Originally posted by xyze
Its ranbir for me...
I kind of sympathise with Nishi and aarav... yes they are both immature, selfish and don't respect their mom enough. But I do understand their thought process.
From the beginning Ragini has been taking decisions for them. She probably never let them make any mistake and learn that their mother has better sense.
As a result these kids feel their mom is too interfering and they have better sense now. You know their over confidence is ridiculous and amusing at the same time. They are making the most stupid decisions in life inspite of being constantly warned by their mom. With their father back in their lives, its like they have found a back up plan because he just doesn't care about what their decisions lead too. Also I think in order to remain strong Ragini never really let them know the hardships she faced. That is why they don't sympathise much with her.
So yes, in their case, other than them and more than them we have to blame their age (they are 17 and 18 years old, and it is not possible for all teenagers to be sorted like agham and suhani) and their parents.
They are not wicked.
Nishi fell in love with a guy and wanted him at any cost (not thinking about things like compatibility, career, regressive family). Since jignesh's parents wanted a quick marriage , she too bacame desperate.Yes she had a fairy tale life in her mind... that is why when she had to choose between marriage and education, she chose the former.
She was actually the first child to say she'll unite her parents (yes, she did nothing but she did think about them). She even cried for her mom when they announced Neil n FL2's engagement and asked her to think about herself.
Regarding her marriage, she has finally faced the reality. Didn't you notice the difference in how she treats Ragini now??...she has started listening to her and respecting her too.
Aarav is a step ahead of nishi , more immature, more selfish. Plus unlike Nishi he is jealous too.. He has just seen the lifestyle the khanna kids enjoy and wants that for himself. With him, somebody needs to make him realise the value of his mother and her presence. He doesn't realise that he is lucky that his mother fulfilled the duties of parents whereas neil couldn't even become a good father to those 3. agham and suhani have more respect because they missed their parents. Unlike ranbir, they couldn't give into the hatred that Pam had for their mom just like that.This is why, inspite of having Pam as a motherly figure, they still want Ragini.
Ranbir, on the other hand, is blinded by hatred and refuses to open his eyes. His acts don't come under immaturity. They are well thought of actions. He is that kid which does the wrong knowingly.
Nice perspective. But I'm afraid I have to disagree in terms of Arav and Nishi. Kids these days are a lot more smart these days. No one jumps at the thought of marriage. Arav at his age cannot possibly think he should win Shilpa with his money and success at age 17. I understand teenage love but kids these days know of their limitation. 17, 18 isn't that young. Kids as young as 10 know of consequences. It's not that they don't know, it's they rather take the easy route. They have absolute no regard for the woman who raised them. They will conveniently forgo how their actions hurt their loved ones as long as they get what they want. I wouldn't be surprised to see a track where Nishi comes back jealous of Suhaani.