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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 1:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by anshurg5


   Anandi left home not only for one incidences of G blaming her. It was only a saturation point for her . Before that every now and then there were incidences which made her thinking on her stay in BH like

- G taunting her for improving J's mood though she herself was saying same thing , 
 -or G trying to putting her down like when G said to Abhi that 'koi aur' nahi she herself would buy him a better game,
-or Abhi getting angry that Shivam is getting all the love which actually he deserves. And this happened many times in different situations.
-or Abhi throwing ice cream given by Shivam with G's silent supporting glances.

    All this made her against staying in BH anymore regarding which she had reservations from the start but no one listen those.
 But when saturation point came with G blaming her and connecting Mannu's knowing truth about his parentage with Shivam knowing about Nandini as if it was the reason behind her not telling Mannu about Ratan Singh, she decided that she should not stay in BH anymore otherwise relationship btw different ppl  will become worse only . What is wrong in that? It will eventually turn out for good of all parties.

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True G is not the only reason she is one of the many reasons for her exit
Small things going on for years
She may have gotten upset that G was linking Mannu knowing the truth with Shivam knowing about his twin and all the bitterness it is causing in Ganga
When she talked with Ganga she got over her reactions to Ganga's outburst but she did take a lesson home. She and her kid as well as Ganga and her kids need more space that really is the most important reason.

That outburst was more of a wake up call for Dsa rather than Anandi's decision to exit BH.

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 3:02am | IP Logged
so true before things are going out of hand ... Anandi took call thankfully DS agrees too
 
Why Ganga Jagya playing blame game ... Ideally Jagya shd blame Anandi making Ganga Villian ...Since Jagya can't say this as Anandi is not his matter of concern
 
If Jagya is not in position to blame Anandi for all this mess he should not blame wife Ganga either ... Even if Anandi left after Ganga's outburst ...if Ganga is right her stand why on earth Jagyz blaming her ...
 
anyways

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 4:02am | IP Logged
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I was talking about the scene where after completing her nursing course G got a call from J that he had arranged a job for her in his friend's hospital and she had to just sent her certificates there. But G was so offended by the fact that Dr Saab did not want her to work with him and sending her away from himself that she told him a lie with teary eyes that she has already got a job at her place so could not join in Jaipur in his friend's hospital though in fact she did not have any job in her hands and were packing very happily to join doctor saab in his hospital in Jaitser despite knowing very well that Sumitra and Sanchi his would be wife were against it and also despite knowing that she herself had feelings for Dr Saab which she could hardly control. 

     Now when I read about your fears of treating by not so qualified doctors and nurses I felt on second thought D'oh it might be possible that she was not very sure of herself to work in Jaipur without her Dr Saab due to authenticity of her degree so rejected working there.  Wink

 
keep twisting serial to blame Ganga What next Ganga planned entire balachandar incident to call Jagya to Mangalore TongueNext blame what else you and your friends can do  created Fake serial to blame Ganga Write your own serial story which even BV cvs will tear their hair apart what we have shown and what Ganga bashers are writing Another blame that you can create Ratan is her victim not she is right? Tongue i won't be surprised the way to make fun of her you are misleading serial Next blame this.
      Please do not take the liberty to assume what I will write next. That is only my prerogative to decide what I will write next. And I am not misleading to any one but writing what saw in the show. 
Btw I already negated that supposition that G's decision to work in Bangalore was due to authenticity of her degree in my later past. Though I would have really thought better of her if it was reason instead of her hurt due to J's decision. 

      For your information Ganga was happily packing because Jagya himself told her she will do job in Jaitsar hospital  and Singhs had send gifts for her through him in Mangalore she thought their anger has cooled down on her and later she did not took offense of his words actually she was criticizing herself she said how come she forgot She did say i forgot i cannot go back and she was criticizing herself  for that and she never took offense from his words but she understood what why he changed his decision She refused to his job offer because she  released him from her responsibility He still considers them his responsibility and he will keep worrying for them Thats why she told him she has settled herself in Mangalore so she freed him for her responsibility He can comfortably move on from them 
if don' t trust me openly challenge go watch the serial or read update 
     
  Neither Sumitra nor Sanchi, the mother and would be wife of J who did not want G's coming back and her working in Jaitser hospital, had send any gift for her so how can she assume that they were okay with her coming back? 
  Even if they have not objected ( which was not the case) why Ganga wanted to come back to Jaitser and work along with J when she was very well aware of her feelings for him and which she was unable to control? Even Sona shifted to BN when she realized that she had developed feelings for J and it could create problems in their life. Why G can not think like that?
      Ganga did not hesitated to accept other favours of J and Singhs even after knowing that few members of the same family were not liking that, so why she could not accept that last one. After that toh she would have became independent and would have secured her son's future. 
     How working in Jaipur could have made her J's responsibility ? He was not paying her salary and even she could have shifted in another good hospital after gaining some experience if she did not want that last favour to continue. 

Ganga''s degree was authentic and she got job too  its another thing Balachandar tried to trap her and rape her but what about your Anandi ji ? why she did not try to study further and joined any university in Udaipur May be her degree was not authentic Wink
     Let me tell you Anandiji is not mine but of CVs . If she would have been mine , she would have completed her doctorate in social sciences (that too not by correspondence ) way back after being such a brilliant student from the childhood and would have a much appreciated minister in CM's team after being a young sarpunch with successful track record of converting her village into a district singlehandedly. 
    one can easily search authentic correspondence courses for BA but I have yet to find an authentic 6 month correspondence  course for nursing degree. If you have link for one , please inform me too . It can be beneficial for many others too.  

Criticizing Ganga a lot she knew his wife will not like it and was happily packing then what about your darling Anandi ji who at one point was shouting at Jagya Sanchi does not like Ganga so stay away from Ganga and give yourself to Sanchi only at other the great Anandi was giving Sanchi her uttaran Her Kamarbandh O yes Jagya's fiancee has to wear his first wife's uttran great woman  Anandi
    
     Could not understand properly what you wanted to say but answering as I could understand. 
    Anandi asked from J to concentrate on the woman he agreed to marry and to stay away from the woman his would be wife did not like to make his impending marriage work peacefully. What was wrong in that? 
      Family heirlooms used to be wore by many women of many generations not only by a single person .Wearing a heirloom is not uttaran but an honour. Aanandi only passed on the kamarbandh to J's would be wife. Btw I too did not like that scene for other reasons. 
     

   I do not like to reply on personal level and generally have an aversion to long replies but since you directly replied to me so I am penning this. I will not respond after this. 
  
 


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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 4:50am | IP Logged
Originally posted by anshurg5

      Please do not take the liberty to assume that what I will write next. That is only my prerogative to decide what I will write next. And I am not misleading to any one but writing what saw in the show. 
Btw I already negated supposition that G's decision to work in Bangalore was due to authenticity of her degree in my later past. Though I would have really thought better of her if it was reason instead of her hurt due to J's decision. 

      
     
  Neither Sumitra nor Sanchi, the mother and would be wife of J who did not want G's coming back and her working in Jaitser hospital, had send any gift for her so how can she assume that they were okay with her coming back? 
  Even if they have not objected ( which was not the case) why Ganga wanted to come back to Jaitser and work along with J when she was very well aware of her feelings for him and which she was unable to control? Even Sona shifted to BN when she realized that she had developed feelings for J and it could create problems in their life. Why G can not think that?
      Ganga did not hesitated to accept other favours of J and Singhs even after knowing that few members of the same family were not liking that, so why she could not accept that last one. After that toh she would have became independent and would have secured her son's future. 
     How working in Jaipur could have made her J's responsibility ? He was not paying her salary and even she could have shifted in another good hospital after gaining some experience if she did not wanted that last favour to continue. 


     Let me tell you Anandiji is not mine but of CVs . If she would have been mine , she would have completed her doctorate in social sciences (that too not by correspondence ) way before after being such a brilliant student from the childhood and would have a much appreciated minister in CM's team after being a young sarpunch with successful track record of converting her village into a district singlehandedly. 
    one can easily search authentic correspondence courses for BA but I have yet to find an authentic 6 month correspondence  course for nursing degree. If you have link for one , please inform me too . It can be beneficial for many others too.  

    
     Could not understand properly what you wanted to say but answering as I could understand. 
    Anandi asked from J to concentrate on the woman he agreed to marry and to stay away from the woman his would be wife did not like to make his impending marriage work peacefully. What was wrong in that? 
      Family heirlooms used to be wore by many women of many generations not only by a single person .Wearing a heirloom is not uttaran but an honour. Aanandi only passed on the kamarbandh to J's would be wife. Btw I too did not liked that scene for other reasons. 
  
 
So true. She was happily packing bags to come back to Jaitser totally unmindful of the fact that neither Sumi nor Jagya's intended to be wife didn't like her being near Jagya.She very well knew that her own feelings for Jagya went way beyond gratitude towards a person who helped her.
She knew that she was in love with him and while he was engaged to marry someone else.Yet had no problems coming back. What should be said about that? She had no regard for the woman who is part of his life.
Happily accepted a saree gifted by a man who was engaged to another woman.

She knew well how much Sumi disliked yet accepted all the help never once felt bad that she is causing disharmony in the family that has been so nice to her.

With what right Anandi shouted at Jagya? Well Jagya agreed on his own to marry Anandi's SIL.The family agreed to the proposal because it came from Anandi's family. Jagya inspite of being engaged to Sanchi he is letting his feelings for Ganga interfere in his relationship with Sanchi.
If Sanchi gets affected that would affect her life too. She is not just interfering with Jagya's life she is telling him of the consequences of his actions. This man claimed to love Anandi and he was putting her in trouble with her family by playing around with Sanchi and Ganga's feelings.


BA - How many people have done BA through correspondence course? People even take the exam directly without any course also and that is allowed.

Ganga came back with Jagya after finishing nursing course knowing fully well that he was going to get married to someone else.

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Why were all these things accepted when Ganga did?

Anandi had lot more rights to Singhs affection and caring simply because she had a relationship which to begin with was because of a marriage.Parents in law in many instances take responsibility of their DIL sometimes even if the marriage breaks - they made her their daughter and gor her married like she is their own daughter.
She is no threat to Ganga in any way.She was not after the son of the family like she was when she returned to Jaitser after finishing nursing course.

Unlike Ganga who harboured more feelings for Jagya Anandi doesn' harbour any such feelings towards Jagya.

She came back at the insistence of Dsa and at the begining itself she said she wll stay only if Ganga didn't have a problem with that.

If Ganga was right then Anandi has done no wrong in coming back what was supposed to be her maika.

People keep saying that Anandi has come back to her ex house - Did she comeback or was made to come back by the head of Singh family?



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I think that all what Jagya, Ganga, DadiSa did, the little arguments in front of Anandi, behind Anandi's back were all engineered to throw her out of BH. DadiSa must have deliberately taken Anandi to Jagya and Ganga's room and there they would have started arguing.

First they invited her into their home. Then they got tired of her and Shivam.

They could not tell her to go themselves, so they plotted to make her feel bad. They knew that she will walk out one day on her own. 

Maybe after Anandi and Shivam move out, there will be a party in BH for getting their home all to themselves.Big smile Jagya and Ganga will rejoice. DadiSa will be super happy to get her laadesar and her grand laadesar all to herself.Star


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       Anandi came back as the daughter of the Singh's family back in BH not like a woman harboring love for a man J .  So their living near each other or far from each other will not make any difference in their relationship . 
     But Ganga and Sona both were having feelings more than gratitude for J and were aware of that. But J was committed to other woman at that pt of time.   Living near J could have make it difficult to control those feelings for both Ganga and Sona.
   
        One woman G was away from him but choose to come back knowing fully well that his intended wife and mother did not like her presence near him still she did not mind that.

   Other woman Sona decided  that there might come a point in future where she could not control her feelings to cloud her judgement and could disrupt many lives in turn so she took the right step and shifted in BN to stay away from J . Btw in Sona's case granny and wife of J did not had any problem by Sona's stay, still she choose to curtail her interaction with J.

   Who was correct from both of them?

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 5:26am | IP Logged
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I think that all what Jagya, Ganga, DadiSa did, the little arguments in front of Anandi, behind Anandi's back were all engineered to throw her out of BH. DadiSa must have deliberately taken Anandi to Jagya and Ganga's room and there they would have started arguing.

First they invited her into their home. Then they got tired of her and Shivam.

They could not tell her to go themselves, so they plotted to make her feel bad. They knew that she will walk out one day on her own. 

Maybe after Anandi and Shivam move out, there will be a party in BH for getting their home all to themselves.Big smile Jagya and Ganga will rejoice. DadiSa will be super happy to get her laadesar and her grand laadesar all to herself.Star

  ROFL
They might have done this for their own sake but it will turn out more beneficial for Anandi and Shivam at last. TongueStar





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       Anandi came back as the daughter of the Singh's family back in BH not like a woman harboring love for a man J .  So their living near each other or far from each other will not make any difference in their relationship . 
     But Ganga and Sona both were having feelings more than gratitude for J and were aware of that. But J was committed to other woman at that pt of time.   Living near J could have make it difficult to control those feelings for both Ganga and Sona.
   
        One woman G was away from him but choose to come back knowing fully well that his intended wife and mother did not like her presence near him still she did not mind that.

   Other woman Sona decided  that there might come a point in future where she could not control her feelings to cloud her judgement and could disrupt many lives in turn so she took the right step and shifted in BN to stay away from J . Btw in Sona's case granny and wife of J did not had any problem by Sona's stay, still she choose to curtail her interaction with J.

   Who was correct from both of them?

Ganga was correct. She loved J and chose to disrupt all his other relationships to fight for him. Sona did not love J enough. So she sacrificed her love for him.

All is fair in love...


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