to Sam every day... Nandu lost his ipad he didnt steal it
He could have only learned it through II and she aint tellin him
Bala and Vandu are not going to call him to narrate it
So your logic of "He would have known" doesnt apply
Husbands usually come to know of things in either families WELL AFTER the dust has settled
Atleast in marriages I have observed
In soaps yes, coz they usually listen in behind curtains
Nishaa!! Kaisi ho?? Gaay bhains sab theek thaak??
Yaar to take loans for big life events like marriage,education,parents' car.. Thats all good expenses! I have a problem about her 4000 ka ye faltu expense! N then ribbing in middle class ka tamga each time yaar.. Not even 24hrs since her relationship manager told her ki faltu ki expenses kuch din band karo... She just got her account out of Red! Ye 4000 n then emporio mei mothers day ka shopping wait kar sakta tha,n if R&B pointed out her 'begaani shaadi mei abdullah diwana' behavior, she tapkao-es aansu! Yaar hurt toh R&B hua, uski baaton se... Madam ne words bhi chipkaye n aansu bhi!! Ekdum free free free! Mrs Sagar n Manni ko kya lagega, R&B hurt her, noone would know she hurt R&B first!!!
I agree there are sisters n brothers who go overboard with their nephews n nieces but II comes from a family where descipline was important, so when she behaves atrangi, mereko digest nahi hota yaar! :(
N R&B, yeah he doesnt talk to Sam, but Sam sab kuch discuss karti hai! Am surprised Sam didnt call n tell her calling school n Bala's reaction! I felt Sam would tptally have made the distress call! Agreed husbands come to know the last, but its a big matter, not aloo baigan ki sabI that people wont care!
I understand your POV fully, yes, most girls I see these days like yourself, DO NOT follow their parents/ financial jurisprudence
advice to a T. II has been crafted as a tribute to the 100s of young girls I have met from WIPRO and TCS and IBM India and HCL India in the last 10 ish years
They display startling spark and courage, they are bold, they are ambitious, they are fearless
I have mentioned on these topics before I am their agony aunt
I find I dont have to give them advice on "How to take care of their parents after marriage"
Most are doing WAY WAY more than I ever will, in this lifetime
I am ashamed to admit I didnt do enough... not all are from wealthy families, not all are from poor familes, they ALL UNFORMLY over extend themselves when it comes to family
I should have made that clear when I drew II's portrait my bad I didnt
Also II charged her card for summer camp WELL BEFORE the pizza over draft event
Edited by Nisha0604 - 15 May 2015 at 11:16am