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Subhashini Suresh

@pasurYa

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Posted: 8 years ago

Well said Jaya ji.. suraj's character s butchered beyond repair..

he got best beta in spa.. yest epi can prove tat he s just like others .. nt caring abt his family nd became selfish suddenly..

AA have raised Vansh well with good sanskaars.. looks like suraj spoiled him by pampering him a lot..

sandy has also lost her mind..

I find bbsa really worried abt this than bb ..

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Subhashini Suresh

@pasurYa

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Posted: 8 years ago

Maybe since that kidney matter comes to her mind , she s keeping quite..

donno 😕

But it s the fight btw surYa nd bb that increased the TRP 😆

DABH suddenly went down this low.. leap was a bad move

they could have made suraj expand his business by some other means b4 getting child

Edited by pasurYa - 8 years ago

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SysAdmin

@SysAdmin

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Posted: 8 years ago

I was typing Daisa and It's auto corrected to "Disappointed" 😆

She indeed is a disappointment..

Always brings disappointment to RP.. 😡

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deejagi

@deejagi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: jsingh12

Agree.I actually felt very bad for B&B today. They looked so aged and worried when they were arranging MKD utensils Suraj's reason for selling MKD sounded hollow and I'm more disappointed with Sandy for readily agreeing to whatever Suraj does or says. Mkd can be handover to some loyal trusted workers and he can supervise it and Bhabasa can sit in the shop in his absence. This move is for future drama and taunts for SurYa for their hasty step only.

Bold: yes can't a mother/wife treat her family? Is it wrong if Sandy bear the expenses when Suraj is chasing his dreams? He is not lazy person and everyone knows he is hardworking and supported his family from young age. Now he is taking risk and want to try something else what is the problem till he settles if Sandy provides for their family. How come it will eating his wife's money? There is nothing wrong if wife supports financially for the family in difficult times and husbands should not be taunted for that. hope DABH highlights this issue positively.

No, it is not wrong for a wife to take care of the family both emotionally & financially when need arises. But here the situation is created. No one would have taunted Babasa when he was sick and Bhabo had to take the reigns of the family to run it. She would have worked in the sweet stall along with Suraj, because it was expected by a wife to take care of her husband, kids and elders. But here Suraj's hasty decision to sell the shop is the concerning factor. Till such time his dream works starts, he will look like one more Mohit to the passer by people and had Suraj waited till the construction starts and then sold the shop, every one would have said, yes he did a right thing as he could not sail on two boats and both work would have suffered. And getting Bank loan to start a business is not so easy. You need to show your capabilities and also an alternative source of income through which you can repay the loan in case of eventuality.

1. Suraj has no degree in Hotel Management which would have given them (bank) some guaranty about his work.

2. Suraj has nothing to pledge to get loan, not even a place where he will build the hotel. Even that he needs to buy only with the money he will get from loan.

3. It is not just building hotel, he needs to furnish the same and also employee numerous people and all this needs huge money which is lack with Suraj and even the family doesn't have surplus amount which they spare.

4. Even after all the above are fulfilled, it is not so easy to get customers from day one as his name would have forgotten by even the Puskar people as it would have been more then a year or two, since he has closed his shop and people remember only those who are active.

5. One he starts the hotel, he will have to start repaying the loan as well as he needs to pay the salaries, and needs to pay for water, electricity etc. which will make him to pay through his nose.

6. With Sandya's salary (govt. Salary), what all she can fulfill? She can feed the family and to certain extent, she can pay the school fee of Ved, but what next? If there is delay in realizing the money to repay the loan, will her salary be sufficient to pay the huge EMI's?

Neither Suraj nor Sandya have thought practically, they have taken a hasty decision going by their soul and heart. Neither they sought advise from their elders nor they consulted some consultation agency who would have updated them about the pro and cons of the decision. The elder come handy in situations like this only.

When we (me & my husband) decided to construct a house, the first thing we did was to convey the message to my father in law. The very first thing he asked us was " what is the estimation, how much hard cash we have and how much we are planning to take Bank loan". When we updated him about our plans, he asked one more question, was it really required for us to go for a Dulpex house when we will be only 3 (me, hubby & a daughter) instead why don't we plan for two different floors where in we can stay in one while we can rent out the other and from the rent money we can repay the loan amount. But when we said we wish to have the duplex, he asked us, what is our joint income and will we be left with sufficient money to run the life after loan etc. Till the even though we had thought that we will manage, we had never given enough thought to that and only after that we decided who will take care of what expenses after and during the construction of house etc. This is where we need elders advise as they have faced those stages in life and can give right suggestions.

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deejagi

@deejagi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: pasurYa
Well said Jaya ji.. suraj's character s butchered beyond repair..
he got best beta in spa.. yest epi can prove tat he s just like others .. nt caring abt his family nd became selfish suddenly..

AA have raised Vansh well with good sanskaars.. looks like suraj spoiled him by pampering him a lot..

sandy has also lost her mind..

I find bbsa really worried abt this than bb ..

Best beta ka synonym is VED, have you not seen Suraj got the tattoo as Best beta while Ved got it as best papa. That means Suraj got Ved's name on his hand while Ved got Suraj's right.

And he is not even like others (VIkhit). Atleast when they thought of selling their house (by taking Bhabo's thumb impression stealthily, they were fair enough to think of taking care of even Suraj along with their parents. Here Suraj didn't even bothered to check with Bhabo before selling her shop and brought the paper to her to sign without giving any prior information, Atleast they had a reason that they were to adjust 10 lacs for Bhabo's treatment but here Suraj did it to make his son proud of him and in that process he kicked the ladder which helped him to climb so far (be it his parents or the sweet shop).

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tweetykins21

@tweetykins21

Senior Member

Posted: 8 years ago

Very good discussion. All are well said But what can we do yar. We are very poor people. We don't like the script. But still watching DABH. We are adicted to the DABH Edited by tweetykins21 - 8 years ago

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Neela

@Neel_M

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Posted: 8 years ago

Jaya, this kind of hasty, stupid decision will not happen in real life, at least for 99% human being.. 1% might do this!!

CVs are taking viewers for granted, which is not true (current TRP)

He can't even sell the properties without legal documentations!

Here we see someone taking out the name board while paper was not even signed!!😆

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thala

@thala

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Posted: 8 years ago

blue that name board incident was to convey sarun that he has sold his shop

how can he say it to them directly

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Subhashini Suresh

@pasurYa

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Posted: 8 years ago

Well said jaya ji nd neela ji .. u r right..

Cvs have thought that the viewers will watch whatever they show... viewers r nt ready to see crap nd illogical track these days..

DABH was a show that gave many social messages .. but now it s totally the reverse nd no one in d world will be like suraj and sandhya .. they are shown brainless..

I doubt whether sandy s really educated ..

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deejagi

@deejagi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: thala
blue that name board incident was to convey sarun that he has sold his shop
how can he say it to them directly

thala it would have been better for them to hear it from their son than hear it from some outsider and the way that fellow said, have Suraj ji not told you that he had soled the shop to me yesterday itself. It was tight a slap on their face from their Shravan Kumar beta. Was there any difference from what Vikhit did and Suraj did? They got her thumb impression while she was unconscious while Suraj tricked her to sign the paper by already given his word to the other person and had allowed him to dismantle the shop (might have already taken the money also). Did Bhabo had any option to say anything other than putting her thumb impression by hiding her hurt?

Now I don't wonder his behavior to Sandya post HJ track as he think only like a horse on the chariot which can see only things ahead of its path and nothing on the side tracks. Then his priority was his mother and now his son. That's all.

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