Was injustice really done to Ahem?

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Posted: 8 years ago
When Kokila told Ahem to tell the truth to the girls. She further told him that if he dosen't, it will be an injustice to Gopi and the girls.

Ahem said that Gopi has done injustice to them and he dosen't want the girls to love Gopi again. If anyone says that Kokila rejected Ahem's choice and got him married to Gopi and blah blah blah... I don't fully agree with that. Ahem always had a say when it came to his choice.

What Gopi did was wrong and it cannot be justified. But Ahem did not co-operate with her to kick Radha out of Modi Mansion whereas he should have given the top priority to that.

The second mistake he did was leaving the house and isolating the girls from the family.

The third mistake he did was, he didn't legally divorce Gopi and marry Mansi in those 10 years.

The fourth thing is that he lied to the girls and made them hate her.

If he had done these things, he should have hired a nanny to look after the girls instead of keeping Mansi.

No matter what she did, she certainly dosen't deserve to be treated like this. So, injustice is being done to Gopi.

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Posted: 8 years ago
Ahem will see only his pain, his wants, his feelings, his needs.  He should be taken down a peg or two.
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Ahem will see only his pain, his wants, his feelings, his needs.  He should be taken down a peg or two.



Exactly, and only Mansi can do it but she is not doing it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Ahem is a selfish man who deserves to get meera and vidyas hate
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Fully agree... What Gopi did is not right and cannot be undone now, for that she also got punishment... now, Ahem is such an idiot, for one blunder, he is doing 100 blunders... so where does it lead to... Kokila wants them to tell the girls, which is the right thing to do... But why is Kokila begging Ahem to tell them the truth, she can tell them, she is the eldest of their family, she can tell the truth and put an end to this drama... it is becoming too much to tolerate...😡.. 
On top of it, Mansi's drama that she said she did all these so she can stay close to Ahem..😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: ani_gr

Fully agree... What Gopi did is not right and cannot be undone now, for that she also got punishment... now, Ahem is such an idiot, for one blunder, he is doing 100 blunders... so where does it lead to... Kokila wants them to tell the girls, which is the right thing to do... But why is Kokila begging Ahem to tell them the truth, she can tell them, she is the eldest of their family, she can tell the truth and put an end to this drama... it is becoming too much to tolerate...😡.. 

On top of it, Mansi's drama that she said she did all these so she can stay close to Ahem..😡



Agree with you. No gentleman would do such atrocities. Either, he would take her to task & eventually forgive her or would legally divorce her rather than swaggering around with two women.😡

I want this track to end as Kinjal is remaining. She has taken Radha's place.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Ahem as his name is  a self centered & egoistic personality... wil  never think of ny1 else...

even during d last leap he blamed gopi for keeping vidya away frm him.. but wasnt he partly responsible for it.. as he could hv find out abt gopi's werabts in those yrs 7 then he would hv known abt vidya.. also it was not that gopi hadnt wanted to inform him.. she had tried hard.. but alas no one had time to listen to her...

this time y dint he try to get rid of radha  & even paridhi wen gopi had told them she is not nice.. but wen koki went against pari ahem stood against her otherwise he wouldnt live a chance to say pari is good for jigar...
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Posted: 8 years ago
Ahem is always like that ..my mine myself 
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Originally posted by: coolhi1988

Ahem as his name is  a self centered & egoistic personality... wil  never think of ny1 else...

even during d last leap he blamed gopi for keeping vidya away frm him.. but wasnt he partly responsible for it.. as he could hv find out abt gopi's werabts in those yrs 7 then he would hv known abt vidya.. also it was not that gopi hadnt wanted to inform him.. she had tried hard.. but alas no one had time to listen to her...

this time y dint he try to get rid of radha  & even paridhi wen gopi had told them she is not nice.. but wen koki went against pari ahem stood against her otherwise he wouldnt live a chance to say pari is good for jigar...



The best thing Gopi could do was to send an SMS to Ahem saying that she is pregnant for the second time if she was unable to convey it to him or any of the family members personally.

However, it was also Ahem's fault that he did not give her enough time.

Ahem had been a mamma's boy and he was blindly following her. After Radha entered MM, the first priority was to get rid of Radha. But there was no contribution from Ahem's side. Ahem approved Jigar-Paridhi wedding because Kokila approved it.

Even in the previous leap, it was Rashi, Gopi and Kokila who plotted against Radha and Tripti and sent them to mental asylum and jail respectively. Ahem never worked out on any strategy. He only brought the cops to take Radha and Tripti.