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anandi's equations

leavesandwaves IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 3:01am | IP Logged
There were some questions and I would like to put my views.

Anandi's equation with Ganga is that of anandi's equation with Phooli or Pooja. Just because she is now Jagya's wife does not change the basic equation.

Anandi's equation with dadisa is that of respect and nothing more as of now.

Anandi's equation with Jagya is that of a childhood friend and a good human being in her eyes.

Yes, there are bonds of different types which may change or may not.

aparnauma IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 3:41am | IP Logged
Anandi's equation with Ganga is and always has been similar to the bond that she shared with other child brides. But with each one of them she did develop a different bond too.
Phooli and she are childhood friends they were friends from their Bilaria days

Gulli's mother was her friend and with Gulli she had another bond too- she rescued her from child marriage and she got her educated and she was teaching at the school which Anandi started. Because of Anandi Gulli became close to Singhs

Pooja again she was a rescued child bride but it went on to become something deeper because the girl's contribution to the school activities.

Ganga - too she empathised with her because she too was a child bride and she was so horrified when she heard her story. She wanted to take Ganga along with her to her home. But Jagya and Dadisa wanted to take her. Then she got her child back.Irrespective of the fact whether she was married to Jagya her bond would have continued.

Had Shiv and Anandi not moved to Udaipur Ganga and Anandi would have ended up just the way Aanndi and Phooli. Friends.

But BH wasis complicated this  - by constantly comparing her with Anandi and trying to see Anandi in her and expected her to behave the same way as Anandi would - She tried in the begining - but even after years they still seem to view her in that way.

All that is happening right now is Ganga wanting to come out of Anandi's shadows in the eyes of BH wasis.

I think all this should stop.

While so much is being discussed about how Ganga is affected nobody seems to be interested in how Anandi is affected in all this.

Did she tell them to make comparisons with her? Did she ever compare herself with Ganga? She never ever comapred herself with Gauri Ganga or even Ashima.How does it become Anandi's fault if Dsa keeps telling that no one makes Adrak chai like Anandi does and how J  brings up Anandi in his conversation with his wife to score a point?
Why should she pay the price for the hang ups that Singhs have?

People keep talking about how she kept remembering J even after her marriage every time Shiv came near her 
But she kept pushing him away as long as his actions and behaviour reminded her of J which is exactly opposite of J and his relationship with women.

She did not come to this place on her own she came because her husband's family wanted to.
For her home is where she and Shiv lived and that's the reason why she never felt at home in BH.
While BH may not be her home  she always did have a bond with Dsa and that was for very valid reasons
People keep saying she out stayed her welcome blah - Who was the reason for that? Was it Anandi or Dsa? Wasn't it Dsa who refused to let her get out of BH?
If Dsa showers her affection on Shivam what is she supposed to do? Reject all that?
For whatever reasons Dsa is the only person she has in this world other than Shivam. Just because the husband and wife use her name in their quarrels she has to forego her relationship with Dsa?

Why should Anandi pay the price?

Why no one says a thing about Dsa who has been tying her up with her love and care?

Why no one says anything about the husband and wife who bring in third person into their arguments?

Jagya does he even matter to her  or what he does matter to her? Her equation with him has not changed ever since Shiv entered her life. It will never change.

Anandi's equation with Ganga had always been on of empathy - even now

Jagya - nothing more than a friend

Dsa has changed - her protectiveness and concern has changed to that of possessiveness and clinging kind of relationship.

It is Anandi who is paying the price for the changed perceptions of these people.

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jayshree1942 Goldie

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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 4:06am | IP Logged
Well after leap cvs have not shown any scene where we can see jagya anandi bond. hardly they shared any screen space.
CVS have not shown how anandi interfere in jagan ganga matter in last 11 year.

somewhere i feel this ganga insecurity track came all of a sudden, which was not at all required.

I just understood simply they want to remove anandi from bh so they brought this kind of twist.

But why they removed her is still question for me. Aisa kya hai jo woh bh mein rehekar nahi kar sakati.

ye bhi dekhana hai ke kya future mein ganga will say sorry to anandi and anandi will be back in badi haveli.

Bichari Anandi jab chahe cvs usse badi haveli se nikal te hai and jab chahe wapas badi haveli mein late hai.Wink
aparnauma IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 4:19am | IP Logged
The story of Singhs and Anandi is all about Kacchi umar ki pakke rishte and the repurcussions
For their story purpose they made Anandi stay in BH for 11 years and thankfully they covered those years in the leap 

Now they got a basis for Kacchi umar ke pakke rishte story they are moving  the story to SN because only through SN the story of the new characters enter the main story 

Dsa and JG will be dealing with the consequences of Anandi shifting out along with their own story Anandi's physical presence is not required for the rest of Singh story her name is enoughTongueLOL 

Anandi Shivam in SN is obviously essential for Nimboli and Anandi bond as well Nimboli and Shivam bond to develop so that when the revelation happens this relationship they forged between the three of them as strangers will be a buffer.

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jayshree1942 Goldie

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Posted: 11 May 2015 at 4:49am | IP Logged
Well mujhe toh ye dekhana hai ke Anandi ko kab pata chalega ke nimboli is her daughter and after knowing this what Anandi does?
Whether she will take her back and akheraj family role will get over or they will show nimboli with akheraj family only. 

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