Posted: 09 May 2015 at 5:14pm | IP Logged
I have never seen when Jagya has made himself self appointed advisor to Anandi and he is giving unsolicited help to Anandi.? Jagya has never been interfering in Anandi and Dadisaa's work in Shiv Niketan In that particular scene it was Anandi telling him and Dadisaa about what is needed in shiv niketan and Jagya offered his help to her if she needs she can ask from him How that makes him self appointed advisor to Anandi or giving her unsolicited help?
I don't understand how it is said Jagya has self taken responsibility of shiv niketan and with Anandi moving out of BH he should remove himself from that? Anandi stays in BH or out of BH but shiv niketan is Jagya's responsibility because Jagya is MLA of Jaitsar. Being MLA of Jaitsar all Jaitsar district is his responsibility Each house , each school , each college , each university , each NGO , markets of Jaitsar , police department , agriculture department etc these are his responsibilities These responsibilities he has not self taken but people have given him the day they gave him vote and chose them as their MLA The day he took oath of MLA all Jaitsar became his responsibility and i believe Shiv niketan is in Jaitsar not outside it so how it is not his responsibility ? It is his responsibility but of course he is not some God he can keep in check of everything on his own His doors are open for every person of Jaitsar whoever need his help , whoever have any problem , any issue can approach him directly and same he tells Anandi if she needs his help in any matter regarding her NGO can approach him He is not interfering in Anandi's work but only completing his responsibility and Jagya cannot release himself from responsibility of shiv niketan no matter Anandi's stays whereever as Shiv Niketan is in Jaitsar and all Jaitsar is his responsibility
Stopping a social evil in his area is his responsibility and Jagya is doing that by using his power and position in right direction to eradicate child marriage social evil from Jaitsar so he is not interfering in Anandi's work He is only doing his duty
when is Jagya not doing his duties as a doctor , not running his hospital not helping his wife in that ? Senior doctors are always multi tasking Mostly .They work in hospital too , they teach in medical colleges too , they have their own personal clinics too jagya is also mult tasking but he runs a hospital as well as he is MLA of Jaitsar
and there are plenty of scenes where he is being seen in hospital , helping Ganga too , doing his duties as a doctor and MD of hospital so how question can be raised on him for this ?
There is a scene where he is busy in work and forgets to wish Ganga good luck before she goes to perform the operation and Ganga misunderstood she thought he is angry with her thats why she was acting naive and getting upset over that he did not wish her but wasn't Jagya shown busy in hospital work ?
There is a scene where Ganga is sewing a shirt but he give her the file and asks her study the case The operation she is going to perform tomorrow is more important than what she is doing now she should concentrate on that operation and prepare for it
In that deal matter it was ganga's mistake not consulting him and she realized that One cannot count that his mistake he is not helping her in hospital The fact he cannot keep in check of each and everything in hospital on his own No one can do that Ganga should have informed him but she made an assumption he will be busy with other work so i should do it on my own but later she realized her mistake
There is a scene where he is telling Ganga about that purpose of conference that they had about swine flue epidemic It was he who guided his staff on that and arranged that conference and Ganga was assuring him they will do exactly how he instructed them
There is a scene where he goes and performs operation in Ganga's place because she has been very tired from all day's work and sleeping
so i don't understand how this is stressed for him he should be doing his duties as a doctor ,running his hospital , helping his wife in that when he is already doing that ?
When Jagya is trying to become a fatherly figure in shivam's life ? If he would making himself as father of shivam then he would be making decisions about him too but he clearly says i have no right for that but yes Anandi do considers herself more important than Mannu's parents thats why she made promise with Ratan Singh without asking Mannu's parents?
and why Jagya should not have been kind , loving and affectionate to Shivam ? Shivam is a fatherless kid who has been living under same roof with him for past 11 years How he can ignore shivam? or Jagya is criticized for that he should have not paid attention on shivam , should not have been kind and loving to shivam ? which person with a kind heart can do that he ignores this kid and loves his children daily in front of him and make shivam feel his loss of father even more? Jagya cannot be this rude and inhuman thats why he started giving his love to shivam too and shivam seeing his love for him started seeing him as a fatherly figure
I think Jagya should be praised for it He has been so nice to shivam and loving him as equal to his own kids but still he never crossed his line of his rights on shivam in that Even though he treats shivam like his own children but he does not think he has any right on shivam to make any sort of decisions for him Thats solely Anandi' s right but i cannot understand why people expect Jagya to ignore shivam because they are making him he is trying to become fatherly figure if he is loving to shivam If he would have ignored shivam then same people would be bashing him how selfish , mean and heartless fellow right?
Edited by mahi12 - 09 May 2015 at 5:28pm