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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 2:06am | IP Logged
if anyone say to other that why r u doing this .if anyone try to stop anyone then it is call interference but anandi is not doing such thing so in what way anandi interfering ganga life

more over anandi tell her own opinion about ratan but she never force ganga to think exactly same like her neither she questioning ganga why she cant forgive ratan .anandi is not saying to ganga that u should forgive ratan so how ganga reach conclusion that anandi is interfering ganga life

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 2:20am | IP Logged
Honestly, I think while Anandi was wrong initially in giving the promise to Ratan, Ganga is wrong in bringing Anandi into the discussion. 

Anandi herself admitted that she did a mistake in promising Ratan without informing Jagya-Ganga. She accepted herself. She asked them to think from Ratan's pov and let him meet Mannu. That's all she said. She left the decision up to them. She didn't demand that they tell Mannu the truth or put pressure upon them to make Mannu meet Ratan. She told them what she thought they should do and how she was sorry for making the promise without asking them. That's it. That's not considered interference. It would've been interference if Anandi demanded that Mannu be known the truth and continued pestering Jagya-Ganga. She hasn't. She's butted out. Ganga can decide that Mannu will not meet Ratan (and she probably will). But Ganga putting forth a condition that she will only tell Mannu if Anandi tells Shivam is her interfering in Anandi's matter. By involving Anandi in the matter, it is also her (Ganga) who puts Anandi in between her and Jagya's relationship. 

Ganga is the one who has been feeling insecure and pulling Anandi into their relationship. Anandi and Shivam have no connection to Ratan-Ganga-Mannu-Jagya. Of course this isn't to say that some of Ganga's insecurity isn't well founded. Its quite obvious that Dsa prefers Anandi to her and that even Jagya highly respects and listens to Anandi's words. But Ganga is also wrong in not communicating her insecurity and instead fostering anger. Honestly, I also think Ganga is also partially at fault with Abhi's behaviour toward Shivam. He needs to be talked with as well, but this is not the time for that discussion. 

In general, it was Ganga who insisted that Anandi stay back in BH even when Anandi herself had reservations. She brought it upon herself trying to be mahaan like Anandi. 

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 3:52am | IP Logged
Originally posted by surabhi01

yes anandi made promise and she has accepted her fault and she is not blaming anyone nor she is showing any attitude .yes ganga has poison against anandi otherwise why ganga said such rude word about anandi to jagya that anandi is interfering in jagan life

Very true Surabhi.

What Anandi said to DS?

She took all blame on herself. She clearly said she didnt mind what Ganga said to her but what bothering her is she cant see any rift between Jagya Ganga.

The dialogue what she said was " anjane me hi sahi but maine Ganga ke maan me mere liye itni zeher bhar di"

She is clearly blaming herself.,


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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 3:56am | IP Logged
ganga is not feeling insecure & pulling A in2 their relationship. she never did .e ven  after that FBshes shown guilty abt saying that 2 J.shes not insecure of he rrelationship now nor was at that time.  but she on;y reacted at that time in the heat of the moment.ganga feels bad but is not insecure.
theres diff btn feeling bad & insecurity.

DS prefers A and yes J respects A but its not that he always listens 2 A or wants her 2 interfere in his mrd life. post leap where its shown he listened 2 A. even at that b'fast table J din't agree 2 A.but he'd 2 listen 2 them as DS was elder & 2 A he cudn't say bcoz of respect also he cna't sya naything 2 her like he can say anything 2 ganga or vice-versa.its onl ganga MU him.

ganga is not including A in2 her life but A herself interfering in JaGan's life by taking decisions & making promises regarding their  prsnl matters.J din't agree 2 A's promise he only wants ganga 2 tell abt ratan 2 mannu bcoz of the fact that ratan is a big truth of mannu's life but ganga  has he rown feras which r shown wen shes having FBs of those tortures.

ganga din't insist A 2 stay at BH. she only told J she'd no probs wid A's stay at BH and she 'd no prob now also.its only that A is interfering in their prsnl matters which is wrong. Ganga din't try 2  mahaan by asking A 2 stya in BH bcoz she had/has no authority wen DS & J r there . she only assured that she had no objection 4 her stay.its only A's constant interference which is causing all these probs.wen ganga din't object A's stay then it din't mean shes  allowing her 2 interfere in her prsnl matters. and ganga is only objecting 2 that oderwise she nowhwere said A shudn't interfere in BH mateers.

if ganga wud'd objected on A's  stay wud A still'dn't stayed wid them?? she wud bcoz Ds wud'd clearly told 2 ganga that its my home i want A 2 stay here so she wud stay.

if A wudn't'd given promise 2 ratan then ganga wud mite'd agreed 2 tell mannu abt ratan but A created mess by giivng promise & now still expecting that her promise shud b fulfilled wid out thinking abt the feelings of ganga.

where did ganga put the condn?? she only stated a fact by giving shivam-nandini  e.g. that wen A cudn't tell abt nandini wen it has no harm then how can ganga tell abt ratan 2 mannu wid such a criminal being his bio father.??

ganga is not responsible 4 abhi's behaviour 2wards shivam. but its shivam's needling & behaviour 2wrads abhi which is  cause of all things. ganga is trying 2 do as much as she can & try 2 stop him. oderwsie she wudn't'd tried 2 slap him wen abhi disobeyed J.

just 2 defend A put all blames on ganga & make her scapegoat. its high time A shud try 2 b in her limits & shudn't interfere in oder's prsnl matters.no1 likes interference in ones's life.

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 4:14am | IP Logged
Originally posted by surabhi01



the day anandi enter bh anandi stay away from jagan but it is game for ganga to put false blame on anandi

when ganga putting false blame on anandi someone should ask ganga apart from giving promise to ratan where anandi interfere in ur life

and anandi has already accepted her fault so what is need of ganga need to realize anandi again and again that u have done wrong

Very true even Jagya said yesterday Anandi never interfered. She accidentally met Bimla and she wanted to fulfil the wish of a dying person but tum karne dogi tab na?

That means Jagya was liar if he is saying Anandi is not interfering?

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 4:19am | IP Logged
Originally posted by surabhi01

it is anandi who told ganga how to write manu on slate and now after so many years how ganga forget easily that anandi did good for ganga and easily blame anandi that anandi is interfering in ganga life

and I think next will be sarita to blame anandi .

and those who never forget goodness of anandi cvs has sent them away like phooli and bhairon
Surabhi not just Anandi started her education but also for every small things she used to call nandi, How to please doc saab, making dhokla, cakes. She was so appy when Anandi came forward and made Jagya cut the cake made by Ganga , not Sanchi.

After marriage for Shyamal Bhai case how to make Jagya understand. 

She never enquired when Shiv was in problem. Anandi did prayed to God and called up during Mannu's treatment.

Those things suited her

Now she has became capable so who is Anandi? What right does she have although Anandi did agreed she made a mistake by making a promise

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 4:24am | IP Logged
No no Ganga is not insecure , just at the heat of the moment she said her soul mate is a two timer.
Such a disgusting blame, but this is said just heat of the moment.


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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 4:25am | IP Logged
Where did CVs showed that Anandi came to Ganga not to ask forgiveness but to convince her?
Let us talk what has been shown


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