None of them have been shown to be insensitive mothers.
All these failings from all these women happened unintentionally or despite their best intentions.
I would put them down to human errors.
Ganga's worries as a mother are understandable but the way she is dealing with them will bring nothing but more trouble.
Sure Mannu should be spending time on his studies extracurricular activities and hang out with friends and not devote his time to one girl at the expense off all the things that he should be doing at his age and the responsibilities he has at this age namely focusing on academics.Instead of restricting Pooja she could have let them spend time together at their place when they are at home or at Pooja's place under her mother's supervision.So that they can keep an eye on them and keep things strictly at friendship level or make sure he invited his other friends too so taht they are not alone
Mannu is young he shouldn't be made to deal with the burden of his mother's past at this age.
But Ganga could have just told him that her marriage with Jagya is her second marriage and he is the son of her first husband who has given up claims on him and now Jagya is his father.She need tell him at this stage about how her first marriage had been and how bad her first husband been.Because that is too much for him at this age.
Abhi does feel that he is not getting his share of love and affection and time from his father and grandmother and to complicate things Shivam outshines him at school and sports.She could have just told him to focus on what he is good at and directed his attention to that instead of teling him indirectly thta she will get him a better toy than Shivam's mother got for Shivam indirectly telling him to do better than Shivam. She herself is trying to do one up against Anandi saying that she will get a much better one that Anandi got for her son - What kind of a message will her son get from this?
It could be the insecurity in Ganga with regard to her relationships with her husband and fear of her past that may be influencing the way she is dealing with her problems with children
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Anandi well she may not be insecure or someone who compares herself with others but she fails to strike a balance between helping others and protecting her own interests.She has no sense of self preservation
Anandi did stop so many child marriages before she even braved bullets in the process and the same way she faced Ratan Singh's bullets while trying to get hold of Mannu. She doesn't fear for herself or she doesn't care about her safety while doing something she believes is right.
But her biggest fear is seeing her loved ones in danger or fear of being separated from her loved ones. The nightmare in which she saw Palash killing off Shiv put so much of irrational fear in her
While taking the child with her was a bad decision she had been careful to stay out of the firing.
She almost succeeded but she only had to see Akhera approching her with that menacing look and she ran like headless chicken which resulted in kidnap.
It is her fear for the lives of her loved ones which made her lose Nandini.
It is not that Ganga, Anandi or Dsa have failed as mothers but it is those specific weaknesses in the personality or their own weaknesses that made them fail in their duty as mothers in that particular incident.
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