Is marriage a solution to everything?

Looking at YHM's track record, it might seem it is so. I'm just surprised a serial which had promised mature, modern storyline is kinda using marriage as a solution to all issues...like Rinky, Simmi even Sarika-Romi (for a time being). Why can't a woman be just independent and get married only when she's ready? Wouldn't it have been positive to show Simmi fighting her custody battle being a single mom with the support of her family? Why does she need another man to negate the claims of a missing in action father that Param has been?

Sorry I've not been watching YHM for a week or so but keep up with the news related to the show in IF...am feeling kinda insulted as a woman after reading about Subbu-Simmi date. Please don't misunderstand me...Simmi settling down again with another guy is very positive track, just the timing is not right. Wish it was post her divorce and custody battle with Param.

No offense meant to anyone liking this track. Just my honest feelings.

very true Gan...

exactly my point...why cant toshi give a breather to her daughters...first she almost ruined rinky's life by fixing her marriage with that fraudster...
Edited by anjs - 8 years ago

YHM preaches many illogical things! 

Word to word, I agree Gan Di!

Kuch bhi thy r showing aajkal! Hmph!

my opinion on this:

Gan...This is another great idea of Toshi Bhalla... This is all that we can expect from her...  This is totally lame. Wish Puttar comes back soon and cleans this mess which has been created by cv's to show his absence.

It's not even Toshiji alone here. She catalyzes it, but one episode they have a female character wanting to be strong & independent and the next...they appear to be fine with marriage.

I hate it. There is no such thing as a single, independent woman bc according to these CVs that doesn't make good entertainment.

Instead - forced relationships supposedly progress the plot.

It's pathetic.

I was so proud of Simmi when she said she was going to start teaching with Raman's help, and now what?

Marriage & relationships are now a mockery on this show, and I don't relate to a single female character anymore.

I am single & in the process of becoming independent - so per this show, am I in the wrong?

Whatever

Originally posted by: anjs

exactly my point...why cant toshi give a breather to her daughters...first she almost ruined rinky's life by fixing her marriage with that fraudster...

and now she is forcing subbu on simmi..."give ur daughter some time to come out of it, woman...her feelings were involved in that marriage...so what if param was a pervert, it will be difficult for her to trust another man, again"

Agreeddd! Not only tht, what if Subbu is simply getting attached to Simmi so that he can get a glimpse of Ishita everyday. And the way he blamed himself regarding his child's death. A thought to ponder.

Cvs hv nt opened Subbu completely. Is he a chnged man or back with revenge!?

Its going worse day by day...

Something is not right here n that date shit has turned me off completely. I wonder how Simmi agreed to go on for a date with Subbu esp whn she knows he is the reason for Ishita's heart break in the past!

Originally posted by: avni_19

Agreeddd! Not only tht, what if Subbu is simply getting attached to Simmi so that he can get a glimpse of Ishita everyday. And the way he blamed himself regarding his child's death. A thought to ponder.

Cvs hv nt opened Subbu completely. Is he a chnged man or back with revenge!?

Its going worse day by day...

Something is not right here n that date shit has turned me off completely. I wonder how Simmi agreed to go on for a date with Subbu esp whn she knows he is the reason for Ishita's heart break in the past!