Originally posted by SaaraDON
Originally posted by ash k I do think that Harisha should have asked for permission maybe but she is relatively new to the AT and would not have known of this certain system' you have had put into place. However this could have been handled way better and not made such a silly issue out of. I was present during the day the live update was taking place and a few people felt the need to put forward their views there and then. Can I add that they were being extremely rude and quite frankly didn't care when they were actually told about this attitude- well guess what if you cant care then why should I? That will obviously create havoc because not everybody will stand this.
Just become some may be mods and have more access to or have the privilege to update SBB/SBS stuff does not mean they can talk down to other member? I don't want to single anybody out but DON that was you. Guys,please keep your pretentious authority' to yourselves and do not for one moment take this as an opportunity to make yourselves feel way superior than others.
Yes, I was rude and I never denied it and nor did I MIND anyone calling me rude. Because I know how to accept where I am wrong!
What I was complaining about was RIGHT! Me being rude, yes, maybe that was WRONG!
And I am surprised at everyone's definition of being rude. You find me rude and my attitude rude. Fine. Yes, it is.
But what about Harisha butting into LU's and making all these one line posts just because SHE cannot wait and SHE thinks the others operate the same way? Isn't that being rude towards your regular LU updaters efforts? (Mind it...I am not talking about SBB/SBS here. I don't really give a damn about who is doing it other than me or who is not).
And PLEASE NOTE...I am NOT a MOD !!!! Nor have I ever claimed to be one!
I did highlight the fact that Harisha should have been considerate. Dee is the MOD, not you so that as aimed at her. But I did also mention, MOD and few others that have the privilege of updating etc- you fall under that category.
Also I did mention that it is frustrating that if people to go out of the way to do something and there is interference it is very annoying and upsetting, that I will not ignore or deny.
Also, my message in the post does include Harisha in which I have even highlighted that she could have been mindful and should have asked for permission etc. I have looked at both sides and commented on both. My comment was not one sided.
And as far as my updating SBB/SBS is concerned...I started it on my own because like other forums NOBODY was doing it here regularly.
And Ayesha, the day you do something for your AT family going out of the way, not being in your regular comfort zone...just because you know they might be waiting and you care for them...AND then you see that the whole effort was USELESS because the job you did was already done by someone else without you being informed...that is the day I'll ask you if you get agitated or not.
That I have shown gratitude and appreciation towards you for because it takes effort. I will never take that away from you at all. Again thank you for the updates. I look forward to it everyday! Again i also mentioned that at the beginning of my post! The effort that is made is fantastic!
It is not about superiority or authority...it is about being patient and respecting what others are voluntarily doing for you on a regular basis.
AND I DON'T HAVE ANY INFERIORITY OR SUPERIORITY COMPLEXES! NEITHER DO I OPERATE THAT WAY ON SOCIAL MEDIA NOR IN MY PERSONAL LIFE! So, don't even think about me doing that. Not even in your subconscious mind. Whoever fed you this is definitely WRONG!
That was not aimed at you- it was for Deefan! And it was not fed to me but the message Deefan sent to Harisha showed favouritsm and the fact that old members were leaving the AT due to a new member- clearly showing a difference. Don't think that was the best way to welcome a new member. I mean I joined a few months ago- where do I fit in?
Really do appreciate your reply!!!!