Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Bottom line: WE ALL JUDGE people
When we hear some unsavory thing on in-laws' side we all feel like sharing/discussing/talking to our Moms about it
Husbands may not gossip but husbands mention it "U know what her cousin eloped it seems her Amma called and told her, its her Periamma's daughter..." etc etc
U say things in phone conversations...
Nobody wants to be judged... wed rather have our stink stay in our house only๐
Absolutely right Nisha..
And I really don't believe when someone says they have a 100 % sharing relationship...Hota nahi aur hai hi nahi...
36 yrs gone past and my husband clearly knows that I will not tell him what I dont want to, but his POV is deal with it as you wish, don't come at the nth hour asking for opinions...
Which works well, cos as you said you dont want to be judged, you dont want your family to be judged...That right only you can hold onto !! NOONE ELSE
But my son shares every breath he takes with his wife ๐
works for them !! he even tells me, don't share stuff you dont want wifey to know as I dont hold back
Each to their own ๐
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