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Posted: 16 May 2015 at 12:22pm | IP Logged
Lovely post Aani, I agree there. I mean I think on part of the writers they are just jumping tracks. Like okay confession done, now its time for sex, but how does one say it aloud so just make it about wanting to have their own child. We as mature viewers expect a lot from the show, which did encroach serious and sensitive issues. But by now the show has very clearly lost its way and its sense which it used to treat these issues with. They are high on the numbers and they get them anyway.. so they don't try and put in much effort to go about things they should.

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Watched the episode again as it aired now and a thought came to me that I simply cannot help but pen.

I may be in the minority here or perhaps may be the only one who feels this but I liked Ishita' confession better than that of Raman'. It didn't have the grandeur or the pomp that was inflicted in his by having those teenage type decorations with heart shaped balloons and candles, it didn't need flair or pomp, it was simple, straight forward just as Ishita is.

I don't know what made the writer want to lock them up in the cupboard for this despite the long post I made on the choice of the prop earlier. It seemed to me had Raman really backed her into a corner like he did post Mihir and Mihika' roka and asked her to say the words she would have done so straightaway, and there would have been no audience for it around when that would have happened too. In fact, if they had an opportunity to talk about the impending confession from her end without this coercion too, the result would have been the same.

I simply loved how once she got a hold of her nerves and could stop blushing Ishita didn't fumble once as she declared she loves him. There weren't any hang-up there from her end in that moment.  She didn't goof around or stutter or stammer or any such thing - with a firm conviction and control of herself she expressed what she felt for him not once, not twice but thrice and the last two times simply to humor him, because she knew what it meant to him too, because it made him happy. However, mostly because she realized what he needed to hear the most when she said the words to him, what she missed in those first two times, he needed to hear her say his name and not just those words. She understood that and so the third time around said so as loudly as possible with his name.

She knew what she was saying and she looked him in the eye the first time she said so because she meant it with all her heart, had wanted to say those words to him for a long time now and could do so at last knowing very well he returns the sentiment in equal measures. 

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Posted: 16 May 2015 at 12:28pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Anku-

Lovely post Aani, I agree there. I mean I think on part of the writers they are just jumping tracks. Like okay confession done, now its time for sex, but how does one say it aloud so just make it about wanting to have their own child. We as mature viewers expect a lot from the show, which did encroach serious and sensitive issues. But by now the show has very clearly lost its way and its sense which it used to treat these issues with. They are high on the numbers and they get them anyway.. so they don't try and put in much effort to go about things they should.

Hey Anku thanks and yeah clearly there seemed to be a lack of thought put behind this aspect.

If they did need a baby track it could have happened post the consummation and not have a consummation track simply for the sake of having a baby Ouch

The sensitivity that was needed for the baby issue was missing here which we had on the anniversary, where it was made out to be a gift from his end to her. The heart to heart they had, the thought behind it was beautiful - he wanted to give her something priceless and it was so sweet and touching...having him repeat the same sentiment to her this time via a text message seemed so impersonal and detached to me Ouch

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Posted: 16 May 2015 at 12:33pm | IP Logged
There was a bt serial where the leads mostly stayed apart because if misunderstandings and whenever they did it she ended up pregnant. The third and last time was when she was pretending as someone else's wife. Dead Compared to those days the cvs have grown up. I though they would handle at least the baby track well but expecting anything from them is useless. Subbu track I thought it would show Ishitas past but here we have a revenge track. It would have been better if Subbu was obsessed with Ishita instead of this stupid revenge track.

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Why are they bringing this children thing so early now...If it for lack of any better way for Raman to initiate the IT talk, then that's ok,I guess...
Otherwise it is crass...if we take it literally...
But for someone who can throw a condom at her,he definitely can do better...

Yes,the message as such is sweet but it's not the time...

What about IShita...How is she feeling about the Consummation, I mean did she want to take forward her relationship (obviously) but is shy(like they say a certain someone has mentioned that she has intimacy issues)...
Now a days its hard to get what Ishita is thinking as she is shown minding others business more than hers...

Can we please get a self talk of her now...I really miss those...
& again why she is not talking this out with her Akka because for obvious reasons she can't talk to her Jiju, even if it is MIhika I don't mind...
I want her to talk to someone about her hesitancy( to initiate or reciprocate intimacy) in marriage...

Confession - Iam still not happy,I still feel like there should have been something more...I didn't get my closure for my wait...But I don't want to spoil the mood here and hence moving on...

I thought we would get some intimacy , talks then the Big C and then the honeymoon at some foreign location ( how many times did they dangle this infront of us) and then aaram se bringing up baby track and struggle of that... & ofcourse some mindless drama in between...

ha ha foolish me...
I seriously need to recheck my expectations with the show now...

One good thing today is the revelation that Subbu is negative...Thank god for that...Atleast we are saved from Simbu...
What all we expected Raman to say when he knew about Simbu...He blessed them and sat down to eat homemade food...LOLLOL


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Posted: 16 May 2015 at 12:51pm | IP Logged
Ok, just now went through all your posts...
I wanted to let out my rant before reading anything...LOL

& glad that many didn't appreciate the way it was initiated...

aani - that cupboard confession , I was hoping to read something about that...& thank god you wrote...Big smile

Anku - I was just now saying...when there was so much more to be explored why are they messing things...This has been a daily rant now...

Ishitaballa(Anu) - I was pulling my hair for the exact same thing...What exactly is the purpose of bringing Subbu , to show him as psycho...really...

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Originally posted by Anuhyaa

Ok, just now went through all your posts...
I wanted to let out my rant before reading anything...LOL

& glad that many didn't appreciate the way it was initiated...

aani - that cupboard confession , I was hoping to read something about that...& thank god you wrote...Big smile

Anku - I was just now saying...when there was so much more to be explored why are they messing things...This has been a daily rant now...

Ishitaballa(Anu) - I was pulling my hair for the exact same thing...What exactly is the purpose of bringing Subbu , to show him as psycho...really...

Anu I was upset abt Subbu and then the recap. In the segments I thought  he talked abt doing it and not kids.


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Lovely post Aani, I agree there. I mean I think on part of the writers they are just jumping tracks. Like okay confession done, now its time for sex, but how does one say it aloud so just make it about wanting to have their own child. We as mature viewers expect a lot from the show, which did encroach serious and sensitive issues. But by now the show has very clearly lost its way and its sense which it used to treat these issues with. They are high on the numbers and they get them anyway.. so they don't try and put in much effort to go about things they should.


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Hey Anku thanks and yeah clearly there seemed to be a lack of thought put behind this aspect.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">If they did need a baby track it could have happened post the consummation and not have a consummation track simply for the sake of having a babyOuch</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">The sensitivity that was needed for the baby issue was missing here which we had on the anniversary, where it was made out to be a gift from his end to her. The heart to heart they had, the thought behind it was beautiful - he wanted to give her something priceless and it was so sweet and touching...having him repeat the same sentiment to her this time via a text message seemed so impersonal and detached to meOuch</font>


There literally were 100s of other texts that could delicately implied his desire to move forward, but the CVs chose this - baby-making.

I don't believe Raman would ever pressure her into having a kid, especially with how he reacted on their anniversary. So I don't understand the message the CVs hope to convey with the precap & I can only hope it plays out differently...

Even before they consummate their marriage there is talk about babies. Raman's confession was shadowed by "dafa ho jao" and now this. Why must nothing be pure?

To most of us it would make more sense to tackle intimacy and Ishita's feeling of self worth now and then after they consummate their relationship, focus on children & making Ishita complete. In my mind, these are the two biggest tracks left that relate to the original core of the show...so why risk them? Because really after those tracks, all that's left is typical EK twists.

With Subbu going down the psycho route - it's almost like he's a totally new character with no bearing on Ishita's past. I wonder if they will ever use him again to remind Ishita & Raman of the nature of Ishita's past. Ouch

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