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Is Ragini trying enough? (Page 2)

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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 1:29am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sun29



ragini has been a reserved person always..and she is way  obliged to aman to tell him anything like No...yes at some point she has to..but this is going to take time..also i think the fear of getting hurt or losing neil again is holding her back also the guilt of what happened and then pam's accusations did not help ...all this has burdened her and hence she is unable to let go ..also neil was always the expressive one and he is now totally in the crazy love zone with no guilt..actually he never saw himself as guilty of anything D'oheveryone has blamed ragini alone and so has she herself...so yes something major has to happen for her to finally let go and tell him and the world that she loves him alone...

this is the same girl who put neil's obligation to nivedita before her own happiness...

it is hardly a day or two and too much emotional baggage ...she really needs some time to open up...

Before she open up that Ronnie will come and spoil everything 
and back to square 

I really not able to understand NB why she want to put this misunderstanding drama again

It's like not use and then again we will see ragini trusting that random guy and not trusting neil

I don't understand how much proof she required to trust neil can't she see love for her in neil eyes.

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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 1:36am | IP Logged


@xyze ...very true and we cannot blame her actually..the past 15 years has been too painful for her both emotionally and financially...she has struggled a lot and this has made her practical and much more responsible...in our country we middle class people always have to think about society norms especially a single woman with children..she cannot let her reputation be ruined coz ther eis a family to think about...

for neil this was never an issue not even 15 years back nor today...pam still makes fun of ragini for being stingy in spending not realizing that she was being responsible about the money her husband earned...

and yes today she cannot jump up and take a decision..she has to think a lot..there are so many people involved...and pam's whole rant and her own guilt weighs heavily upon her...

besides neil did walk out without a single explanation and never looked at her for 15 years...so her insecurity ,fears are in place..what if something again happens and he does the same>>walk away ...this time she may not be able to go through that pain again..hence her fear and her holding back is understandable

and even i think that all of them are going to land for dinner at the same place..that is why the whole dinner talk..and RK may save them from being spotted by Pam...and oce again neil ragini ka plan gets flopped...

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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 1:56am | IP Logged
Originally posted by sun29



@xyze ...very true and we cannot blame her actually..the past 15 years has been too painful for her both emotionally and financially...she has struggled a lot and this has made her practical and much more responsible...in our country we middle class people always have to think about society norms especially a single woman with children..she cannot let her reputation be ruined coz ther eis a family to think about...

for neil this was never an issue not even 15 years back nor today...pam still makes fun of ragini for being stingy in spending not realizing that she was being responsible about the money her husband earned...

and yes today she cannot jump up and take a decision..she has to think a lot..there are so many people involved...and pam's whole rant and her own guilt weighs heavily upon her...

besides neil did walk out without a single explanation and never looked at her for 15 years...so her insecurity ,fears are in place..what if something again happens and he does the same>>walk away ...this time she may not be able to go through that pain again..hence her fear and her holding back is understandable

and even i think that all of them are going to land for dinner at the same place..that is why the whole dinner talk..and RK may save them from being spotted by Pam...and oce again neil ragini ka plan gets flopped...
I so want Ragini to discuss these issues with Neil.also, they need to come up with a plan of action. Yes it would fail due to Pam, FL2, Ronnie and babu bhai, but at least it would show how differently neira are going to handle their relationship this time around, taking their lessons from the past and giving consideration to their future and kids.


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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 2:12am | IP Logged
Its just the start after 15 years of separation.  She is just being a little cautious and not like "do not touch me".
It will be nice to see their relationship grow and become strong (if the creatives allow that to happen).


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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 2:22am | IP Logged
I do understand her ... and I sincerely feel for her. IT s a difficult situation for her as well, especially gven the fact that she has so much to consider before even takign a step ahead. Her situation is unlike Nachike's definitely who is much more relaxed. The situation is  much better for him actually.
I trust that she will eventually find the way, she so deserves this happiness. She has already lost quite a lot. Now, it's tim for her to heal, which NB will not let happen, anyway. 


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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 2:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by d3c3nt

Its just the start after 15 years of separation.  She is just being a little cautious and not like "do not touch me".
It will be nice to see their relationship grow and become strong (if the creatives allow that to happen).



I don't think she is the 'Don't touch me' types with Nachiket. It's the emotional entanglement that she is probably holding back. 

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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 3:37am | IP Logged
Originally posted by xyze

The thing is that she is still nervous about facing people and explaining her reunion while nachiket is not.she is not ready to take the plunge and face the consequences, but wants to go slow about it until they can come up with a plan to set everything right.

You know she has chanted for the last 15 years that she hates her ex-husband. Nobody saw him all these years..and now when the world at large (precisely the hospital staff and society people) would come to know that she wants to reunite with the same man, there would be talk, questions and gossip.
Yes, one can say that she should not give a damn to what people say, they don't matter. But as Ragini said.."bina soche samjhe kuch karne ki na meri umar hai aur na haalat".Ragini has indeed turned very practical, in fact much more than required.
She has always given importance to the society norms..look at the way she scolded ranbir-shilpa. We can't expect her to be ok with getting caught doing romance herself.

Add to it the dinner with Pam...she does have an idea what hungama Pam would create, that is why she lied that day.

And the fact is she is forty and has grown up kids...it will get a little awkward for her...especially in a place like India where a lot of people associate romance and marriage with young age.

I am not saying she is right or wrong, just trying to put forth what all reservations she might have.
Regarding the last scene, I think Aman will get the hint and back out and Neil would drop her. They might also go on a dinner, probably at the same place where the GFNs are going( if there was any point of showing that scene)


Exactly! And may be there's more to Ragini-Pam dinner talk!

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Posted: 07 May 2015 at 3:52am | IP Logged
I can completely understand her situation and that's why I really want heart to heart conversation between them especially from her side,which can convince him that she too is as desperate as him but the circumstances and situations which are stopping her. She should also inform him about her dinner with Pam and the insecurity that Pam feels regarding them.Hiding her feelings and issues from him are not going to bring any solution.She will be a fool if she doesn't open up in front of her Nachiket,before its too late,because this time its just not about them but she also needs to understand what her two kids Aagam and Suhaani wants because,they got this opportunity to be with each other becoz of these two diamond kids.If theyake again same mistake,there is no meaning of this whole reunion. Whatever is her fears,she has to express that to him instead of hiding.
And all these things should be discussed before Ronnie's entry.They don't have much time if we go according to the articles.

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