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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 8:54pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by mahi12

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Did Anandi say anything different?
She did say that she wanted to leave BH so that Jagya will listen to his wife rather than her. Apparently Ganga also feels the same way that Jagya heeds to Anandi's words than hers and that according to her is interference
She did say the same thing to Dsa too - People including Ganga do seem to think that Anandi is taking the great position held by Ganga and Dadisa used to be blamed for that and Jagya needs to be blamed for that.

It is quite clear that she is leaving because of Dsa and J.
To cover up Anandi you cannot put false blames on others Where Ganga said Anandi is taking over the great position held by her ?  where she felt like this Its only Anandi's false assumption Her imagination 
Did Ganga  even question Anandi's rights and her stay in Badi haveli Absolutely Not    What she questioned with what right Anandi made this decision about Mannu without asking them It was their  personal matter and very sensitive matter  and how Ganga is wrong in that ? Every mother is very possessive about her child No mother will like even her sister doing this with her what Anandi did with Ganga If Anandi is so right why she does not prove her point to Ganga she did not mean that way  and will never do this kind of act again without asking her and leave Ganga to Jagya here He will try to convince her about this Why Anandi is running away from Badi Haveli blaming Ganga she hates me ?what makes her think Ganga hates her ? Had she been hating her wouldn't she have taunted her why you are staying in your ex sasra Why Ganga would have run to shiv niketan on Anandi's one call to cover her up there ? so how Anandi thinks for Ganga she hates her ?

If Ganga would have said these words to jagya why Anandi is stayjng in  her ex sasra and then she leaving I would have understood Ganga is questioning Anandi's right to stay in BH but does Ganga have no right to question this why Anandi took this sensitive matter's decision about mannu without asking them ? that Anandi ji is leaving Badi haveli thinking Ganga hates her and does not like her  around Badi Haveli?How that is justified 

Why Ganga have no right to question why Anandi speaks in every  her and Jagya's matter lecturing Jagya around  This is not something new for Anandi She has been doing it for a long time Enough is enough Why is that always Ganga should show patience and understanding to Anandi why cannot Anandi understand sometimes ?Just because Jagya does not blast her and asks her to shut up does not mean he pays more head to her words that she never stops How can he even blast her if he will do then same will happen what she is doing now  Just because Ganga said she had no right to take this decision Anandi is leaving BH thinking Ganga hates her ?

Why Jagya needs to blamed ?how he can be blamed  Anandi is leaving BH because of him ?what makes you say he pay more head to Anandi's words The fact he does not blast her does not mean he really pays more head to Anandi 's words Ganga is misunderstanding this but Anandi is too living in her fantasy land  in her misunderstandings where she thinks he listens to her more than his wife  Hilarious 

 In that breakfast table scene Jagya was quiet after Dadisaa's words He did not counter question her  if  Anandi would not have jumped in Jagya went silent even before that so ? what makes Anandi think she could jump in the matter because she is habituated Gauri was not wrong  Anandi do think she has some right on Jagya thats why in every matter she speaks and then misunderstands his silence as if he really pays more heeds to her words ? How many times when after he is married to Ganga he called Anandi  when she was in Udaipur to take any of her opinion in any matter  Never How many times when she came to BH he took her  opinion in anything  Never  How many times he called her to share with her anything Never 


but yes Anandi has lectured him always when she has been in BH before and after his marriage with Ganga so what makes Anandi thinks he pays more heads to her words than Ganga's that she has this thinking ?

How can Jagya be blamed for Anandi's exit from BH  She is leaving because of him

Did he keep her in BH ? No He clearly said to her its between you and dadisaa i cannot say anything  He did not force her 

Did he involved her in his life and made her decision maker? No 

Does he interferes in her life ? No He says i have no right  

so how can he be blamed Anandi is leaving because of him? in fact even Ganga cannot be blamed here Ganga said nothing wrong to Anandi if Anandi does not think she did any wrong She thinks she have right to take others children's decisions Some very sensitive matters where a lot of feelings and emotions of others are attached if others object she will leave the place thinking they hate Is that Ganga's fault? No Its Anandi's fault 

Ganga has only wronged Jagya but she did no wrong with Anandi she can be blamed for it 



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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 8:59pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by mahi12


To cover up Anandi you cannot put false blames on others Where Ganga said Anandi is taking over the great position held by her ?  where she felt like this Its only Anandi's false assumption Her imagination 
Did Ganga  even question Anandi's rights and her stay in Badi haveli Absolutely Not    What she questioned with what right Anandi made this decision about Mannu without asking them It was their  personal matter and very sensitive matter  and how Ganga is wrong in that ? Every mother is very possessive about her child No mother will like even her sister doing this with her what Anandi did with Ganga If Anandi is so right why she does not prove her point to Ganga she did not mean that way  and will never do this kind of act again without asking her and leave Ganga to Jagya here He will try to convince her about this Why Anandi is running away from Badi Haveli blaming Ganga she hates me ?what makes her think Ganga hates her ? Had she been hating her wouldn't she have taunted her why you are staying in your ex sasra Why Ganga would have run to shiv niketan on Anandi's one call to cover her up there ? so how Anandi thinks for Ganga she hates her ?

If Ganga would have said these words to jagya why Anandi is stayjng in  her ex sasra and then she leaving I would have understood Ganga is questioning Anandi's right to stay in BH but does Ganga have no right to question this why Anandi took this sensitive matter's decision about mannu without asking them ? that Anandi ji is leaving Badi haveli thinking Ganga hates her and does not like her  around Badi Haveli?How that is justified 

Why Ganga have no right to question why Anandi speaks in every  her and Jagya's matter lecturing Jagya around  This is not something new for Anandi She has been doing it for a long time Enough is enough Why is that always Ganga should show patience and understanding to Anandi why cannot Anandi understand sometimes ?Just because Jagya does not blast her and asks her to shut up does not mean he pays more head to her words that she never stops How can he even blast her if he will do then same will happen what she is doing now  Just because Ganga said she had no right to take this decision Anandi is leaving BH thinking Ganga hates her ?

Why Jagya needs to blamed ?how he can be blamed  Anandi is leaving BH because of him ?what makes you say he pay more head to Anandi's words The fact he does not blast her does not mean he really pays more head to Anandi 's words Ganga is misunderstanding this but Anandi is too living in her fantasy land  in her misunderstandings where she thinks he listens to her more than his wife  Hilarious 

 In that breakfast table scene Jagya was quiet after Dadisaa's words He did not counter question her  if  Anandi would not have jumped in Jagya went silent even before that so ? what makes Anandi think she could jump in the matter because she is habituated Gauri was not wrong  Anandi do think she has some right on Jagya thats why in every matter she speaks and then misunderstands his silence as if he really pays more heeds to her words ? How many times when after he is married to Ganga he called Anandi  when she was in Udaipur to take any of her opinion in any matter  Never How many times when she came to BH he took her  opinion in anything  Never  How many times he called her to share with her anything Never 


but yes Anandi has lectured him always when she has been in BH before and after his marriage with Ganga so what makes Anandi thinks he pays more heads to her words than Ganga's that she has this thinking ?

How can Jagya be blamed for Anandi's exit from BH  She is leaving because of him

Did he keep her in BH ? No He clearly said to her its between you and dadisaa i cannot say anything  He did not force her 

Did he involved her in his life and made her decision maker? No 

Does he interferes in her life ? No He says i have no right  

so how can he be blamed Anandi is leaving because of him? in fact even Ganga cannot be blamed here Ganga said nothing wrong to Anandi if Anandi does not think she did any wrong She thinks she have right to take others children's decisions Some very sensitive matters where a lot of feelings and emotions of others are attached if others object she will leave the place thinking they hate Is that Ganga's fault? No Its Anandi's fault 

Ganga has only wronged Jagya but she did no wrong with Anandi she can be blamed for it 



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Edited by AdorableAnusha - 06 May 2015 at 8:59pm

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 9:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by ExcuseMePlz

Originally posted by tiny15

if Aji is behaving difftly then so is ganga . why same thing is not said abt ganga wen we know ganga's ckt is not like this that she will mind Aji.
or is the mind set is Aji kare toh raasleela aur ganga kare toh uska ckt heela.


When its said that Ganga is not behaving differently!She is a complete new character,butchered badly and not behaving like the actual character,I said it always.So why this question,didn't get it!
its not  4u. oderwise i wudn't'd liked ur post.i just put sum query.
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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 9:08pm | IP Logged
Yah Jagya own wife feels he blame her for Anandi's departure ...
 
DS try use Jagya name ... Anandi leaving without informing Jagya ... So what DS was reason she stays as Ganga DS line indicates
 
All these years DS never agree may be Jagya too ask Anandi consider DS request who knows ...
 
Anandi always wana ... Its DS who finally saw how much Anandi stay causes trouble for Ganga ...how much Ganga dislike Anandi..
 
Anandi made mistake ..but she never force Ganga ... Anandi told she feel its right thing as Ratan is terminally ill she promises...Anandi accept her mistake without consulting gave promise ... Ganga reacted as if Anandi made Mannu meet Ratan JaGan get to know after all ... Or Anandi told Mannu directly without telling his parents
 
Ganga just use that promise made it issue she show all anger ...
 
If Ganga is right why she is scared of Jagya will blame her or Anandi leaving in hurry ..Ganga can say since DS gave permission who am I to stop you ..Ganga only clearing her own name ... Since she knew without purpose she made it big issue plus DS Jagya will blame her too ..
 
Why Ganga scare ... Why she think Jagya will blame her

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 9:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Anandi is not like this. She was so nice to DB when DB was doing all that mischief harming amol and herself.

Anandi treated sanchi with kidgloves even when sanchi was dancing mad. And anandi has forgotten the evil deeds of dadisa as if nothing like that happened.

Anandi has changed. She was so cold to Ganga which was not characteristic of the anandi we know and ganga did not even try to put mirchi in Shivam's mouth.

Ganga was shocked by anandi's decision as she did not know anandi and DS eavesdropped.

Ganga was only complaining in the privacy of bedroom not doing any bodily harm to anandi or shivam. Compared to what DB or Sanchi did. Or even Ira did.

Why in serials, people dont close doors and talk? Why in serials it is not wrong to eavesdrop?

They are butchering anandi too along with ganga. Anandi who never got angry has suddenly became very angry. And why she took offence that shivam should also be told the truth? Why not he be told the truth? If ganga cant decide when to tell the truth to shivam, how can anandi decide when to tell the truth to mannu?


    Anandi is not only upset coz Ganga raised questions regarding Shivam telling about Nandini. There are other issues too from quite a time like Ganga taunting Anandi on dining table , calling her 'kisi si' while telling Abhi that she would bring him better game and there must be other incidences too but CVs do not have FB's of that which shows Ganga do not consider her part of family anymore and and is feeling bad if J listens Anandi's points more than her . Abhi considering Shivam his rival in complicating matters more. 
   Anandi can not live like a guest for years who can not be involved in family matters or who do not have any right to even bring gifts to children to motivate them. So she wanted to leave the place and set up a home where she can have full rights to do whatever she wants but DS or perhaps Jagan too did not allowed her to move out. 

   Now latest happenings only send her on saturation point regarding staying in BH where her presence is unwanted to few members but they are just putting up for the sake of DS. So this time she is adamend on her decision. I think it is good for all and G should stop her pretense of stopping her going from BH while she and son her has problems with every single thing Anandi and her son do. 
     
   Btw when Anandi bore more bad behavior from DB and Sanchi she was at her own home with full rights then she could just over look that  but now it is hurting more because of her complicated status in BH.  
    How difficult to live in a place where you do not even have any right to put your pt in a dinning table conversation and when you see even  your son's exuberance too is unwanted?    

    Btw if she will not tell her real reason of going from BH to DS , she will never let her go from there and she is not shouting it in front of all. 

  
   


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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 9:14pm | IP Logged
And its not only Anandi feel Jagya will stop her or try convinced her ...Ganga felt same she thinks Jagya will blame her
 
why... Both ladies took Jagya name ... Anandi is horrible person always interefere
 
Why Ganga feel Jagya will blame her ... He shd be happy na finally trouble has gone DS herself gave permission
 
Why Ganga scared

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 9:17pm | IP Logged
Seeing shivam cry so much leaving BH, I felt anandi should have stayed in her own house in Udaipur. At that time she gave more importance to others than her own son. Why make shivam attached to some paraya house and then uproot him abruptly? The child was putting back those clothes and was inconsolable. And anandi wants him to listen to her without questioning and without tantrums. When adults start quarelling, it is the children who suffer.

Parents think that kids are puppets and they can manipulate them any way the like. They are shocked when kids start questioning parents decisions and start to rebel.

It is not easy to parent.



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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 9:18pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by blushing

True ... If Ganga can clear raise Q of A's rights ...plus she always taunt Anandi
 
After all this Ganga still expect Anandi will stay in BH ...
 
Anandi leaving before Jagya comes back means she does not want to tell him due JaGan bad equation she is leaving ...
 
In Jagya's presence DS can blackmail her more ... Jagta can give excuse of DS health ..DS can use that
 
DS saw how much Ganga dislike Anandi...its DS who finally smell coffee ... But still not convinced hense use Jagya name ...
 
Anandi does not want any complication
False  show me when Ganga raised questions on Anandi rights in BH
where she always taunts Anandi ?
How Ganga dislikes Anandi ? so Ganga asking why Anandi took this decision about Mannu means she dislikes her  ? I have never seen even one scene where Ganga is saying she dislikes Anandi even in her subconscious self so these are false blames 

A person who hates someone would not go in her place on her call to cover her up in her function ? 

and Anandi does not want to leave in Jagya's presence because she does not want him to know she is leaving because of JaGan's bad equation ? really ?and she can cover up that by escaping behind his back in fact in that way she will be giving him shocker and he might think something bad happened behind his back in BH and he will question DS about it 

 and when she is leaving because of jaGan's bad equation She is leaving because she thinks Ganga dislikes her in BH which i don;'t know where Ganga even showed that Had she been disliking her when Anandi ji was causally chatting with DS  Would Ganga be serving her breakfast ? Had Ganga been hating her she would not she  have minded her pacifying Abhi when Abhi did not listen to Ganga ? but Anandi ji crosses the line when Ganga does not cross that then why Anandi does that ?


and i believe what is shown in episode Anandi does not want to leave in Jagyas presence because she thinks he try to stop her ? Why ? He might out of courtesy ask her why she is leaving but why she thinks he will stop her?Even if he did that will be out courtesy He will not force her   Did he ask her to stay 11 years ago No How many times he said he has no right to interfere in her personal life whatever decision she makes Its between her and Dadisaa not him 

and she thinks she cannot say no to him He will feel bad she will fall weak It will become difficult for him She can convince DS and did not fall weak in front of her She was firm in front of crying shivam Jagya is someone who clearly said he does not think he has any right to decide anything such for her She will stay in BH or outhouse or whatever its her personal life about him she is thinking he will get hurt?

Anandi just wants to show off to Jagya she is very much concerned for him Wackootherwise it should be common sense to her he will be more easy to convince for her because he gives her space to decide things on her own He does not bully her , force her or lecture her around 

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