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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:23am | IP Logged
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You know I live in the middle of nowhere all white town, many dont even know where India is on the map, but they all know about Nirbhaya, people that know me, know I am from New Delhi. They would look at me with pity and say "Oh! I would never go there, the place sounds scary and disgusting"

I would be SO HURT and OFFENDED.
Today I am thinking they are right about their opinion... this is like Salman was on the bus that night in Delhi... he just walked free... today. I bet he is secretly working to free Nirbhaya's rapists also...
Thank God 26/11 guys were handed swift justice, otherwise Salman would have ensured they walk free too.Clap

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:25am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by putti77

Originally posted by blue5sky

Originally posted by VeeIyer

Just out in the news...Salman's jail sentence suspended Dead
Why am I not surprised ?? But devastating news as it is now confirmed that anything / anybody can be bought...
" Show me your money " has gained a new meaning Confused


Really .. Disappointing


Lost the faith in Indian judiciaryl system. He will be safe for another10 yearsAngry
The case suspendedAngry


Mrs Iyer
We can never get good governance, India can never make good progress. The amount of euphoria around his release makes me want to throw up. People dont even care WHO they are supporting and WHY. I never watched Big Boss, not one episode, didnt care for the sight of him, and his down market lingo (in Tamil they say aana vayasukku adayalama) not behaving his own age, with those steroid induced muscles preening on stage as the junta salivated at him standing under, looking up at him, there was something very demeaning about that whole image to me.Dead  with a ugly blue bracelet always showing on his wrist. His entire family sporting "Being Human" those cheap Chinese made junk so people like me should forvere live in guilt that we dont do enough for charity
Exhibitionist B-----

Now news magazines will be filled with "Who wore what" to Salman's victory party. There is very little hope for India if it continues to function this way. (Kali muthiyachu)

They mentioned there would be rewards to flying a kite with Modi. They were not wrong
A PVSM or Bharat Ratna is a matter of time now.

What a shame and travesty of justice
If he had an iota of shame he would quit acting...
This has disgusted me beyond words

Sanjay Dutt got prison for carrying automatic weapons. This dude KILLS  a MAN and walks?
No wonder India is easy target for terrorists, people like Salman and the judge would would sell her in a heartbeat
Angry Angry



I beg to differ on point of Sanjay Dutt. He also has got away without being adequately punished by law. His offence was not as simple as keeping automatic weapon in house but the fact that he knew where those weapon had come from, from whom he got those weapon for safe keeping and what it were meant for. He facilitated underworld which was responsible for the Bomb Blast. He actually is a traitor who was let of just coz of political clout and our so called judicial system. And now he is out on furlough every other day.

Infact he is role model of Salam in every which ways. 

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:28am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Nisha0604

Anu

You know I live in the middle of nowhere all white town, many dont even know where India is on the map, but they all know about Nirbhaya, people that know me, know I am from New Delhi. They would look at me with pity and say "Oh! I would never go there, the place sounds scary and disgusting"

I would be SO HURT and OFFENDED.
Today I am thinking they are right about their opinion... this is like Salman was on the bus that night in Delhi... he just walked free... today. I bet he is secretly working to free Nirbhaya's rapists also...
Thank God 26/11 guys were handed swift justice, otherwise Salman would have ensured they walk free too.Clap

guess he is an expert in playing real life monopoly - and has enough GET out of jail cards !Cry
the funny part is all is bollywood slaves even agreed he killed in their tweets not one person said the driver drove not one person said he was in the back seat, kamal khan didnt come out saying Salman was sitting with me ..cha terrible

On a completely different note finally looks like there is a good movie Piku - Raja Sen and Sukanya verma are praising it..

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:31am | IP Logged
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Thanks very much

I have ZERO sympathy for Bollywood you are in good company here if you tear them up on my topic. They make way too much money for doing nothing to top it of they are the worst criminal offenders. I have zero feelings of adulation for any body the industry has produced in the recent times. Thanks for correcting me... I appreciate it

Sanjay was yet another "entitled no talent junkie" His biggest hit came when he was most stoned Rocky... so yes... I have no sympathies for him.

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:33am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by ishra368

I'm a bit confused
Why will R&B be angry at bala returning the money
And why was He sad before, when he was cuddling with II


R&B cannot be happy receiving money from Bala correct? Why will he be happy? He considers Bala and Vandu as his own, he considers the Iyers as his own, when he gets money he feels upset

I am sorry I cannot explain betterCry

No philosophical , meaningful reason for why he cuddled with his wife, I try not to use symbolism and "deep" meaning stuff in the story... I watched a a show years ago where a gal used to analyze every hand move and leg movement of the leads with "deep deep" symbolism.LOL
That put me off completely from using symbolism...

Hahaha no u explain it really well
Cleared my confusions
Thanks for explaining

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:35am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by samsi74

Can I ask something that was in my mind from the beginning, from all the Iyer ladies in the forum? This II's perception about my money and your money thing,is it normal or is it because R&B is super rich? I ask this because where I come from, once a couple is married there is no such thing as yours and mine. Everything is ours and lady is responsible for it. Even if the wife is not earning, still she handles it. 
I don't .know what are Appa's intention in sending money but in my society if a father did this, I would say that he's trying to convey a message that even though it's daughter's money we consider it as your family money. I'm very interested to see Nisha's interpretation of this situation. 
Love it so much Nisha to see how different cultures react to the same situation.




ok me an Iyer girl so will give my POV .

Normally its all husband /wife money joint account everything is one ..
 In this case R&B is super rich way way way beyond what Iyers would have seen so II gets conscious she doesnt want folks to think she married him for money, she doesn't want folks to think she is paying her family through his money.
I think given we are not used to this kind of money and value our self respect a lot it hurts our pride to think someone may even think we are after money..usse toh acha chullu bhar paani mein mar jao.

So if i was II I would do the exact same thing she did basically ,you are clueless what to do, u are scared to ask ur husband or tell him ..slowly she is talking about her insecurities her issues to him .This will take time also i feel even as a married woman given that i have worked all my years i would be very awkward to spend his money should i leave my job initially cause i am not used to it.
On the contrary i see my stay at home friends being more comfortable.

Let me give u an example i was between jobs when i moved from CA to Boston and there was a period of 3 months without job during my second  year of marriage, and my husbands bday fell in  i wanted to get him something on my own so i went to coaching class (i had work permit)and work edfor $10 per hour for 2 months and got money to get him a camera..very very stupid now i wouldnt have that kind of attitude but initially i did..
So i dont know if its Iyer mentality /middle class mentality but taking someone else's money takes a bit of getting used to .

Regarding bold the fact remains Iyers ,may be all middle class dads have a HUGE problem taking money from their kids in my case both son/daughter my dad still believes in giving us money and will throw a fit should we pay and will say we spend without looking and still feel i should be more efficient with my grocery and no ,no IYER dad will like money from his SIL and there is war even in my house now too LOLLOL

So for me every bit of what Nisha wrote is spot on doesn't make it right but i get it this is how it is Big smile.. and this Bala giving to R&B was wrong Bala and Vandu are also going through a tough time toh may not have thought through.
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@bold: agree on everything.
 

I think every new bride feels hesitant about asking for money, I was super conscious. Right after honeymoon I had landed back to India alone, when I reached home (in laws place) I had a bill from Airtel. It was a big number Rs 7600. I was waiting for an oppurnity to call my folks without an audience so I could ask papa to pay my bill. I could not dream of asking my husband or my in-laws for that. Though my Mil took an offence when she came to know that I asked my dad for money. After that she would leave an envelope for me every two weeks. But I would always say I have enough. I had emptied out my account before the wedding in the shoppingLOL. Was very happy when the PF money came to my account. My folks never took money from me when I was working back in India. They still are hesitant if I buy air ticket between CA to NYC. They always look for ways to pay me. Ouch

PS: I am punjabi and so i my husband. Its irrespective of culture or caste.

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:36am | IP Logged
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Thanks very much

I have ZERO sympathy for Bollywood you are in good company here if you tear them up on my topic. They make way too much money for doing nothing to top it of they are the worst criminal offenders. I have zero feelings of adulation for any body the industry has produced in the recent times. Thanks for correcting me... I appreciate it

Sanjay was yet another "entitled no talent junkie" His biggest hit came when he was most stoned Rocky... so yes... I have no sympathies for him.

Nisha youw were right about Ash. I read today morning, she cried for Sallu the whole day LOL it was bollywood life.

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:36am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by Nisha0604

Anu

You know I live in the middle of nowhere all white town, many dont even know where India is on the map, but they all know about Nirbhaya, people that know me, know I am from New Delhi. They would look at me with pity and say "Oh! I would never go there, the place sounds scary and disgusting"

I would be SO HURT and OFFENDED.
Today I am thinking they are right about their opinion... this is like Salman was on the bus that night in Delhi... he just walked free... today. I bet he is secretly working to free Nirbhaya's rapists also...
Thank God 26/11 guys were handed swift justice, otherwise Salman would have ensured they walk free too.Clap

guess he is an expert in playing real life monopoly - and has enough GET out of jail cards !Cry
the funny part is all is bollywood slaves even agreed he killed in their tweets not one person said the driver drove not one person said he was in the back seat, kamal khan didnt come out saying Salman was sitting with me ..cha terrible

On a completely different note finally looks like there is a good movie Piku - Raja Sen and Sukanya verma are praising it..


Must be... but I wont watch it, I cant stand Amitabh, I usually dont watch any of his new movies Anu. Secondly after dear Deepika's marital advice to me my $15 will be spent on watching a yawn inducing animated movie like Box Trolls because Amy Poehler or Jim Parsons or Adam Sandler dont tell me I should be cheating on my husbandBig smile and fake depression to sell a movieLOL

While we are on Deepika I read recently that "My choice was not her words"

She said that because Vogue PAID her enough

OR

She didnt have a "choice"ROFL

So she either lacks morals or doesn't have a choice, not sure which is worse
ROFL

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