Originally posted by: lovely_ladytbh -- i can completely see where Meera-Vidya are coming from in regards to their hostility to Gopi. Think about it from their perspective, they don't know the truth. All they know, thanks to Ahem and maybe Mansi, is that Gopi abandoned them to look after someone else's child. That stings man. Both girls, especially Meera are right to lash out at Gopi because they feel betrayed. It's true that Gopi did miss out on their formative years and was not there when the girls needed her the most. So I can see where the anger and resentment the two have for Gopi comes from (although even I admit that Meera's bratty behaviour with everyone else is too much). I strongly feel like once the truth comes out with the entire backstory, they'll realize how wrong they were about their mother.
As for the question of whether a person can be an ex-mom. Idk. Probably not an ex-mom but yea, I don't think a birth mother necessarily has to be actual mom all the time. I think even adopted mothers or step moms can be more motherly and more "real moms" to kids than birth mothers -- if i'm making any sense LOL.
Whatever it is, mother cannot be substituted or replaced.
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