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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 8:57am | IP Logged
A contract marriage is not considered a marriage... it is only a contract and once the contract is over, the marriage is automatically dissolved but provided that it is done legally. Tanveer did sign a contract with Sanam...now whether this wasa done proper or not (i.e. with witnesses and lawyers), I don't know... 
Why would Aahil go for a second nikaah with Sanam if this was not true. Again what is signed on the marriage certificate is what is important... During the ceremony..yes...the used the name Sanam Ahmed Khan but probably the marriage certification could have been signed as Sanam Khan which could be Sanam2's real name... 

If the marriage with Sanam2 is not valiid... Aahil need not run away from Sanam2, he can just prove that... 

I was trying to look at this from a logical angle... maybe QH is not logical... To me even though these scenes were not executed well, it seemed logical for Shaad is, his purpose.

Hmmmnnn... I wouldn't wanted to judge whether Shaad did right or wrong. Lets say from my pov,  his sense of duty for the security of the nations drove him to do what he did. 

I guess when one speaks to a person in the military, armed force or even police...they will telll you that sometimes  they do have to make decisions that would look "wrong" in the eyes of civilians 

(Watch the Crime Investigation channel, where there are true-life incidents of contract marriages gone wrong. There they explain what this is really about) 

Anyways... wrote this post coz only to understand why... 
No offense meant to anybody... its just my POV 

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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 9:06am | IP Logged
Sanam is Aahil's legal wife and islamically too. Also whether or not Sanam is still married or not doesn't matter because Shaad is still wrong. He is lying to a woman a who has amnesia and taking advantage of her. He's taking away her right to a choice and wrongly letting her think she's his wife. Even if Aahil and Sanam weren't married it'd still be wrong because he's taking away her rights and Sanam doesn't have free will because she isn't aware of the facts.

Even if Aahil was just her boyfriend or someone she loved and they weren't married it'd still be wrong because Shaad is behaving wrongly with this woman overall. He's wronging her and that has nothing to do with whether she's still married or not. Her being married or not doesn't take away from how wrong his actions are. If she was single it wouldn't mean he's got a free pass to do whatever he wants and lie to her all he wants just because she's single because her being married isn't what make his actions wrong. No woman married or not would want to be in the situation she is right now. 

Yes maybe it might be a bit more worse for Sanam because on top of it she loves Aahil and is married to him and would never behave the way she is right now with another man if she knew the truth. It might be worse because on top of it unknowingly you've given the rights of a husband to another man whilst you're still married to someone you deeply love. But her marriage to Aahil isn't what makes his actions so wrong or this a dreadful situation to be in overall. Married or not it's still a dreadful situation to be in because a stranger is making decisions for you that you only have the right to make and is lying to you and keeping you away from your family and you have no choice in anything and aren't aware of anything. He's basically keeping her hostage without her even being aware of it.


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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 9:10am | IP Logged
A simple point- why would tanveer want sanam to sign divorce papers even after the contract was over, if you say it was signed, why did sanamalways claim she was his wife?
Even after this, if divorce papers also not signed they have to legally end themarriage going to the maulvi, some muslim traditions are there.those were not done.
Regarding shaad, i stated my pov, its left to you about what u consider right. fine if shaad is doing it for nation, question is why he closed missing file? By then, he took all information he could have taken, after that he put in danger, by not disclosing who she was.
And as u said it was love, i have put it all in the earlier post, all facts, dont forget she has a identity n a family other than husband. if it was love he wouldn't be selfish but would be selfless n set her free. i told everything in the earlier post.
Again, in islam the marriage formalities need to be done, which was not in case with S2. If u say they were married, he didn't move away cause ofpregnant drama, later he tried and now is off to dharamsala, i have said it all in my earlier post. again, its upto u about wt u think is right or worng.



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Originally posted by Az07

Ahil & sanam never signed a contract for marriage. Tanveer only said that it's a contract marriage for 3 months to make both Ahil & sanam agree for the marriage as that time they both never liked each other & in the end moment tanveer came to knew about ahil's fianc nida's real intention she exchanged her place with sanam by giving her money for dilshad's operation & forcing both Ahil & sanam to get married for three months in the name of family status & propertys. 
Eventually both fell in love & they never divorced or signed divorce papers. So legally they are still husband & wife as there is no contract or divorce in between them. 
Coming to shad I too agree whether a women is married or not it's still not right to keep her in dark by saying lies for his benefits. What ever modest be the cause but still he was taking advantage of her amnesia. Also it only put her in more danger & it's because of his foolishness his family has been killed off. After falling in love with her he just closed her missing petition & keeping her away from her family is so selfish. He don't know she is married but he do know she has a man in her life also she is someone's daughter & sister. 
Ps I make clear I am not a sahil fan nor a shajan fan 
Just shared my views

@BOLD: I would agree if he was doing this for personal gain but he isn't. He did it to ensure security of two nations.   I do agree that nobody should be taken advantage of... be it a woman, man, child, animal, etc... 

I appreciate that your reply is not from any certain fanbase... 
And I respect your views... thanks for sharing it. 

My views are from a perspective of putting myself in the shoes of the person who has a responsibility of a million of lives. I am a woman myself...and I'm speaking of it from female/male angle at all.  I asked this question to myself, what would I do in a similar situation, the my emotional voice said Never, but then my logical voice said "Never say Never. you will know the truth only when you are in the exact same situation". :)   

A person can turn cannibalism out of sheer hunger...a mother can take a life to protect her child. So what is right or wrong?

 

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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 9:15am | IP Logged
Originally posted by darlingpinks

A simple point- why would tanveer want sanam to sign divorce papers even after the contract was over, if you say it was signed, why did sanamalways claim she was his wife?
Even after this, if divorce papers also not signed they have to legally end themarriage going to the maulvi, some muslim traditions are there.those were not done.
Regarding shaad, i stated my pov, its left to you about what u consider right.
Again, in islam the marriage formalities need to be done, which was not in case with S2. If u say they were married, he didn't move away cause ofpregnant drama, later he tried and now is off to dharamsala, i have said it all in my earlier post. its upto u about wt u think is right or worng.



@BOLD:  This is a good question. Apparently is contract document of contract marriage, there a para or paper for divorce too. They kind of go together... This is my understanding of the legalities.   Sanam never recognised the contract even though she had signed the papers... To be honest, this is where I'm not clear as to whether it was just verbal agreement or if there were legal papers involved... Tanveer had some docs, during that time, right?
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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 9:17am | IP Logged
Originally posted by beekay1

Originally posted by Az07

Ahil & sanam never signed a contract for marriage. Tanveer only said that it's a contract marriage for 3 months to make both Ahil & sanam agree for the marriage as that time they both never liked each other & in the end moment tanveer came to knew about ahil's fianc nida's real intention she exchanged her place with sanam by giving her money for dilshad's operation & forcing both Ahil & sanam to get married for three months in the name of family status & propertys. 
Eventually both fell in love & they never divorced or signed divorce papers. So legally they are still husband & wife as there is no contract or divorce in between them. 
Coming to shad I too agree whether a women is married or not it's still not right to keep her in dark by saying lies for his benefits. What ever modest be the cause but still he was taking advantage of her amnesia. Also it only put her in more danger & it's because of his foolishness his family has been killed off. After falling in love with her he just closed her missing petition & keeping her away from her family is so selfish. He don't know she is married but he do know she has a man in her life also she is someone's daughter & sister. 
Ps I make clear I am not a sahil fan nor a shajan fan 
Just shared my views

@BOLD: I would agree if he was doing this for personal gain but he isn't. He did it to ensure security of two nations.   I do agree that nobody should be taken advantage of... be it a woman, man, child, animal, etc... 

I appreciate that your reply is not from any certain fanbase... 
And I respect your views... thanks for sharing it. 

My views are from a perspective of putting myself in the shoes of the person who has a responsibility of a million of lives. I am a woman myself...and I'm speaking of it from female/male angle at all.  I asked this question to myself, what would I do in a similar situation, the my emotional voice said Never, but then my logical voice said "Never say Never. you will know the truth only when you are in the exact same situation". :)   

A person can turn cannibalism out of sheer hunger...a mother can take a life to protect her child. So what is right or wrong?

 

Italics: My question- why did he close missing file? He had taken every information he could have from her by then. Later, sanam found everything on her own not by accident. he could have returned her identity n then done it. If u don't agree to it, he could have said she is her sister? why biwi?

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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 9:20am | IP Logged
Originally posted by beekay1

Originally posted by darlingpinks

A simple point- why would tanveer want sanam to sign divorce papers even after the contract was over, if you say it was signed, why did sanamalways claim she was his wife?
Even after this, if divorce papers also not signed they have to legally end themarriage going to the maulvi, some muslim traditions are there.those were not done.
Regarding shaad, i stated my pov, its left to you about what u consider right.
Again, in islam the marriage formalities need to be done, which was not in case with S2. If u say they were married, he didn't move away cause ofpregnant drama, later he tried and now is off to dharamsala, i have said it all in my earlier post. its upto u about wt u think is right or worng.



@BOLD:  This is a good question. Apparently is contract document of contract marriage, there a para or paper for divorce too. They kind of go together... This is my understanding of the legalities.   Sanam never recognised the contract even though she had signed the papers... To be honest, this is where I'm not clear as to whether it was just verbal agreement or if there were legal papers involved... Tanveer had some docs, during that time, right?

I don't think she had, but even if she had, according to islam n legalities a divorce should be signed to end a marriage n even they have to go to the maulvi and end it islamically. Again, y was tanveer behind it? That means divorce was needed to end the marriage.

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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 9:22am | IP Logged
@Beekay. SaHil didnt have a contract marriage. They had a real marriage. The Cvs showed they signed the nikahnama too I think. Anyways concepts such as contract marriage is illegal in India.
Well about the second time marriage the Cvs mainly did for the drama. So that Ahil marries Sanam2 unknowingly without any fault of his. Ouch
And I dont get it what do you mean by Shad lying to Sanam/Jannat so that he can save both the nations? Can you please elaborate? LOL How can lying to an amnesiac woman will save two nation? Wow it is so easy to save 2 nations then. LOL
Well Shad is a lier. He violated women's right. What he did is a criminal act. he should be punished by the law. He kept an amnesiac, ill woman in his house, his room by LYING that they are married. He didnt care to bother that Sanam might have a family somewhere there waiting for her. When he closed the files he didnt think I have to save two nations & thus cannot say the truth. He did it because of his own selfish means. Enough said. And wow you can save a nation by exploiting a woman;s right, choice. Clap

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