ArHi FF: Revealed #3 | Link to Thread 4 Pg 1 - Page 46

Yet beautiful and sad update

 

thanks for pm xx

Such a well written description of a couple's pain at losing a child.

I felt for them.

They were already going through a lot.

They had lost Arnav's Ma some time back.

And here they got a chance at happiness.

Something good they were looking forward to.

And the child left them both crying. 

It must have been so difficult to contend with such pain

No wonder they dealt with it the way they could.

But now its good they talked about it.

And spoke about their pain and anguish and helped and lent support to each other.

Hopefully now the mending of their broken mariage will begin.

Waiting to see how you take it further.

Will not be able to read this till tomorrow 😒. Regarding your poll not sure as I am fortunate enough to not have any miscarriage within family or friend so have no clue what people may or may not experience😕

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Jigs I had tears in my eyes reading this update and that shows that you have done marvelous job in depicting the grief of parents. 👏 Especially I am one of the person who does not dwell on grief for longer. But then every person is different and have different ways to overcome grief.

 A grief is a grief- be it for a unborn child or the child that had gone through the normal cycle of birth and it takes courage of all the parties involved, their comfort and most important communicating with each other to get over it. So finally the much required conversation happened😃 Does it matter whose fault it was when the Anhoni was done?😕 but then again human mind have to blame someone for things like this and the grieving mother went in a shell of her own shutting everybody and every one out to ensure that people around her does not give her unwanted sympathy. Can we blame her?😕 😕 

After reading the update I am just confused as to if the technology has made us crippled? When i had conceived the only time i had Ultra sound done was at the 3rd month and then 7th month i think siting that its bad for babies. So people beside myself was not that much attached to the child physically because they can not see it or hear it only thing was they can feel when the child would move. They could only hear the heart beat at my monthly check up. So were this couple connected to their child at this level was due to the technology or is this every parent who undergoes miscarrying child have same emotions?

Another point is that these days we do not listen to our parents. I know my mom and MIL were so strict that we were not allowed to even buy a piece of cloth for the child before they born citing that its an apshakun. I know i am sounding like the oldies here but reading your update it tells me that they were right at their place😕 as this will lead to difficulty in getting out of the undesired phase if God forbid something goes wrong with the child. 

With the hope that this conversation will show them the much awaited road of happiness will await for the your next update. 

PS - Sorry for my ramblings here. But I could not stop 😳

Thanks for amazing update.