Originally posted by: Ashu25
II ka mujhe samajh nahi aata bhaiShe talks rubbish when he is around. And when he finds out she picks up a fight.When she has to share, she doesnt.Very rarely ghuma phirake baat bolti hai.However insecure she is.. Its now a family and I think she must have shared this with RB... Irrespective of the judgements of the Bhallas.
Originally posted by: samsi74
Swathi you and I posted at the same time. No I don't think wives hide things this much from their husbands. I certainly don't. Specially things he'll get to know later. If I did something like this I can't even imagine my husband's reaction!! Apart from being dishonest, it's not prudent either. You loose your husband's respect. If she can hide it permanently then she can(hide it) to save face but otherwise being upfront is the best strategy, I'm my opinion.
Originally posted by: samsi74The reasons I can think of for II's behaviour are
1.She is a newlywed2. Very insecure about her husband's affection3. Insecure about her finances3. Very proud4. Very competitive5. Want to save face regarding her family
Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Well said... and then add the following
6. She doesnt NEED to just because he is her hubby
7. some things can be shared with best friends or siblings alone
8. Just like parents are not told certain things husbands can be too. Its not a life and death matter and he is no way connected to Shravu's act (she just discovered he stole Nandu's)
Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Well said... and then add the following
6. She doesnt NEED to just because he is her hubby
7. some things can be shared with best friends or siblings alone
8. Just like parents are not told certain things husbands can be too. Its not a life and death matter and he is no way connected to Shravu's act (she just discovered he stole Nandu's)
Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Well said... and then add the following
6. She doesnt NEED to just because he is her hubby
7. some things can be shared with best friends or siblings alone
8. Just like parents are not told certain things husbands can be too. Its not a life and death matter and he is no way connected to Shravu's act (she just discovered he stole Nandu's)
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