One apology, different reactions - Page 6

on superficial level it luks same but we see beyond that then its difft.

yes fears of mothers were same no denying but at that time sumi bcum inhuman while ganga still doesn't.

it was not sumi's desire 2 see J's future secured oderwise  she shud'd seen the incompatibility factor but she chose 2 ignore bcoz she wanted a virgin DIl 2 raise her status unlike ganga  whos only concern is her son's future(its hsown many times 4 him she bcum nurse so taht she cna raise him 2 b gud human being & ahv bright future)

ganga was not opportunist back then.she mite'd wanted  2 marry J but never like thta and thatswhy she  asked him leave her  even after he mrd her wid full rituals

if she wud' been opportunist she wud'd never asked J 2 go back 2 singhs leaving her.

and ganga left emotional letter not 2 make any1 guilty.s he left that letter bcoz shes answerable 2 J & she din't sound like shes blaming. she only wrote that shes leaving BH as she thinks bcoz of her BH is not safe.

and J & BS blamed sumi bcoz she behaved like a lunatic esply she shudn't'd said ganga is not sugna or A thats we shud care abt her.. she din't luk like a fearful mother rather  a prsn who hates ganga v.much widout any reason.

sorry 2 say i don't think its make sum1 opportunist.

ganga is not getting outraged bcoz J thinking Ais rite. bcoz ganga knows that J wanted this from past 5 yrs. shes only outraged that why did A give promise 2 ratan widout consulting them.yes her outrage is natural but shes not thinking that J is silently agreeing wid A.A   is asking 2tell abt ratan bcoz of her promise while J'd difft reasons.

and i don't think ganga pretended & wanted 2 live close 2 singhs or J thaswhy wen J told her  abt jaipur job she realized shes not needed so stay away from singhs & J.and she wanted 2 go back jaitser as it has her own culture & environment & ppl r familiar

 

and just bcoz she din't wait 4 all BH ppl's consent doesn't make her opportunist. if she never wanted  consent she wudn't'd asked J 2 leave her.no opportunist will do this.

 i don't think ganga always does/ did wat she  wanted .there r many instances where she din't do wat she  wanted she mite'd did/ does sumthing on her own but not always like A.

here i can't compare her wid A.

4 me JaGan luv track & tis track is superfiically same .only thing similar is mother's fears.

and btw my name is not Jia😊

Well keeping the truth hidden from  Mannu whether it is  right way to protect Mannu or not is also not a question to debate since hiding the truth does not make them immune to that truth.

A truth hidden will always find a way to come out.

Her approach to her problems regarding Mannu that are being questioned.

Neither Sumi was wrong back then nor is Ganga wrong if she wants to protect her son from Mannu and Pooja .

It is only her methods that are being questioned now.

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If Shivam doesn't know that he has a twin sister that is wrong as well. 

Both Mannu and Shivam may be too young to understand the situations but parents should give them minimum details which could be understood at that age

Mannu need not be told all the gory details of his mother's life with his birth father he just needs to know that his mother had been married before but the amrriage didn't work out so they sepertaed.

Just like Shivam needs to know that he had twin sister who has been kidnapped.

What Anandi did or didn't do in her life should not be an excuse for Ganga to do what she should shouldn't do in her life.After all didn't she doesn't like to be compared then why is she comparing even to score point with her husband? Did she like it when her husband used Anandi to score a point in his argument?

Who is bringing in Anandi into their lives? Is Anandi bringing herself or they are bringing her into their lives?

Anandi as a part of her promise did try to make Ganga see her point when she failed she left it at that so where is the question of Anandi interfering?

Had Anandi been interfering in their matters Mannu would have gotten to know about his father long time back Abhi would have gotten a lecture along with Shivam  from Anandi everytime he went into a sulk after Shivam rubbed him in the wrong way.

But all these things didn't happen

It is Ganga who has been inconsistent in her behaviour  she welcomed the comparisons with Anandi when it suited her she welcomed her inputs in her affairs when it benefitted from her.Why did she not tell BH people not to compare her chai with Anandi's chai when it was clear that she didn't like being compared?

it is also possible that she had no problem with Anandi staying in BH and helping her take care of her own kids while she was away doing Medicine and then specialisation  because it was great to have a support system.

If Anandi stayed in BH because of the support that she needed it was also very much possible that Ganga also needed help of an extra hand.

Anandi from what is shown so far has been wanting to go away and it is only her weakness towards Dsa that prevented from leaving and it was clear that Anandi didn't want to be get more importance than Ganga has been getting from Dsa and J which she never wanted in the first place.

Helping other people -regardless of what state she is in and how miserable her life or how happy and  content she is  -  Anandi did always reach out to people.

Yes she doesn't think what problems that her helping nature will land her in - is it because she is stupid or is it because she doesn't think about herself?

What exactly did she see in Ratan ? A frail dying man who is full of regrets and just wanting to see that if one act of goodness from his side has yielded any good results so that he can die in peace.

Wanting to help a person in that state is it something wrong? No

Promising that man - is it wrong in principle?No.

What had been wrong was that she did not talk to Jagya and Ganga which everyone agrees that she had been wrong there.

Does wanting to help a man in that condition amounts interfering in Ganag and Jagya's life?

In fact she didn't put Jagya and Ganga in trouble but she only landed herself in trouble and she will feel a bit bad if she has not been able to fulfill the promise inspite of trying her best and there ends the matter for her.

Knowing Anandi she may not have approved of Ganga's decision about not wanting to reveal about Ratan to Mannu. But did she interfere in all these years in that issue just because she felt it is right and Ganga was doing wrong? No

So how does the act of promising Ratan become an interfering act?

It is foolishness on her part at the most and not an interfering act.

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Don't know whether they have been twisted so out of shape in this particular case.

Ganga is someone who is into self preservation at any cost. That is what is coming across here.

She looks after her own interests and that was from the begining and she doesn't care where the help comes from and what that person has to pay in order to help her.

Well Anandi when it comes to wanting help and she first decides on helping and then thinks about the ways she can help most of the times she succeeds and sometimes they back fire even when they backfire she make sure that it is she who ends up paying price and not anyone else one misjudgement on her part filled her life with misery tomorrow her daughter may overlook her mistake but will she over look?Anandi has a habit of losing her head when it comes to the safety of her loved ones or in her fear of being seperated from her loved ones as in case of Palash track or during Nandini's kidnap That was her character trait she fears for her loved ones much more than she fears for herself and that is what has been used in Nandini's kidnap track

Esha,  Anandi did exactly what you wrote she should do.

She saw a terminally ill person , made a promise. She herself realised the mistake in making the promise before consulting Jagan and let it there. She has not forced them or advise them to do anything.

After that she has not tried to convince anyone. She went to Ganga and apologised as though she knows making a promise to fulfil the desire of a dying man is right but she made a mistake for not consulting them. And she dont want that this should effect their bond so she came to her for forgiveness. 

Not for a once she act bechara, she clearly said she dont think making promise to a dying man was not her mistake.but what she thinks right  may not be right for others. So her mistake is she has not consulted Jagya Ganga

and I completely agree what you wrote abot  Ganga

@bold - what a lie it was and it was told when jagya was supporting anandi, with an aim to turn him against anandi and to prove herself right. What a cheap tactic.

Jagya did not believe her because he knows anandi. Moreover, anandi had herself said that she does not  think she made any mistake by promising ratan. Why would she go to ganga and apologise ?

I am just waiting to see how he is going to react when he comes to know anandi is leaving BH and waiting for ganga to get a blast of her life.