Posted: 12 May 2015 at 4:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by anshurg5
Please do not take the liberty to assume that what I will write next. That is only my prerogative to decide what I will write next. And I am not misleading to any one but writing what saw in the show.
Btw I already negated supposition that G's decision to work in Bangalore was due to authenticity of her degree in my later past. Though I would have really thought better of her if it was reason instead of her hurt due to J's decision.
Neither Sumitra nor Sanchi, the mother and would be wife of J who did not want G's coming back and her working in Jaitser hospital, had send any gift for her so how can she assume that they were okay with her coming back?
Even if they have not objected ( which was not the case) why Ganga wanted to come back to Jaitser and work along with J when she was very well aware of her feelings for him and which she was unable to control? Even Sona shifted to BN when she realized that she had developed feelings for J and it could create problems in their life. Why G can not think that?
Ganga did not hesitated to accept other favours of J and Singhs even after knowing that few members of the same family were not liking that, so why she could not accept that last one. After that toh she would have became independent and would have secured her son's future.
How working in Jaipur could have made her J's responsibility ? He was not paying her salary and even she could have shifted in another good hospital after gaining some experience if she did not wanted that last favour to continue.
Let me tell you Anandiji is not mine but of CVs . If she would have been mine , she would have completed her doctorate in social sciences (that too not by correspondence ) way before after being such a brilliant student from the childhood and would have a much appreciated minister in CM's team after being a young sarpunch with successful track record of converting her village into a district singlehandedly.
one can easily search authentic correspondence courses for BA but I have yet to find an authentic 6 month correspondence course for nursing degree. If you have link for one , please inform me too . It can be beneficial for many others too.
Could not understand properly what you wanted to say but answering as I could understand.
Anandi asked from J to concentrate on the woman he agreed to marry and to stay away from the woman his would be wife did not like to make his impending marriage work peacefully. What was wrong in that?
Family heirlooms used to be wore by many women of many generations not only by a single person .Wearing a heirloom is not uttaran but an honour. Aanandi only passed on the kamarbandh to J's would be wife. Btw I too did not liked that scene for other reasons.
So true. She was happily packing bags to come back to Jaitser totally unmindful of the fact that neither Sumi nor Jagya's intended to be wife didn't like her being near Jagya.She very well knew that her own feelings for Jagya went way beyond gratitude towards a person who helped her.
She knew that she was in love with him and while he was engaged to marry someone else.Yet had no problems coming back. What should be said about that? She had no regard for the woman who is part of his life.
Happily accepted a saree gifted by a man who was engaged to another woman.
She knew well how much Sumi disliked yet accepted all the help never once felt bad that she is causing disharmony in the family that has been so nice to her.
With what right Anandi shouted at Jagya? Well Jagya agreed on his own to marry Anandi's SIL.The family agreed to the proposal because it came from Anandi's family. Jagya inspite of being engaged to Sanchi he is letting his feelings for Ganga interfere in his relationship with Sanchi.
If Sanchi gets affected that would affect her life too. She is not just interfering with Jagya's life she is telling him of the consequences of his actions. This man claimed to love Anandi and he was putting her in trouble with her family by playing around with Sanchi and Ganga's feelings.
BA - How many people have done BA through correspondence course? People even take the exam directly without any course also and that is allowed.
Ganga came back with Jagya after finishing nursing course knowing fully well that he was going to get married to someone else.
Why were all these things accepted when Ganga did?
Anandi had lot more rights to Singhs affection and caring simply because she had a relationship which to begin with was because of a marriage.Parents in law in many instances take responsibility of their DIL sometimes even if the marriage breaks - they made her their daughter and gor her married like she is their own daughter.
She is no threat to Ganga in any way.She was not after the son of the family like she was when she returned to Jaitser after finishing nursing course.
Unlike Ganga who harboured more feelings for Jagya Anandi doesn' harbour any such feelings towards Jagya.
She came back at the insistence of Dsa and at the begining itself she said she wll stay only if Ganga didn't have a problem with that.
If Ganga was right then Anandi has done no wrong in coming back what was supposed to be her maika.
People keep saying that Anandi has come back to her ex house - Did she comeback or was made to come back by the head of Singh family?