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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 10:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by nneeiill

well said geet...
no one pointed out when she was all normal the next day??? ..everybody enjoyed when she patted manik on the floor...no one appreciated the brave face she put up to get justice..but when she is breaking down everyone is pointing fingers at her ..wow...how can this gal behave this way even if she was tortured the night before hai na...

am sure even if they had not shown her break down some of the viewers would have been happy coz after all what matters is manik...how nandu treats manik...nandu  ke feelings jaay bhaad mai...

i have seen comments where members were angry that she flinched at his touch on the first day..Wacko

they had to show this state of nandu..her  self confidence is broken...

Thanks SaamyHug
@bold: What, are u serious? OH MY GOD. just. wow. i give upLOLLOLLOL

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 11:04am | IP Logged
Hi Geet, Its really good you made the post in the main forum. It feels nice to see quite a number of people who have commented in this post showing that they are in the same line of thought and understanding Nandini's reactions.

During Soha's magistrate track, when Fab 4 wanted to comfort him, he refused and insisted on being alone. He was not willing to discuss with Cabir and Dhruv about Nandini. Sometimes when people feel lost and the best defence mechanism is some alone time for themselves.

Sad that some people just dont want to understand why the girl is behaving like this and more sad they feel this way as the person in question is THE MANIK MALHOTRA.

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 3:34pm | IP Logged
Wonderful post...totally agree with you...dont know why people are biased towards nandini..but well as you say their point of view...
About nandini i must say when she was fighting for justice...she was strong...and i loved that warrior...but todays nandu broke my heart...poor girl...was crying for her...Cry...waiting to see how cvs plan the further tracks...

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 4:49pm | IP Logged
You're absolutely right. We need to see things from her POV if she had gone back to her old self after Pandit got arrested that would not be normal. She needs to let go of what happened to her and the only way she can do that if she talks and says what is in her heart. 
Everyone is just worked up because she is not letting Manik touch her. But Manik understands why Nandini is pushing him away. I don't see why others can't understand the same thing. 

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 7:48pm | IP Logged
Thank you so much for making this post! 
Kudos to you for trying to get the message across. Clap

It's sickening to see people blaming Nandini even after we saw how badly she suffered in the past 24 hours. She is not in the right state of mind. 
She feels violated, dirty and she is blaming herself. She is not normal at this point. She is broken inside - everything she believed in no longer exists. Pandit tainted that teacher-student bond. She is lost - like she said. How can she be with Manik when she herself feels so lost? How will she give her all to a relationship when she has lost herself in all these events?

This is sad, but reality. What Nandini is going through - every victim goes through and instead of blaming her, we should be supporting her.


Edited by -KP- - 12 May 2015 at 9:59pm

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 9:10pm | IP Logged
Good post !

The point is why do people sympathize with Manik and not Nandini at this point of time? Or even glorify Manik now? To such people, I request to think if they were in Nandini's shoes, what would they do?

Would they just be themselves ie breakdown when this happens or be politically correct just so that they dont lose the GREAT guy Manik ? Is such a relationship based on equality or an insecurity ?



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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 11:11pm | IP Logged
Exactly & on top of all she never asked him to leave her, she just shared that she is lost, if one is not herself, how can that one can b with anyone.
That's logic, and common sense i guess. Which majority lack.
Plus for God Sake it's ky2, MaNan never gt separated even when they were fighting , they are always together forever, 
Manik won't leave his Lady Love friends , nor she can stay away from him. 

Give Nandini few days to b normal.
A worst nightmare can change ur entire life, here she just want few days.

Wake up. Face d Reality.
Let's Cvs play their Card, they r not stupid to repeat same track with new faces of villains.

Originally posted by shrutiavm

ClapClapClap Clap Finally someone's writing from nandini's perspective..  Feel like posting this link on all those posts which have been portraying Nandini as a heartless person..  After all How can Nandini break thr manik's heart by asking for a break or walking away from him!!!  u gotta b kidding me.. love is a beautiful feeling and its great to have support of loved one's but atleast in my personal experience.. wanting me- time is not wrong.. even when someone's upset.. one likes to be alone... its thr personal pref.. not that they r @fault  in asking alone time!



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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 11:29pm | IP Logged
So agree.Its double standards you know , people expect women to be emotionally strong but they forget we are human being too and as everyone we do have our weak moments.We are expected to smile in tough times even if we are breaking inside that's how its mostly been the case.And its not surprising to see such reaction of members here.I pity such minds ,is it so difficult to see that Nandini had a traumatic experience.She trusted pundit as a child does on his teacher.Her trust was further cemented after she came to know that Pundit is her Amms fav student.To see that trust being shattered , to see that man you gave so much respect to ,trying to harm you by invading your space.Being abducted ,tied , hurt ,touched wrongly.And she is juSt 17 year old girl, going through so much has scarred her.Not even a day has passed.
She will heal , she will move forward from this dark phase , she will be trusting again but will learn to be more cautious in a wise way.Give her time , space and let her be.And then she will seek her love's touch again.

I absolutely loved the epi.Firstly exit of TK ,nothing made me more happy than this.And then Nandini's breakdown.Manik is not going to leave Nandini in this state , are there people seriously questioning this on basis of precap?then I advice them to watch the last week epis again.

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