Posted: 21 June 2015 at 4:49am | IP Logged
Manorama a selfless beautiful hearted lady, even can say an iconic women, how beautiful it would be if all women's have d intensions of manorama in this character unlike d one showed in daily soups. A women who doesn't have her parents, her in laws, also didn't had a husband who stood by her side, who understood her, her only strength was her son, a son just like his mother selfless, even she lost him, what more can b hardest in her life, what life has offered her to break down even more. Every thing is over for her as a daughter, daughter in law, mother,wife, all d role have come to an end in her life, but still she is in a thread of relationship as a mother in law n grand mother, that was her strength till she saw arnav. But what now? A young daughter in law (for society widow) n grand daughter is d only relation she have who r close to her heart, how can a selfless women like manorama can b selfish, n blind when she realized that there is a person who is ready to offer second chance to her b loved widow daughter in law n a father figure to her beloved grand daughter. Where she exactly fit in d new family of khushi, since she lost her own blood what more can she expect from d thread of her daughter in law ( who is not her blood). What right she have on d non blood relationship to snatch second chance which is at d door step. Manorama tear showed her helplessness, her one more loss (will full). Her broken heart, on whom she will relay on?, whom she will claim as her own?, where is her own family? What is her future hope/ happiness?. Even after loosing she have to survive, what more she have have to offer to her own life? So many questions without answer, how will she detach from her current bonding with khushi n her grand mother?
Khushi is absolutely correct here, I really can't say she have to move on so easily... It is not abt d society, people, culture, it is abt ones emotions, feelings. Relationship is not a work project where I will move one after another project, as we know khushi was a broken person when nk married her, he showed her immense love, care, his selfless ness, his patience, hopes every thing made her to take khushi a second chance in her life. What if khushi might have felt d same way like now when she have to start with nk, what if she remembered arnav with every intimacy she made with nk in her initial stage, she might have taught that she cannot forget arnav, r cheat arnav for nk, what if she might have went through d same taughts with nk too in d initial stage of her marriage. Today if khushi feel for nk whom she love, n learned to love, another relationship is not easy for her. Of course she know arnav was her first crush, love n huge physical attraction was there b/w them, but now she is not d same old teenage khushi... She was a wife of other man, a daughter figure for her mother in law, a mother of 9 year old daughter, will she have to move forward so easily to other men who left her broken hearted? Don't she need answers? Only one person can bring khushi out of her guilt n make her move on is arnav. If arnav is patience enough, give khushi selfless love, care, like nk did to khushi definitely khushi can move on. Khushi still feel for arnav n physical attraction is still huge b/w them but that is not all about moving on, there is lots more to be reconciled, khushi have to move on with arnav with dignity, respect. Here I really want arnav to act honestly, try his heart n sole to bring khushi out of her guilt, made her love him back, make her comfortable with her past present n future.