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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 6:54am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Nisha0604

Originally posted by putti77

Originally posted by blue5sky

Originally posted by VeeIyer

Just out in the news...Salman's jail sentence suspended Dead
Why am I not surprised ?? But devastating news as it is now confirmed that anything / anybody can be bought...
" Show me your money " has gained a new meaning Confused


Really .. Disappointing


Lost the faith in Indian judiciaryl system. He will be safe for another10 yearsAngry
The case suspendedAngry


Mrs Iyer
We can never get good governance, India can never make good progress. The amount of euphoria around his release makes me want to throw up. People dont even care WHO they are supporting and WHY. I never watched Big Boss, not one episode, didnt care for the sight of him, and his down market lingo (in Tamil they say aana vayasukku adayalama) not behaving his own age, with those steroid induced muscles preening on stage as the junta salivated at him standing under, looking up at him, there was something very demeaning about that whole image to me.Dead  with a ugly blue bracelet always showing on his wrist. His entire family sporting "Being Human" those cheap Chinese made junk so people like me should forvere live in guilt that we dont do enough for charity
Exhibitionist B-----

Now news magazines will be filled with "Who wore what" to Salman's victory party. There is very little hope for India if it continues to function this way. (Kali muthiyachu)

They mentioned there would be rewards to flying a kite with Modi. They were not wrong
A PVSM or Bharat Ratna is a matter of time now.

What a shame and travesty of justice
If he had an iota of shame he would quit acting...
This has disgusted me beyond words

Sanjay Dutt got prison for carrying automatic weapons. This dude KILLS  a MAN and walks?
No wonder India is easy target for terrorists, people like Salman and the judge would would sell her in a heartbeat
Angry Angry

totally upset Nisha ...

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:00am | IP Logged
He wouldnt give the time of the day to the morons that are cheering for him on the streets.

Ask him to part with his bedroom at night while he goes off on a drunken binge to mow people down Then these jackasses will see who they cheered for. They deserve him. an idol full of air.

No wonder everyone wants to be exponentially rich in India. You can get away with murder.

I am going to quit reading the newspaper for a week or two now... the sight of him giving bytes will make me murderous otherwise.. and the sight of amoral Bollywood acting like he returned victorious from the war of 2015 or something.


I quit watching the show when Ishita Bhalla "nobly" shared her bed. I have no clue what goes on now. It hasnt hurt me one bit. Ive kept my sanity and my blood pressure.  I dont need husband sharing lessons from women like Ekta Kapoor neither do I need lessons from escaping the law like Sallu Miya

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:07am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by samsi74

Can I ask something that was in my mind from the beginning, from all the Iyer ladies in the forum? This II's perception about my money and your money thing,is it normal or is it because R&B is super rich? I ask this because where I come from, once a couple is married there is no such thing as yours and mine. Everything is ours and lady is responsible for it. Even if the wife is not earning, still she handles it. 
I don't .know what are Appa's intention in sending money but in my society if a father did this, I would say that he's trying to convey a message that even though it's daughter's money we consider it as your family money. I'm very interested to see Nisha's interpretation of this situation. 
Love it so much Nisha to see how different cultures react to the same situation.




ok me an Iyer girl so will give my POV .

Normally its all husband /wife money joint account everything is one ..
 In this case R&B is super rich way way way beyond what Iyers would have seen so II gets conscious she doesnt want folks to think she married him for money, she doesn't want folks to think she is paying her family through his money.
I think given we are not used to this kind of money and value our self respect a lot it hurts our pride to think someone may even think we are after money..usse toh acha chullu bhar paani mein mar jao.

So if i was II I would do the exact same thing she did basically ,you are clueless what to do, u are scared to ask ur husband or tell him ..slowly she is talking about her insecurities her issues to him .This will take time also i feel even as a married woman given that i have worked all my years i would be very awkward to spend his money should i leave my job initially cause i am not used to it.
On the contrary i see my stay at home friends being more comfortable.

Let me give u an example i was between jobs when i moved from CA to Boston and there was a period of 3 months without job during my second  year of marriage, and my husbands bday fell in  i wanted to get him something on my own so i went to coaching class (i had work permit)and work edfor $10 per hour for 2 months and got money to get him a camera..very very stupid now i wouldnt have that kind of attitude but initially i did..
So i dont know if its Iyer mentality /middle class mentality but taking someone else's money takes a bit of getting used to .

Regarding bold the fact remains Iyers ,may be all middle class dads have a HUGE problem taking money from their kids in my case both son/daughter my dad still believes in giving us money and will throw a fit should we pay and will say we spend without looking and still feel i should be more efficient with my grocery and no ,no IYER dad will like money from his SIL and there is war even in my house now too LOLLOL

So for me every bit of what Nisha wrote is spot on doesn't make it right but i get it this is how it is Big smile.. and this Bala giving to R&B was wrong Bala and Vandu are also going through a tough time toh may not have thought through.

Thanks so much dear for the explanation. I get it now. Basically it's II's values and R&B s super rich status that's making the tale so interesting no? 
Parents not taking kids money/ help is there in my culture also. Especially if they are married. They think once your son/daughter is married they are a separate family. This husband/wife equation was the one that left me baffled. Now I get your point. 
Like you said what happened now is baffling.Appa sending money and Vandu and Bala agreeing is confusing. But let's wait for Nisha . She always surprises us with the most plausible explanation. Thanks again TanjoreGirlSmile



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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:10am | IP Logged
Anu your response to SA1234 is spot on, I will also add, Bala had no clue about R&B and II financial dynamics, Appa has no clue either.

They are all assuming, II is happily spending R&B's money and they have one or many joint accounts, returning it to R&B is a "normal" thing.

Very rarely I have seen exponentially wealthy people with a good heart, R&B is one... he doesnt brag about it, doesnt wear Being Human teesCry (Yep, I will have to take pot shots at the brave unflinching warrior that saved India from annihilation todayClapClap) but nevertheless he is a good guy

He is appalled that Bala actually returned Rs. 25,000. He doesnt pity Vandu and Bala but feels Bala's act is grossly inappropriate

Very few people I know in the world will say "No" to money that rightfully belongs to them or their spouse.

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:14am | IP Logged
I'm a bit confused
Why will R&B be angry at bala returning the money
And why was He sad before, when he was cuddling with II
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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:15am | IP Logged
No wonder everyone wants to be exponentially rich in India. You can get away with murder.
Cry so so so true and sooo sad Nisha u can get away with murder , finally its clear what they show in movies is right ,villains get away with murder
And thanks for the Bala /Appa explanation didnt occur to me they would think she would have a joint account.. I thought given how independent she is they would have assumed too..
Pavam #RaIIRaMi

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:19am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ishra368

I'm a bit confused
Why will R&B be angry at bala returning the money
And why was He sad before, when he was cuddling with II


R&B cannot be happy receiving money from Bala correct? Why will he be happy? He considers Bala and Vandu as his own, he considers the Iyers as his own, when he gets money he feels upset

I am sorry I cannot explain betterCry

No philosophical , meaningful reason for why he cuddled with his wife, I try not to use symbolism and "deep" meaning stuff in the story... I watched a a show years ago where a gal used to analyze every hand move and leg movement of the leads with "deep deep" symbolism.LOL
That put me off completely from using symbolism...

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Posted: 08 May 2015 at 7:22am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ishra368

I'm a bit confused
Why will R&B be angry at bala returning the money
And why was He sad before, when he was cuddling with II

I would murder my SIL if she returned money i gave my dad for my wedding to my husband who is clueless..
R&B and II dont care about money and not expect money to be returned..its like say u helped a friend cook food when she is sick would you like it if her husband came and gave ur husband 25 dollars for cooking.Cry
II knew the wedding was way above budget so she gave her dad the money now if it comes back its not fair right..

So this entire money thing has become a jalebi iyers are returning 25k that II gave her dad and Vik is asking 14 crores without telling Manny now we will all worry ..LOL at this rate jr Savvy kaise ayegiLOL

i want a Ranjan update now .. he is the most human person of all bechara is suffering for no fault of his and people are getting away with murder here ..Angry

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