Posted: 06 May 2015 at 9:49pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by mahi12
Originally posted by aparnauma
Did Anandi say anything different?
She did say that she wanted to leave BH so that Jagya will listen to his wife rather than her. Apparently Ganga also feels the same way that Jagya heeds to Anandi's words than hers and that according to her is interference
She did say the same thing to Dsa too - People including Ganga do seem to think that Anandi is taking the great position held by Ganga and Dadisa used to be blamed for that and Jagya needs to be blamed for that.
It is quite clear that she is leaving because of Dsa and J.
To cover up Anandi you cannot put false blames on others Where Ganga said Anandi is taking over the great position held by her ? where she felt like this Its only Anandi's false assumption Her imagination
Did Ganga even question Anandi's rights and her stay in Badi haveli Absolutely Not What she questioned with what right Anandi made this decision about Mannu without asking them It was their personal matter and very sensitive matter and how Ganga is wrong in that ? Every mother is very possessive about her child No mother will like even her sister doing this with her what Anandi did with Ganga If Anandi is so right why she does not prove her point to Ganga she did not mean that way and will never do this kind of act again without asking her and leave Ganga to Jagya here He will try to convince her about this Why Anandi is running away from Badi Haveli blaming Ganga she hates me ?what makes her think Ganga hates her ? Had she been hating her wouldn't she have taunted her why you are staying in your ex sasra Why Ganga would have run to shiv niketan on Anandi's one call to cover her up there ? so how Anandi thinks for Ganga she hates her ?
If Ganga would have said these words to jagya why Anandi is stayjng in her ex sasra and then she leaving I would have understood Ganga is questioning Anandi's right to stay in BH but does Ganga have no right to question this why Anandi took this sensitive matter's decision about mannu without asking them ? that Anandi ji is leaving Badi haveli thinking Ganga hates her and does not like her around Badi Haveli?How that is justified
Why Ganga have no right to question why Anandi speaks in every her and Jagya's matter lecturing Jagya around This is not something new for Anandi She has been doing it for a long time Enough is enough Why is that always Ganga should show patience and understanding to Anandi why cannot Anandi understand sometimes ?Just because Jagya does not blast her and asks her to shut up does not mean he pays more head to her words that she never stops How can he even blast her if he will do then same will happen what she is doing now Just because Ganga said she had no right to take this decision Anandi is leaving BH thinking Ganga hates her ?
Why Jagya needs to blamed ?how he can be blamed Anandi is leaving BH because of him ?what makes you say he pay more head to Anandi's words The fact he does not blast her does not mean he really pays more head to Anandi 's words Ganga is misunderstanding this but Anandi is too living in her fantasy land in her misunderstandings where she thinks he listens to her more than his wife Hilarious
In that breakfast table scene Jagya was quiet after Dadisaa's words He did not counter question her if Anandi would not have jumped in Jagya went silent even before that so ? what makes Anandi think she could jump in the matter because she is habituated Gauri was not wrong Anandi do think she has some right on Jagya thats why in every matter she speaks and then misunderstands his silence as if he really pays more heeds to her words ? How many times when after he is married to Ganga he called Anandi when she was in Udaipur to take any of her opinion in any matter Never How many times when she came to BH he took her opinion in anything Never How many times he called her to share with her anything Never
but yes Anandi has lectured him always when she has been in BH before and after his marriage with Ganga so what makes Anandi thinks he pays more heads to her words than Ganga's that she has this thinking ?
How can Jagya be blamed for Anandi's exit from BH She is leaving because of him
Did he keep her in BH ? No He clearly said to her its between you and dadisaa i cannot say anything He did not force her
Did he involved her in his life and made her decision maker? No
Does he interferes in her life ? No He says i have no right
so how can he be blamed Anandi is leaving because of him? in fact even Ganga cannot be blamed here Ganga said nothing wrong to Anandi if Anandi does not think she did any wrong She thinks she have right to take others children's decisions Some very sensitive matters where a lot of feelings and emotions of others are attached if others object she will leave the place thinking they hate Is that Ganga's fault? No Its Anandi's fault
Ganga has only wronged Jagya but she did no wrong with Anandi she can be blamed for it
Anandi doesn't need cover up from her fans who watch the show since CVs channel and the writers themselves are biggest fans of Anandi for Anandi they would even kill Shiv
Ganga asked Anandi directl with what rights she promised Ratan
Anandi then itsel clarified that she didn't promise to Ratan because she thought she had rights over Mannu but she promised purely out of compassion for a dying man.
Just like Anandi doesn't have rights to tell Ganga to arrange for a meet with Mannu for Ratan Ganga doesn't have rights to question Anandi regarding who she wishes to show compassion.
Anandi did leave the matter of her promise to Ratan it is Ganga who is dragging Anandi into her conversation with Jagya linking her actions with Anandi's actions or to justify her stand on not revealing to Mannu.
So who is comparing herself with whom?
Why is Anandi still on her mind when she herself aplogised to inconveniencing them with her act of compassion?
Why does the fact that Jagya listens to Anandi bother her even if she and Anandi say the same thing and he listens to Anandi? It is obviously bothering her that he gives weightage to Anandi's words than her's. But why is he giving more weihtage to Anandi's words????
That fact seems to be open to all the three women in that house.
So obviously Ganga is feeling sidelined by her husband whether he intended it to be that way or not by bringing in Anandi into their conversation to score point.
Why are the husband using Anandi to score a point with each other?
It is obvious that there is a gap in their relationship and they are using Anandi to score points with each other.
Yes Anandi is leaving the house because of Dsa and J and not because of G.
Simply because G is no one to influence the decisions that Anandi makes in her life.
Like Anandi herself said she is leaving because she wants to protect her delicate fragile but important relationships with BH.For Anandi BH is Dsa and Jagya whom she considers as her childhood friend.
Didn't Anandi want to leave BH way before Mannu Ratan issue came up?How can one say that she is leaving because she was not allowed to fulfil her promise to Ratan she is leavng???
The wake up call was for Dsa and not for Anandi because Anandi wanted to leave only with Dsa's consent.
With Shekhars gone her father don't know where he went Dsa is the only anchor in her life and what Dsa thinks and does matter her to a lot.
Anandi has only one weakness that was making her stay in BH and that is Dsa and she did not want to go against Dsa and leave. She wanted to leave because Dsa let her go.
Ganga is no one to her except that she happened to be connected with the people who matter to her.