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Posted: 18 May 2015 at 8:17pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by _Angie_

Originally posted by qwertyesque

 
You are so all over the place.. 
Cant help it if I find almost every sentence , examples quoted  , interpretations and the sweeping statements faulty! 

we won't be able to concur on several things.. malaika's claim to fame is her raunchy numbers.. nobody remembers her any other way..
Wrong .


 Leone was a po*n star.. the question here is if you are professional can you do anyting.. so according to you it would be ok if she acted in po*n since that industry is quite professional these days.. Oscars might soon start a category for that...Smile
Wrong interpretation of my words


You said some men ogle!!!??? All do.. its just not evident.. 
Wrong again! Dont you read or do you misread always! Shocked



i always wondered which woman would be more offended.. one who gets whistled at by guys.(no molestation just kind of giving attention). or the one who is totally ignored...i used to think it would be the former.. but at a deeper level it should be the latter..
Lets get the superficials right first. Tongue


.we are limited by our physical appearance and we cant change that... most of the plight of the world circles around that...which leads me to my topic.. everyone craves attention.. 
...for what they wear!!!!? 



but woman will realize it more if they didnt get noticed..
so why not do them the  favouLOL

 so is the dressing one way or the other to attract this attention...
Its confirmed now that you did not read the previous replies .


 now this may be due to male dominated society which never put men in the same situation of being physically judged (arranged marriages) etc.. just my question is on as is basis... not a what if basis..
Wrong again.


Lastly i am neither muscular nor smelly nor go to public places wearing sleeveless tees LOL..
OK. Possible LOL


 that was for rest of the "man"kind... Smile... but what you said about the girl being dressed not to seek attention is the typical indian cultural subduing of women wanting to come out of the shackles of moral burden she is made to carry just for unknown reasons.. ..
Whoa there! Shocked Either the girl has  dressed to invite whistles or she is culturally subdued  for unknown reasons! No third option! 


 india is too complicated society where besides liking hte sexual characteristics.. guys can be just obsessed with her face or eyes  and live a life of confusion and chais...and i know that for sure... 
..but I am sure I didnt get that one at all Ouch

Smile... which is why i asked this in indian context... in european countries girls moving topless is not considered nude.. so they match up with men in that aspect.. at least... LOL

The european countries are free to form their own definition. Why would you expect India to do the same? Each culture has its own pros and cons. While a woman in Europe may feel compelled to invite attention through her clothes or appearance  till the end of her life , the Indian women find it much easier to age gracefully without any such compulsion to invite attention.LOL Before you start  quoting  examples of actresses or models again  let me reiterate at the risk of your misreading again that a person's occupation greatly influences the attire. Eg   Sania Mirza cannot be expected to play tennis while wearing a saree or a burqa. Now that statement says nothing about the profession or the dress  being right or wrong. No oscars for that one LOL



so many wrongs, LOL. you have decided to hurt my confidence havent you?Smile.. Sania never wore decent attire.. she wore it for the oomph factor.. if you want appropriate attire check out sharapova, steffi graf... and several others...!!! Steffi Graf.. was the best dressed ever... and won so many matches...!!! Sania is more noise


Edited by qwertyesque - 18 May 2015 at 8:34pm

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Posted: 18 May 2015 at 8:25pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by LovelyPlanet

Originally posted by qwertyesque

Originally posted by BirdieNumNum

Originally posted by qwertyesque

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i think women wear 'those' clothes for pretty much the same reasons as men wear 'their' clothes. These could include any or more of following- to look chic, to be comfortable, to look cool, to look hot, to fit in with others, to feel good as well as to feel good about themselves.

of course no one is looking to get hounded by the other sex for their clothes. You want people to find you attractive, but you dont want them to grope you or indulge in cat-calls or eve-teasing because of it... and they should not, needless to say.

there's a subtext in all this... The choices women/ men make with regards to dressing up/ down is in context of other people. Left to oneself with no one around, and with no prospect in sight, one might well traipse around in other attire or none at all :)


if it was as simple as your first line.. We would have Victor's secret... for us..LOLLOL

Guys dont care for their dressing - its modern thinking that has made guys engage in feminine traits... otherwise men really dont care about these things...Smile


if there's no victor's secret, it's because no one is interested in men showing cleavage. LOLHave you seen how uglyman-boobs are? That would be like a sagging 50D or somethingLOL

and of course, men care. That's why you've got even fat balding middle aged men go for expensive armani suits, wanting to look sexy. How crazy is that- fat, balding guys think they can be sexy in anything?LOL..



trust me, men have nothing to show.. just wealth and popularity..so armani dont make him sexy... just woos those gold diggers who btw have been flaunting that cleavage for a reason Smile..and thats the reason I want to know because I consider woman more than just that...men have no aesthetics...btw victors secret may not have to just do with cleavage..Smile
I am thankful for the existence of this other gender...not to say all woman come close to aesthetics... all my misconceptions can be cleared if i attend one of those feminist meetings...LOL


"men have nothing to show"??
Really? not sure if you are a man or woman but sorry to say that seems so wrong . Have you not seen fitness models? Are they showing wealth? Of course they attract women.
Apart from gold diggers there are rich women too who aren't interested in wealth, they go for looks.

sure,... without googling.. can you name a few male models.. you know...Smile... btw its not rocket science to guess my gender... LOL
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Posted: 18 May 2015 at 11:37pm | IP Logged
"Girls don't dress for guys, they dress for themselves or impress other girls... If they dressed for guys they would be naked all the time."..By Abraham Lincoln Tongue

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Posted: 18 May 2015 at 11:49pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by qwertyesque

 
so many wrongs, LOL. you have decided to hurt my confidence havent you?Smile.

Not at all . Just trying to save a fellow DMer from the fate that befell this SP neta in UP . The link provided below in case you think I was exaggerating. Not sure how subdued every  women  is  but I am  sure you'll agree that its better  safe than sorry LOL

http://mlife.mtsindia.in/nd/?pid=271950

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Posted: 19 May 2015 at 6:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Believe-

"Girls don't dress for guys, they dress for themselves or impress other girls... If they dressed for guys they would be naked all the time."..By Abraham Lincoln Tongue

I think it wasnt lincoln.. it was buddha!!!LOL

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Posted: 19 May 2015 at 6:10pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by _Angie_

Originally posted by qwertyesque

 
so many wrongs, LOL. you have decided to hurt my confidence havent you?Smile.

Not at all . Just trying to save a fellow DMer from the fate that befell this SP neta in UP . The link provided below in case you think I was exaggerating. Not sure how subdued every  women  is  but I am  sure you'll agree that its better  safe than sorry LOL

http://mlife.mtsindia.in/nd/?pid=271950

i told ya india is a country of backward women.who are insane as well..LOLLOL
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Posted: 20 May 2015 at 1:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by qwertyesque

Originally posted by _Angie_

Originally posted by qwertyesque

 
so many wrongs, LOL. you have decided to hurt my confidence havent you?Smile.

Not at all . Just trying to save a fellow DMer from the fate that befell this SP neta in UP . The link provided below in case you think I was exaggerating. Not sure how subdued every  women  is  but I am  sure you'll agree that its better  safe than sorry LOL

http://mlife.mtsindia.in/nd/?pid=271950

i told ya india is a country of backward women.who are insane as well..LOLLOL

Is that one more of your inferences after the older ones collapsed badly LOL
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Posted: 20 May 2015 at 2:23pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by _Angie_

Originally posted by qwertyesque

Originally posted by _Angie_

Originally posted by qwertyesque

 
so many wrongs, LOL. you have decided to hurt my confidence havent you?Smile.

Not at all . Just trying to save a fellow DMer from the fate that befell this SP neta in UP . The link provided below in case you think I was exaggerating. Not sure how subdued every  women  is  but I am  sure you'll agree that its better  safe than sorry LOL

http://mlife.mtsindia.in/nd/?pid=271950

i told ya india is a country of backward women.who are insane as well..LOLLOL

Is that one more of your inferences after the older ones collapsed badly LOL

Nothing fell badly.. they are elusive but for sane minds.Smile. btw this was crazy... this day today.. women react so strongly to winking!!?? I dont know how the things have changed now.. but yes crazy for sure.. and you making the statement of mature modern.. women.. of today not sure who are we taking of here...

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